Will you eat your father in law s leftovers? Please, thank you

Definitely don't eat it, I don't eat anyone's leftovers, my husband eats my leftovers, hehe, I hate PP too, she always puts the leftovers on the table (sometimes put it for n days, it doesn't go down when it spoils, let me say it) to my husband's bowl, but my husband sometimes eats too much and doesn't eat it, so he pours it out! View the original post

Hey, what kind of people have it, such a mother-in-law is so hateful, she doesn't even cook your food, doesn't she cook your husband's food, if you are a husband, you will eat your husband's food directly, and she will be angry with her, if you don't ask me to eat, I want to eat, if you can't do it, you can go outside and buy some food you like to eat outside, and when you come back. View the original post

Your mother-in-law is really careful, I don't eat my husband's leftovers, let alone my father-in-law's, but my husband eats my leftovers[:em41:] I won't cook for you like this, so can you serve you without her, look at her face, it's better not to use her[:

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Landlord, didn't your husband reflect??? He's too cowardly, and you're going to have to suffer ...... in the futureIf my mother-in-law treats me like this, I will go back to my parents' house directly, why are I pregnant with your baby now, and I will end up with no food??? Such a mother-in-law, she knelt down and begged me to eat, I would not eat her cooking again, it was too much......Fortunately, my mother-in-law was very kind to me......View the original post

Your mother-in-law is so unreasonable! The daughter-in-law eats her father-in-law's leftovers, and she is not cooking for you! [:em28:] View the original post

It's disgusting, too. I never eat leftovers, let alone other people's, and I won't eat my own leftovers. em40:] View original post

I want to vomit when I hear it, how can I eat my father-in-law's leftovers!? She felt that she didn't waste it, so she ate it herself. It's so unhygienic, if you eat leftovers, will they eat them? View the original post

What a disgusting mother-in-law, what a quirk, why do you want to eat your father-in-law's leftovers? My in-laws pay attention to it, and they have touched and eaten it, and they will never give it to their children, for fear that they will be dirty View the original post

I don't eat my husband's, let alone my father-in-law's[:em28:] em28:] View the original post

I'm sure I won't eat it, it's disgusting. Don't cook your rice, it's even more excessive View the original post".

Don't talk about your father-in-law, you shouldn't even have your husband's What hygiene habits should you have? Your mother-in-law will not coordinate it if you do this, won't your husband coordinate it? View the original post

The landlord's mother-in-law was too cautious and didn't even cook. I won't eat my father-in-law's leftovers. View the original post

Maybe the mother-in-law thinks that they are all her own family, and there is nothing unhygienic, and it is a pity to waste it, after all, these things are bought with money, and if you can not waste it, you will not waste it.

But now we all know that eating leftovers for a long time is not good for the body, so we should persuade my mother-in-law to cook less when cooking, and also tell my father-in-law and husband not to let my mother-in-law eat leftovers, which will affect your health.

Didn't your parents go through the days of not having enough to eat? If your husband and father-in-law care for her enough, there should be no leftovers, and the most important thing is to persuade your mother-in-law to cook every meal according to everyone's meal, and would rather be hungry than hold on.

It was the habit of not wasting food because of the difficulties in the family in the past, and eating leftovers was definitely not as good as what was made now, but it was a pity that it was wasted, and she didn't think about it so much.

Eating leftovers is definitely not good, your mother-in-law may be a habit left over from the previous family when the conditions were not good, and you don't want to waste food Many older generations have this habit.

I think your mother-in-law is a thrifty housekeeper, because she is a person who has suffered a lot, and it is not easy to go all the way.

Your mother-in-law should be used to being diligent and thrifty.

I don't dislike the leftovers of my husband and children.

But I don't think it's a good habit.

Since it's leftovers, you can do without it.

Elderly people are generally very thrifty and thrifty. It is good to have such an old man, and at least there is a great benefit to the family. This can be regarded as a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but it is better to let your mother-in-law eat less of these leftovers, which is not good for your health.

