In my heart, I have always complained about my parents, thinking that they are too partial.

1. Be sure to adjust your mentality, some things are not something that can be obtained by looking back now.

2. The palms and backs of the hands are all parents', and I believe they will also see it.

3. I don't know why you came out to work at the age of 14, this is your own choice, of course, if you have your own conditions, I believe that the original idea was to help your family improve their lives. As a person has more and more experience, personal feelings become more and more selfish, hoping to obtain the greatest protection.

4. Your brother-in-law said that the house that the family bought for his brother has your money, but I don't know why I feel as if he is trying to stir up the situation, at least when you and your parents compete for those things, he can also get them. Don't be fooled.

5. I don't care about anything else if I do my best in this family, the four sisters can unite with each other and help each other, I believe that everyone is good in this way, and it is also good for anyone.

6. Don't worry about anything, the world is unfair, the point is to see what kind of eyes you use to look at it.

I can only want to open some. Now your brothers and sisters are also reading books. You don't need to give any more money, you have to run your own little family well.

After all, your husband and children are the center of gravity in your life. If your siblings don't treat you well, don't be stupid.

Ignorant loser mentality!

As losers in life, they forcibly tilt their emotional garbage on their children, and they are unaware of the negative impact they have brought to their children for a lifetime.

Every adult should take responsibility for themselves, especially as a parent. You have to take responsibility for your share and not try to pass the cause and effect onto someone else (especially your own children). We must fully understand the difference between humans and animals, and raising offspring is not enough to meet the basic material conditions, in addition to survival, there should be a higher requirement, that is, education.

In fact, in addition to the material foundation, the education of children and the structure of the environment in which children grow up are also very important, and in some cases even the structure of the growth environment is more important than the simple material conditions.

Because a person's character development has a very important relationship with the family environment in which he lives, the so-called teaching by word and deed is imperceptibly this truth. If parents only know sarcasm and complaining, then the most cheerful child will become introverted, sensitive and unconfident. If you're lucky, under the positive influence of your teachers and friends at school, you can gradually get rid of it as you grow older.

If you are unlucky, you will only become more and more introverted and unconfident under the infection of long-term negative emotions of your parents, laying the groundwork for the tragedy in your future life.

And the most important thing is that this kind of parents are very self-absorbed and stubborn, and basically cannot communicate with them with reason. So, when you realize the problem, the best thing to do is to disconnect from the environment (don't take your parents' complaints too seriously, and don't try to get help from the other person except for the help you have to seek) rather than trying to communicate (nothing will come of anything other than an argument).

In fact, most parents care for their children, and some parents just don't know how to educate their children, have a low level of education, and don't know how to encourage their children. Always use that kind of sarcasm and sarcasm to express the kind of psychological state that your expectations for your children cannot be met. Historically, the more this has been done, the harder it has been for children to succeed.

But we, as children, have no way to change our parents. Then you can't let your parents increase their knowledge. You can only change yourself and try to succeed to prove everything.

Most children love their parents! It needs to be pointed out that love does not have to live together, people grow up with their own ideas and want to live, and it is normal not to want to live with my parents, which does not mean that I do not love my parents. I am willing to leave my parents and have my own family, whether it is one person or three people, this is the process of my growth from my original family and starting to form my own nuclear family.

How can I tell if I was only financially dependent on my parents or loved them? It's very simple, I don't need to spend my parents' money now, and I don't live under the same roof with my parents, but I still miss them, if something happens to them, I will be very worried and anxious, even if I am not together, I am still very emotionally dependent on them! Even if I don't have to do anything for my parents anymore, it means a lot to me that they are still alive and well!

As long as they are healthy and happy to coexist with me on the same planet, this is happiness in itself!!

In your own home, you always feel that your parents are eccentric, you can understand that you are sad, in a family with many children, there will always be such a situation of parental eccentricity, and children with many brothers and sisters in the family feel the same way, but as parents often ignore this, they are busy with work, busy taking care of children, busy doing housework, and often hurt the neglected children, in fact, this is not the original intention of parents.

It is not easy for parents to take care of the family, the pressure of life makes it difficult for them to balance their love for their children, which child is also their blood, their heart, as a child to understand their parents more, it is not easy to understand them. I think you can communicate more with your parents:

First:Talk calmly with your parents in your spare time, don't be angry with your parents, tell your parents that you are not doing well, and hope that your emotions and feelings will be taken into account in the future, and your parents will reflect and understand you.

For example, if a family eats together, and there are only two chicken legs left on the table, and your mother has given them to your younger brother, then you must feel very aggrieved, because you are also a child and you are hungry for chicken legs, so you clearly tell your mother that you also want to eat one. Some requests can be made on your own, don't take your grievances to heart.

At this time, my mother will reflect and clip a chicken leg for you, or make a few more chicken legs next time, everyone can do it again.

Second:In a family, parents often take the most care of the youngest child, they need more care for the youngest child, sometimes ignore the older child, as long as the parents are not too partial, as an older brother or sister is more generous, don't worry about the parents.

Every child is the heart of their parents, they all love their children, and when you have a problem, they will also protect you with their lives. For example, if you are bullied by your classmates at school, your parents will be angry and look for teachers and classmates who bully you to be angry for you.

