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Yes, but there are definitely a lot of people who say you're wrong.
Because there are so many more bad people than good people now, and there are very few good people like you anymore.
I'm in my first year of high school now, and I was like you when I was in junior high school, but then when I went to high school, I found that there were too many people who took advantage of people, so in that environment, it was impossible for me to ignore those people, so I also changed and became like them, so I could balance it.
If you can find a balance, then stick to your principles.
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When the water is clear, there are no fish.
Being a good person does not mean that you do the most right thing and have the most clear conscience.
It's done to everyone's satisfaction.
People who like people are good people.
Not taking advantage is certainly not a disadvantage.
But you really don't take advantage of it at all, and it is inevitable that some people will say that you are hypocritical and pretentious.
This is contrary to your original intention.
Why bother.
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1 If you don't take advantage, you are a good person, and the standard of a good person is not high. If there is a murderer who does not take advantage, is he considered a good person?
2 If a colleague eats half of an apple and you secretly cut a slice and eats it, people may think you are cute, not that you like to take advantage and are not a good person.
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Don't take things so absolutely.
Good people often help others.
According to your ideas, if you help others, you will not be seen as someone taking advantage of you
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Hehe, it's too stereotypical! Is a kind of interaction between each other to take advantage? I can't understand it that way.
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You're right in your mind, and I've got your back
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I've got your back, that's good.
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There is a saying: Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there are disputes. Why is there a strife?
It's just a clash of interests. Even the so-called struggle of will is essentially a conflict of interests. And the interests mentioned here are material money, and in layman's terms, the so-called disputes are just for money.
I've seen so many arguments over money, some people fighting for a few dollars, and some people losing their lives to get someone a little money. I've also seen an even more outrageous news that someone is out for a dollar at the table, it's just stupid. I also remember the news that the owner of a certain powder shop somewhere was cut off because of the temporary starting price, it was not worth it.
Because I have seen too much and understand the truth of "taking advantage of small advantages and suffering big losses", I have never taken advantage of others. If anyone thinks I'm taking advantage of anyone, they can say it. Maybe there is, but I did unintentionally, or I didn't realize it at all.
It's true that sometimes it's not clear who loses whom, and it's true that sometimes it's just a confused account.
I always thought that whoever plows will reap; Who pays, who benefits. In line with this principle, I do not take advantage of anyone.
In one thing, whoever contributes to it will have merit. In a transaction, whoever pays for the money is theirs. That said, it should be correct, no problem. So so, I don't take advantage of anyone.
In short, I don't take advantage of others, I don't take advantage of others. I want to pursue my own pursuit with hard work, and I want to fight for my own struggle with my ability.
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Summary. Hello, according to what you said, you must be more responsive to others in your life and friends, and you are willing to help others with their requirements and things, and because of such a character and way of doing things, it is easy for the other party to think that your good is deserved, and in the long run, the other party will habitually possess your advantages, because they all know that you will most likely not refuse.
Why do people around me like to take advantage of me, is it because I'm too easy to bully? Who is more likely to be taken advantage of by others?
Hello, according to what you said, you must be more responsive to others in your life and friends, and you are willing to help others with their requirements and things, and because of such a character and way of doing things, it is easy for the other party to think that your good is deserved, and in the long run, the other party will habitually possess your advantages, because they all know that you will most likely not refuse.
That is to say: people with a kind personality and are not good at rejecting others are easy to be taken advantage of by others.
It's your own heart that's doing the trick, there's nothing wrong with that, the suspicion is indeed a bit heavy, you should be unconfident, or even a little inferior, but it's really not necessary, everyone is equal, no one can do anything to whom, everything is good, otherwise it's yourself who is sad.
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