You should tell your mother-in-law that next time you want to eat, sit down and eat together, don't eat leftovers, the leftover germs are not good for your health, and if you are sick, it may infect the whole family, so just throw it out next time!

The older generation of people have suffered a lot and are thrifty, and when they see leftovers, they have to eat them, and they think that throwing away the food is a wasteful behavior, and they are reluctant to waste a mouthful of food unless they have to.

It's a pity to pour it out, so I eat it in my stomach.

It's not good for your health, but your mother-in-law doesn't want to waste it.

The older generation is very frugal, but sometimes it is not good for the body and unscientific. Leftovers, especially cabbage, are easy to have nitrite and cause cancer if they are left for a long time. If you feel sorry for her, you can speak out and persuade her, or ask your husband to persuade him.

You don't have to live with your parents-in-law, but if you don't live together, you have to talk about it and discuss it well.

Now that I feel a little uncomfortable at first, I have to discuss with my husband not to have conflicts or accumulate resentment with the elderly. If possible, it is best to live separately from your parents-in-law.

It doesn't have to be lived together;

If you sell your current house, you can buy your own house and divide it out;

In this way, there is a distance, so that there is no contradiction of bumps and bumps in living together.

Find your man to sum up, don't be here, complain, no one cares about you, who sympathizes with you.

Let's tell you, communicate with your mother-in-law if you have nothing to do, 1 week, it's almost, you have to understand your mother-in-law, she is so old, the Internet doesn't know, you have to let him understand the benefits of the Internet, you can also, use the Internet, let your children learn more knowledge, so your mother-in-law is not willing?

What kind of wonderful family is this? Nowadays, this phenomenon is rare in rural areas. It turned out that there was a bad custom in the countryside that women and children were not allowed to sit at the main table.

Men can meet guests in the living room, while women cook in the middle of the kitchen for guests or their own men. You can only eat until the guests have dispersed.

That's what many people in rural areas talk about when they are interviewedNow that the living conditions in the countryside are good, they will not save rice and vegetables as they did before, greet guests, and try to let guests taste the best food, but can only grieve the leftovers of their own families.

The idea of equality between men and women has long been permeated in the rural areas. Except for housewives who can't serve dishes because they have to prepare dishes in the kitchen, there is no phenomenon of male superiority and inferiority of women.

And this father-in-law is really wonderful, what kind of etiquette is this? Women are not allowed to serve on the table. This kind of patriarchal thinking of male superiority and inferiority of women is definitely not only reflected in the dinner table. So definitely a divorce.

At the very least, the gesture of divorce is a wake-up call for them. The feudal inequality of male superiority and inferiority of women is long overdue.

I remember the first time I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law asked me to cook for her daughters and sons, and repeatedly told me to be polite. I was a girl who grew up in the city, and my parents raised me to be equal between men and women, and I thought it was funny that she was asked to be a little low.

I just got a glass of boiling water and didn't even go into the kitchen。Since then, I haven't even entered the door of my mother-in-law's house. Until now, I don't call my mother-in-law.

My husband and I are married, and that's our own business. It doesn't have much to do with my in-laws.

This is my rebellion against the so-called unequal relationship.

Is this kind of thing a regular occurrence or is it an occasional thing? If it's occasional, then there's no need to divorce because of it. If it is recurrent, it means that your status in your in-laws' family is too low, and it is understandable that you divorced because of this.

I feel that you may be a bit one-sided about this matter, if your mother-in-law's house is a male guest, it must be your father-in-law and husband who accompany the guests to eat, and you women wait for the guests to finish eating. If it's a female guest, I'll definitely let your mother-in-law accompany you. This may be a custom and cannot be seen as discrimination against you, not to mention that the women in your family are treated like this.

There is this custom in our hometown, if there are male guests in the house, they are all accompanied by men in the family, and some have to find a few close disciples to accompany them, and the women and children in the family are waiting for the guests to eat before eating. In the same way, if there is a female guest in the house, it is the woman of the family who accompanies them.

It's just that this custom slowly changed, and now there are not so many rules, whether male or female guests come, everyone in the family eats together.

