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In fact, real liking is not measured by material, my husband is about the same as your boyfriend, but I know that he is good to me, usually reluctant to wear it, reluctant to use it, but he is never stingy when it is critical, you should think about it from his standpoint.
When you are sick, did he say that he was reluctant to spend money?
My husband told me that I can't eat this, it's not good for my health, that I can't eat it, I will get angry, and these things that he can't eat are my favorites, so I never think he's stingy. Because some things are really bad for the body when eaten.
Think about it.
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Maybe he has his own ideas.
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It's just that you're thinking too much.
Don't you think you should save money?
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My husband is the same. But if you don't care, you'll be fine!
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It's about not picking on the people you like.
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It may be that don't do ** air conditioning, don't be too stingy with the people you like, be general with other people, don't treat the people you like and others without discrimination, and make the people you like feel that they seem to be different and special to you, for example, you will only share delicious food with her, only hang out with her and so on.
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I don't think you're being particularly selfish, but you're just thinking a little bit more. You are afraid that after the notes you have compiled are used by others, your grades will improve more than yourself. It's understandable, so let's take a look at my experience.
There are many manifestations of selfishness, the most common of which is not caring for others when eating. When I was in my first relationship, when my boyfriend went to dinner with me, he never took care of me, never asked me what I wanted to eat when he ordered, but would gobble it up as soon as he ordered it.
I remember one time I wanted to eat spicy food, but the other party felt that I couldn't eat spicy food, I wanted to put some chili peppers on my own, and the other party thought I was hypocritical. I know that the other party can't eat spicy food, I should understand, but why don't you buy two servings when you buy food, one is spicy and the other is not spicy.
Later, the two of us also broke up because of the meal, and in the end, this person became more and more excessive, and it didn't matter if I was full or not during the meal. When the two of us eat, we often pay for the AA system, but every time I always can't eat, because after the meal comes, the other party eats half of it, and the remaining half, and the two of us are half of each other, this kind of life makes me feel particularly aggrieved.
Once I went to eat Malatang with the other party, I went to get the soup, but I didn't expect the other party to eat all the dishes, and ate all the dishes I liked, at that moment, I felt that this person was really not suitable to live together, because it was too selfish.
With a selfish person, you may not even have enough to eat, which is not an exaggeration at all, because I have experienced it myself. Therefore, if a person is particularly selfish when eating, don't be with this person, because after being with this person, you can't even solve your own stomach.
Friends, please don't be so pessimistic, love is not that it doesn't belong to you, but that the love that belongs to you hasn't come yet. I have also had the thought of you, seeing that the person I like doesn't like me or doesn't know that I like him, that feeling is very uncomfortable, like a knife cut, sometimes sad, sad and feels like a year. However, there is always a time when you are sober, and when you are sober, ask yourself, will fate be unfair to you? >>>More
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It's a kind of psychology that I like.
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It should be a little interesting to you, so find a chance to ask directly, otherwise it will be so uncomfortable to rest assured.
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