About the troubles of dealing with people!

Being yourself is the most important thing, everyone needs to communicate, learn to communicate with others, learn to listen to others, and do things generously. Boys have to endure pain and blows, so I believe you will grow. You can participate in more club activities at school, learn to be your true self, learn to express yourself, university is a colorful world, I hope you can overcome the psychological burden, and live every day happily.

Thank everyone who has been good or bad to you, they will make you stronger.

I don't know why you have these virtual things in your mind, it's only a good freshman, what a good age, don't hurry up, at least put your eyes on four years later, make good use of this platinum time, don't always think about changing other people's opinions, first of all, you should consider enriching yourself, afraid that others will say that you are pretending? You have to work hard to overcome this psychological problem, just pretend, so what? Even if it's fake, you can put it on him for four years, and the fake will come true, everything is practiced, don't give up a lot of opportunities to exercise yourself because of what others think.

You can only wait for one chance, not to prove that you are amazing, but to tell everyone that you will get back what you have lost. Don't tie yourself down and let yourself do what you want. To treat them all as air is to be transparent and blind.

Go and confess to your beautiful young female teacher.

Friend, in fact, your judgment is right, you are an assertive person, you can understand your thoughts, in fact, you are also a capable person, these can be seen from your statement. People are complex creatures, and it's not time yet, because you haven't implemented your ideas yet, right? When you have a strong motivation to do what you're going to do, it's natural to need some buddies and friends, and when you have a common cause to work together, you're naturally together. Don't think about what to socialize, just like you ask for directions, it's natural to interact together.

I think you're an interesting person, and maybe you can do things that your so-called good friends can't. Believe in yourself and produce results. You will have good luck brother.

In fact, you don't have to worry too much about this, people are complex mixtures after all. Personality is also different, and many times we don't have to look at the success of others and ignore our own excellence. Be yourself, be happy, what could be better than that?

Right.

Discuss it with some older siblings, grandpa and dad.

I'll send you two sentences.

There is a ** house in the book.

Character determines destiny.

Reading can help you find direction and interests.

Communicative matters should not be rushed.

Take your time. No one is born with everything.

Everyone's receptivity is also different.

You know. Socialize for yourself.

Man is not a solitary animal after all.

It's like having more contact with the outside world, having dinner with colleagues, seeing what they're interested in, observing words and deeds, and doing more exercise.

It will make you feel better.

I agree with your point of view, the ancients Zen let appear sincere, just one resignation will inevitably seem sincere enough, so if you want to resign, let's do enough pomp.

In ancient times, Zen gave way to the emperor, like Cao Pi and Li Yuan, and it was just a cultural habit to resign again and again, and you can also consult senior teachers.

I think it's a little hard, I don't understand.

In the future, you will have to do your own thing. I also need to change my social skills.

It's okay. Normal. In my opinion, your brother takes better care of you, but he doesn't take into account your thoughts, he wants to help you, and he doesn't treat you as an outsider.

Take my friend as an example, my friend is very honest, likes to repair things, home appliances, we are also graduates of electronics, after working for a year, found that part-time work is not the way, he borrowed money to open a small repair shop, others are very honest, sometimes repair things do not charge money.

Sometimes when I'm playing there, someone goes to fix things, and I talk to them, because I love to laugh, and I can talk better than him, and I do things more carefully than he thinks, and many people treat me as the boss, and he is responsible for repairing things. In fact, I'm just sitting there, I don't care what he thinks, whether I'm thinking about me a lot of things, I just know that I want to help him, so that customers have a good impression of this store, and a good service attitude, and will patronize more in the future.

Don't worry, it's fine. It's still a good brother.

Actually, I don't think he wants to rob you or hurt you, and if I'm worried about my friend being scammed, I'll help him get involved. Some people's ability to communicate is already instinctive and beyond their control. You can take the initiative to contact the agent to see if he has taken care of everything, and if so, he has indeed helped you and others.

You can learn from him that if you develop these abilities, the most important thing is to believe in yourself, overcome your inner fears, keep trying, challenge yourself, and when you cross a stream, you will find that you can actually cross a sea.

That friend of yours belongs to the kind of person who is very scheming, he can't make friends, he can get by on the big picture, and he can't talk to him about real and important things, let alone cooperate with him. From this matter, I don't think you have any problems, you are young, and you can't say that you have poor social skills, socializing, there are nothing more than two kinds, one is your true friend, and there are not many real friends in a person's life, there are so many enough. A true friend who can open his heart and talk about everything, without any worries.

Pay attention to find such friends in the future, with such friends, I think you will also talk about it. Then it is because of a certain purpose to socialize, live in society, because of work, etc., you have to socialize and cooperate, this, in the future interactions, you will slowly mature, do not have to care too much, practice to seek truth. Here I just suggest that you try boldly, see more, naturally you will be able to distinguish who is, whether it should be called, you can distinguish it by yourself, and then send you a word, on the road of life in the future, talk less, do more, and strive to improve yourself and strengthen yourself.

A word for you: friends are for betrayal.

As for intermediaries, that's all a lie, be careful.

If you think so, it proves that you haven't fully grown up, what is responsibility, responsibility is a kind of motivation for people to live, if the pressure comes from the family, it is better to say that it comes from yourself, it is just that you feel tired, the reason why the family is called family is because when there are troubles to share together and will not ask the other party to reciprocate, the desire for freedom is right, but there are many people who desire freedom and after getting free will regret that they did not grasp the happiness of being with their families, there are really many such examples.