Two people need to understand each other when they get married and live, and they can't divorce because of a trivial matter. After all, divorce is not child's play, and it is not good for either person. If you have something you don't like in your in-law's house, you might as well say it and see how your husband explains it, maybe it's because of customs.

If your husband is usually good to you in other things, the two of you can still go on. If your husband usually treats you badly, doesn't respect you at all, and you don't have any status in the family, then you can consider divorce.

Not excessive. When you give birth to a girl and take her to hide in the corner to eat. When your daughter is sitting at the dinner table and is kicked down by her father-in-law or your husband.

When your daughter asks you why your brother and brother can eat at the table and she can't. You'll know.

Not excessively, such a family has no respect for women and is easily wronged.

Not excessive. A family with incorrect views and inferior men and women is not allowed to stay.

It's not too much, even if there is such a custom at home, there are restaurants in the countryside now, and you can send food to your home to eat together. Two women, a mother and a wife, he can be indifferent and can see how selfish this man is.

Not excessive. I know it's a traditional practice in some areas. You can accept it, or you can change it. It is also possible to divorce far.

Leave it. It is now a feminist society, and the status of women should be taken seriously, and such discrimination should be resolutely opposed.

First of all, remember that your marriage is based on your relationship with your husband. Divorce or not, happiness or not, others can't give you objective and true opinions on the basis of not knowing your feelings, you can only be greedy, and you can only be harmful if you listen to it. To add, if your husband is fine, it's just the pressure of your mother-in-law's bad habits.

With your culture and knowledge, you have the strength to crush a mother-in-law who has been poisoned by tradition, and no matter how you use words to hurt her, she will not be your opponent. You shouldn't abandon your husband and run away without a fight to an opponent you can crush.

It's not too much, this kind of macho in-law must not stay, and in the end it will suffer, and it is himself who is the cow and the horse.

Hello. There are some families that have such traditions.

More traditional housewives don't serve at the table.

If you divorce just because of this one thing, it's a bit too much.

It's not too much at all, this kind of typical male-inferior family, in which women will only be treated as nannies and old mothers. Divorce is strongly supported.

Not excessively, such behavior obviously looks down on you, and there is no basic respect.

It's not too much, it's not taken seriously in my in-law's house, I've always been angry, and my life is not easy.

Generally, if you go to your in-laws' house, you will also be treated as a guest, and if there are special circumstances, you will also be left with food in advance, rather than letting you eat leftovers. In addition, you yourself should tell your in-laws about your habits in advance. In many rural places, it is like this, you yourself say it in advance and fight for your rights.

Generally, this situation will not occur, and if this situation still occurs, the husband will scold the husband if he does not act. It's not too much to divorce if you dare to reply.

Not excessive. When two people live together, they should respect each other and have the same three views.

It's not too much, although there are still rumors that women don't serve at the table, but basically it's a men's table and a woman's table, or women eat in the kitchen in advance. When the guest's husband wants to accompany the wine, there is no need to come over at this time, it is really too much to eat leftovers.

Divorce is a bit over, and it is necessary to fight and let them gradually break this habit. When I was young, my family was like this, but now it has changed, and I can basically achieve equality between men and women.

When I was a child, I didn't understand why men ate first and women and children ate last, and we all starved to death when they drank for so long......

Not excessive, if bai occasionally one.

Du twice is understandable, as long as the visitor can't sit down.

DAO is disrespectful to the inside! Don't talk about anything.

Customs, according to the old customs, women don't need to make money to support their families at all, why don't you talk about it! Living now and doing things according to the current rules, it is really not enough to sit at two tables, or eat next to the vegetables, there is no reason to wait to eat leftovers!

In our family, if we are either husband or father-in-law, we can wait for the ladies to eat, but we must eat all the dishes together. Before, because I had to coax the child, sometimes my husband would coax me to eat first, and sometimes he would keep the dishes I liked first, and wouldn't let me eat leftovers, in fact, it doesn't matter if I eat leftovers, what matters is how much he values you.