What can you understand by experiencing the pain of others?

If a person does not have a wealth of emotions, no matter how talented he is, he is at best a part of a machine. Abundant emotions are a guarantee of happiness in a person's life. He who does not know that he who experiences the pain of others has no feelings in his heart, and there is no pain, joy, sorrow, and fear, nothing.

What a terrible life for such a person! Although people live, they only have emptiness in their hearts, and they cannot experience beauty and goodness, nor ugliness and evil. What is the difference between living and dying for such a person?

Forgiveness is the greatest self-protection, understanding is the greatest self-liberation, and happiness is to have a true heart. Economic growth and happiness are not the same thing, having money does not mean happiness, we must cultivate optimism, cultivate innovative thinking, cultivate humorous qualities, and cultivate a grateful heart. The highest state of life is to live clearly, live happily, some things are serious, and some are not serious, you will be happy.

Everyone's experience is limited, and while experiencing the pain of others, it is extending one's own life, and if it is handled well, it can make one's own life thicker. Of course, if you can help others out of difficult situations, you will not only feel a sense of happiness in your heart, but also a sense of accomplishment yourself. Face up to suffering.

You can get experience that you don't normally get.

And learn to empathize.

You'll know when you experience it.

The inability to engage with others for what they really feel can be a psychological barrier. This state of mind can have a variety of causes, including personal experiences, relationship problems, emotional disorders, and self-protection mechanisms.

One possible explanation is the lack of empathy. Empathy refers to the ability to understand and appreciate or amuse the emotions of others. People can put themselves in the situation of others and experience the emotions and feelings they experience when empathizing.

However, some people may lack this ability for a variety of reasons, resulting in an inability to truly understand and experience the feelings of others.

In addition, excessive self-attention can also lead to an inability to engage in the feelings of others. When an individual is overly concerned about his own needs, emotions, and interests, it is difficult to truly care about the feelings and needs of others. This state of mind may stem from an individual's need for self-preservation or a self-centered way of thinking.

Mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, or relationship problems, can also lead to an inability to truly engage with other people's feelings. These problems can interfere with the emotional connection and empathy between the individual and others.

Whatever the reason for not being able to engage with the true feelings of others, it is worth noting that this can be changed and developed. By seeking professional support or counselling, people can explore their own psychological barriers and develop empathy skills to better understand and care about the feelings of others.

In fact, this is a good thing, because you have not experienced the pain of others, because you have not experienced it, to show that life is very wishful, why do you have to experience the pain of others?

If you haven't experienced it, you can't feel the pain of others. Other people's pain has been on you for ten years, and you will endure it, because you don't have the pain of luck, and selling Liang is someone else's pain. There are many things that can only be empathized with if you have experienced them.

Because there is no real empathy in the world, you have not become the other person's character, and you have not been able to think from his point of view, how can you experience the pain and wisdom of the other party of the Fan clan?

As the sun sank in the west, the ink gradually gathered outside the window, I raised my head and twisted my sore neck, rubbed my dry and sore eyes, the time of the day passed quietly, a large amount of information poured in, interested, touched, "swallowed" can't go down, at this moment, I was a little dizzy, immersed in the brainstorming of feeling the "pain" of others.

Uncle Akiba once said in his blog that Yi Ren Yongcheng had gone through all his blog posts, even the ones that Akiba thought were of poor quality in the early days. For newcomers, we don't want to look at other people's things systematically, and feel that this time is not worth it. In fact, an efficient actor like Yi Ren Yongcheng, such a big bull, is precisely because he has such a deep and rigorous spirit, he can quickly turn the ideas of the great gods into his own ideas, and his level is rapidly improved, which is the real learning ability.

Every bull who is now standing on the cusp has an unknown growth experience. They have a keen mind and can analyze future profit trends; Have a strong learning ability, delve into new things and expand new fields; There is perseverance that ordinary people can't reach, and they have insisted on every small step for several years. People who can succeed are definitely not just luck, we see that many people succeed, and more people are constantly cultivating on the road to success, after all, most people fall into the darkness before the dawn.

Why do you become more and more confused? Why does it feel worse when you are very thoughtful and hardworking? It is said that as long as you are willing to work hard, it is never too late, but I feel that all roads are difficult, and even the direction of the future is always vague.

Some people say that pain is because of thinking, and only by going deep can we clearly understand ourselves, and people who are not aware of pain are because of the superficiality of cognition and the dullness of the current situation. If it is always painful and you can't experience the happiness in it, then the path you choose is definitely not for you. Walking through every road, there must be difficulties, but its trend is that the road is getting wider and wider, the steps are getting firmer and firmer, and the physical and mental state is getting better and better.