As long as you think of yourself, your parents are more than 20 years older than yourself, and you will leave yourself sooner or later, it is very important to be filial when you and your family are healthy, time will not be redundant, and there will be no day after a day, as long as you think of your parents being happy and happy, even if you are under pressure, you can resist it, because once your parents are away from us, you will regret it, and the feeling that your son wants to raise and your relatives are not there is best never try. The only motivation for children to live is that their parents can enjoy the filial piety they bring to them. Every day I am very afraid that my parents are not by my side, and they just laugh at me and I am happy, because I will not regret it when I am very old.

In fact, you should put your parents and yourself in the same position, sometimes think of some new tricks to change your lifestyle, you don't need to spend a lot of money, you have a heart is enough, get up an hour early every day to live your own life, you want to love your parents to resolve the pressure of life, you want to leave everything and feel uncomfortable because you still have a responsibility that you can't shirk, rather than shirk it, then accept it gladly, don't think about anything, a simple happy life, all the pressure in front of you is just a test of yourself, It's a test of your identity.

I didn't expect you to be the same as mine... Alas... But I've found my freedom...

Change jobs, stay away from my sister, and then maybe think about family again.

In fact, sometimes I think the same way, tired of my current life, and want to try to change, but when I am really alone, I know that it is very tiring to live alone. I've asked a few friends before and they all have the same idea, nothing.

Find someone to fall in love with, and the mood will be better.

Well, it seems like you're tired of the current situation, but you can actually think about it a different way. Have loved ones around who care about you. Isn't that a good thing, even if it's sometimes contradictory.

But only in an atmosphere of true love. There will be disagreements. Calm down.

Think about how your family treats you. Then relax and go out with a colleague or friend. I believe it won't be long.

Eh, in fact, there are many people who have the same troubles as you in life, sometimes I think that people are born is a trouble, and they have to eat, and they have to go to the toilet, and they have to get dressed, and they have to wash their clothes, and they want to do this, and they want to do that, and some people end their lives because they can't think about it for a while, that's not worth it, even if we don't think about it, the mother gave birth to herself in October, that is how much hardship to endure, can't sleep at night, and think about it yourself. Sometimes I want to see more of the sky, meet more friends, eat more food, and have more fun in my lifetime, so that life will not be boring.

It seems that the mood is very irritable, it is better to drink a cup of tea, calm down, clear your thoughts, calm your mind, and concentrate.

I'm also a graduate, so I'm in a more or less similar situation, but it's normal to encounter this kind of thing. First of all, you have to adjust your mentality and don't be anxious.

You said that the company took the initiative to find you, which means that the other party has taken a fancy to your talent, otherwise he wouldn't have eaten enough and had nothing to do to fool you, right? Since he is interested in you from the beginning, then you still have a great chance, even if he has not written for a long time, the time for large companies to recruit people is very long, because what they need is a talent who can stay in the company all the time, rather than being a passerby who leaves for a few days.

If you say that your work has been well received and that you are still confident in your professional skills, then you should believe in yourself, even if you don't make it to this company's event. However, when you graduate, you will definitely find another better company to take on more important projects. Right?

The most important thing for graduates to find a job is to have confidence in yourself, and of course, this confidence must be based on your skills.

I'm sorry, I'm sorry, if you don't hit the ** past, then you've always been passive. You take the initiative to contact the other party, and the worst outcome is that people think you are a little annoying and tell you that they don't need it anymore, then you can concentrate on other things and don't have to be anxious, which is also a good thing from another point of view. And the good direction thinks, the other party may be waiting for you this **, you called, he felt that you attached great importance to this job, and did not give up because he did not contact you for 2 weeks, and the other party's impression of you will rise to a height.

So, if you fight in the past, you won't lose anything, if you don't fight, you can only slowly entangle.

When you hit the past, don't mention anything like you don't know how your company has considered our cooperation before, but express your views and interests in their company and that activity, and imply that you attach great importance to this job. He remembers you and will naturally talk to you about cooperation.

First, this kind of thing is because the Chinese generally have poor quality, and they are accustomed to doing things according to tradition, and they show a good face. Both of you have a good face, first of all, they don't have integrity, but they don't want to hurt you, they feel that you value this job very much, and this company is your so-called big company, if you reject a talented young man, the company is not a big company, so the cold treatment makes you break your thoughts,. And if you don't contact them, you can say that this young man has no quality, no contact, no perseverance.

Second, but in many cases, the big companies don't have to think about your existence, you're just a passerby, and you don't have any connection with the company, who to draw is not a painting. So you don't matter to them.

Thirdly, you can find other jobs to do and be treated coldly and not turned down, nothing. Don't worry even if you get rejected later. Because the world is like this, and China is still so backward, worrying about it, anxious, shows that your psychological quality is not good.

I believe it also has an impact on painting. Because the first thing to do is to be calm.

Fourth, I wish you a smooth work, a prosperous career, a healthy life, and a happy family.

It's better to keep a normal mind.

Don't let that disrupt your peaceful life.

Maybe I'll be in touch soon.

Think of it as an opportunity to exercise patience.

The landlord is gold, and it always shines.

Finally, I wish you all the best of luck.