For another example, if you are wronged in your in-law's family after you get married, whether it is your parents or siblings, they are the most anxious and concerned about you, they will always be your strong backing, and the blood and family relationship is constantly cut.

The above is my personal opinion, I hope it helps you!

If you have more than one sibling in your family and often feel that your parents are biased, you should have an effective communication with your parents at this time. See if you can solve your own inner problems.

First of all, you should tell your parents that you are really eccentric, and then you also need to explain to your parents why you feel that your parents are partial, and what is the specific thing to express clearly, so that your parents will know what to do next time.

I think you can tell your parents that it's not right for you to do this, and that it makes me feel sad, and I hope you can get rid of your bad patriarchal habits.

In fact, I may feel very angry at first, but when the anger is gone, I think that after all, it is my biological parents, so everything can be forgiven.

A bowl of water is uneven. Those who say this are generally the children of the elderly in rural areas, who accuse the old people of favoring this child but not that child. It should be said that in the countryside, this phenomenon is very widespread.

The main reason is that Qi Xiao is the following three points. The first reason is that absolute fairness does not exist, not only the elderly in rural areas, but also ourselves, cannot achieve absolute justice. Some people are leftists and like equality; Some people are right and like to be free.

But no one is an absolute centrist, you have to be partial.

The second reason is that the elderly in rural areas generally have several children, and the personalities of these children are different. In the past, there was such a saying, "The boss is stupid, the second is sharp, and the naughty and mischievous number is the third". For the old man, he may like one personality and not the other.

Correspondingly, he will like children with this kind of personality.

The third reason is that when the children of the elderly reach adulthood, they always have to "separate". And in the process of separation, it is inevitable that there will be unfairness of one kind or another. In the past, when we were working collectively, when everyone shared the grain, some people would complain that they looked relatively small, let alone divide the family?

Rural people do not hide their affairs, and if they have to express any complaints, it is easy to cause discord between brothers and sisters.

The above three reasons can be said to summarize several possibilities for the phenomenon of "uneven end of a bowl of water" in rural areas. But I still think that we just need to do our own thing and have a high level of knowledge, and there is no need to compare between brothers and sisters. Because no matter what, a harmonious family is the backing of a person's career, right?

I think parents are very partial.

This is also quite normal.

So what to do to keep your soul from being hurt, is not to be distracted, to have a strong heart and a firm will, to learn the power of wisdom to protect oneself.

My parents are very partial, I don't really care about it, and sometimes I feel uncomfortable when I say what is in my heart, but when I think about the niece of my colleague's parents, it is very normal for my parents to be a little biased sometimes, so I understand.

My parents are very partial, what should I do? Parents don't have any partiality or partiality, because they are all raised by himself, what kind of partiality does he have, you see that she is partial, but her parents are not partial, they are all raised by themselves, parents are partial, it is normal that they may be biased, don't think too much.

Parents are very partial, what should I do, you can talk to your parents about your thoughts on this matter, let your parents know what you are doing inappropriately, let your parents know what you think, and then you can be yourself.

You have to work hard to improve yourself, get rid of your parents as soon as possible, and be able to support yourself by yourself, so that you will not be angry.

You can tell your parents how you feel, let them know that they are too partial to you, and if they know, they will change their opinion of you.

First of all, you should sit down calmly, communicate well with your parents, say everything you want to say, and let your parents know what you think. Second, you must have a good attitude, maybe you are wrong to blame your parents, parents treat their children the same in their hearts, and the palms and backs of their hands are meat.

Tell you responsibly that you can't communicate with eccentric parents, and if you deviate, you will be biased until you die, and it depends on whether you believe in this evil or not! No matter how much you pay for them, it can't compare to the kindness they gave birth to you! , this is cause and effect, you have to accept your fate, if you want to, just leave it with them, don't care about it, don't give them pension, it depends on whether you can do it, it's as simple as that!

Don't think that if you communicate with them, they will recognize that they are not doing well, don't dream, the child who is favored is even a puddle of mud on the ground, as long as the parents like it, it is like a treasure!

For parents, the palms and backs of the hands are all meat.

Although in some things they will be a little biased.

But it's all their children, and they're all going to love.

If your parents give you little love, you can talk to them and don't be noisy.

If you don't change, then calm down and think about whether you are doing something inadequate.

Since you are a sister, first of all, you should be generous; Then there is the fact that you calm down, talk to your parents, communicate your views with your parents well, and hope to get their understanding; And I think that your parents may care more about your sister because she is not as sensible as you, you don't need to dwell on this, you should be kind to your sister, don't be like your sister, then maybe your parents will change their opinion of you. I think your parents know best in their hearts, you better study hard, make achievements in the future, show your parents, and let your sister have to admire you!

Be honest with your parents and your parents, talk about the topic with all fairness, and tell your parents that either child is your treasure and should not be biased.

Affirm that you are not good, but what you do is not as good as others, sometimes you are lazy, the big hobby, you should be really angry, for your own true light, welcome your parents are optimistic, I believe you will change everything,

Parents naturally have their own reasons for partiality, and in fact every parent loves every child. If you have any opinions, tell your parents face to face, and your parents will pay attention.

What else can I do, I want to make myself more independent, make myself more motivated, and become better. He will only pay attention to you if you yourself get better. Otherwise, he will always be biased.