Experience an activity together: Have a glass of water on the table, hold it, hold it close to your mouth, and drink it in one sitting. How do you feel when the experience ends?

Everyone will feel inexplicable, what is this experience? What is the purpose of this? It's a simple experiment about challenge and fulfillment, as you can see, after drinking water, the work is not difficult, not challenging at all, we completed it, but there is no sense of accomplishment to speak of.

Goals that can be easily achieved do not create a sense of accomplishment. The real strong people only experience a lasting sense of accomplishment after climbing one peak after another.

A happy place does not exercise people, and the uphill road is difficult to walk, but you can meet beauty. If I were asked to repeat the growth goal of drinking water every day, so that I could see the end of the road at a glance, I would definitely not choose. I also longed to overcome difficulties, strengthen myself, and experience the joy of hardship.

Exploring the footprints of the growth of the strong, drumming up, and immersing myself in it, this road is the right choice for me, and this road will never be in vain.

Have you ever heard of "contentment is always happy"?

I've definitely heard of it. But although many people know this sentence, very few really understand and do it.

That's why people always feel more pain than happiness. And people don't know how to cherish until they lose.

People are always not satisfied and disdain all the happiness they get. I never experience the feeling of happiness, and once the pain comes, all the feelings are projected onto the pain, so I will feel why there is so much pain and so little happiness.

In fact, maybe there is as much happiness as there is pain, and the world is very fair, or maybe there is more happiness than pain, but because you don't feel it, because you don't care about it, you can't feel it, and you naturally feel that there is more pain than happiness.

It is said that the pain of the expectant mother during childbirth is like breaking twelve bones at the same time, what kind of pain is it, in fact, the expectant father is not very sure, after all, what he sees is just a description. In fact, you can experience the labor pains and at the same time feel the difficulty of expectant mothers. The time to test your courage has come, dare to go?

Before you go to experience, Mawang Encyclopedia will first tell you what kind of experience it is to experience labor pains.

What is Labor Pain Simulator?

Labor pain simulator, which is still a relatively novel medical instrument in China, but it is this instrument that allows expectant fathers to experience the feeling of giving birth, and at the same time experience the difficulty of expectant mothers.

This device first analyzes the intensity of labor pains in women, and can set the pain level according to the different labor periods, let the electric current pass through the abdomen of the experiencer, and then use the current intensity to indicate the labor pain intensity.

Pain level. Grades 1-3 on the labor pain simulator are mild pain and sleep is not affected; Grade 4-6 is moderate pain and sleep will be affected; Grade 7-10 is severe pain, which can already make ordinary people feel unbearable pain and seriously affect sleep. Generally, during childbirth, the pain will reach 7 to 9 levels, and a small number of people will feel 10 levels.

And this pain is not for a moment, but for several hours. Under normal circumstances, childbirth will last 6 to 8 hours, or even longer, and the continuous pain is not only a physical test for mothers, but also a mental test.

The emotion of the experiencer.

Netizen 1: When I experienced level 4, I already felt a lot of pain and wanted to end the experience, but I still wanted to understand what it was like to have a higher level of pain, so I gritted my teeth and persevered to level 5, but I didn't expect that after five or six seconds, I really couldn't hold on. I still felt pain in my abdomen until the next day.

Netizen 2: This time, I can be regarded as having a child with my wife, and I will cherish her even more in the future.

Netizen 3: It's really not easy for a woman, as a man at level 5, I can't bear it, but mothers have endured nearly 10 levels of pain for their babies, what a concept!

Mom Net Encyclopedia has something to say:

Fathers-to-be, don't say "Isn't it just to have a baby, it really hurts?" "Such a big talk, because the pain is not in you, you will not understand. The housekeeper does not want you to experience the pain of childbirth, but wants you to experience the difficulties of expectant mothers in this way.

If you understand the pain, then love your wife even more from the moment she leaves the delivery room!

In life, many times, we will say: can we fully understand, can we fully understand your pain, can we really understand the pain of others? Most of the time we think that we can empathize with the pain and hurt of others, that we can bring comfort to others, that we can guide others to uplift.

However, we are actually unable to appreciate the slightest emotion of others.

In fact, I can't understand the pain of others, even the best friends, when they need other people's care ,......No one can understand, let alone understand, what kind of pain is in my heart? And sometimes people are more or less duplicitous, inconsistent, does anyone know what my mood is at this time?

No, even the people around me, even the people who get along with me every day, may not know what my mood is, and even if they can see something, they can't know the ups and downs of my heart......There are some things that can only be known, understood, and truly ......understood only when you have experienced them yourself