I found myself getting more and more discouraged and lacking motivation, what should I do?

In fact, you can find someone around you to help you spur you on, as long as you form a habit. At the same time, you can also participate in an event that you think is meaningful, listen to the speeches of celebrities, and get excited. In short, let your heart flutter.

You can even compare yourself to the people around you who have succeeded and who has succeeded ...

Perseverance is not enough! I can only wake up on my own. Otherwise, I don't have any books to read, at most the heat of those days, it's good to find a way to turn it into a habit, and I'll be motivated to do anything.

Don't be a slave to reality, stick to your ideals, beliefs, goals

Find someone to love, and the self-motivated other half will bring you a lot of fighting spirit and want to work hard to move forward in everything you do.

I was the same as you before. Now I read some of the Weibo posts posted by everyone every day. A lot of the languages are better.

I will also read some inspirational books. Do as you say. It's a lot better to be happy.

Spend more time with your own motivated colleagues.

Then you just find something to do that motivates you, and when you have nothing to do, it will become more and more boring...

Then you don't have to do anything, you are idle at home, and when you can't be idle, you naturally want to do things.

If you have the conditions, you may be able to change the environment, and it may be better.

If something happened, tell me and everyone will help you out.

You can relax yourself, but remember to read a book after relaxing.

You can also target a classmate in your class and make up your mind to surpass him.

Or you can think (just think!) As long as you do well in this exam, the goddess you have been secretly in love with for a long time will make progress in your relationship. If you don't do well, you'll be ridiculed by the whole class and even by the teachers and parents.

You're only close to the positive things for a while, okay? Because people change with their environment, they actively stay away from any people, things, or information that will affect their confidence.

Me too, I didn't get good grades in my third year of high school, and I was not motivated, so I didn't want to study anymore.

Find your purpose for reading! ~

-.-When you get to university, you'll find out how stupid and nostalgic you are now...

Then be lazy, not everyone is used to being "lazy". I will push myself to be diligent, or live. I wasn't a positive person before, and my friends said that it was lazy cancer, and it was not cured, and I wasted my time. Finally, life forces you and there is no time to be lazy.

Everyone has peaks and valleys, be patient, it's good to pass.

You've taken everything lightly!

The world is so big, go and see, maybe you will have the answer when you go home!

Uh, I was like you before, and now it's okay.

Go to the park at night to exercise, and it will be good to sweat.

I'm going, I've met people like me, your key word is three minutes of heat, you can't stick to anything, in fact, there's no reason to feel annoyed, how good it is to live casually! I don't think there's any need to torture myself so much.

The high school entrance examination is not the college entrance examination, and the college entrance examination will be bald! It's good to relax, this society now looks at ability and not diplomas!

Be realistic, don't think about getting into high schools that are almost impossible to get into.

Adjust your mindset and relax appropriately.

Do whatever you want to relax.

There is a song called "Ambition in My Chest".

The lyrics go like this:

Pat the dust off your body to lift your tired spirits.

The distance may be full of bumpy roads.

Maybe you have to go alone.

I have long been accustomed to being alone, less people care, and few people ask.

Even if no one pays for me.

At least I still have some truth.

Pat the dust off your body to lift your tired spirits.

The distance may be full of bumpy roads.

Maybe you have to go alone.

Don't laugh at me, I'm amorous, don't judge heroes by success or failure.

What happens to people is different, but there is pride and ambition in my chest.

Hey, hey, even though the mountains are high and the water is deep.

Hey, hey, it can't stop me from running forward.

Hey, hey, hey, a journey into the unknown.

I'm going to take my life seriously.

The purpose of life is to pursue a happy, happy, free, and happy life, and to have goals in both life and work, so that you can feel that you have a sense of existence and a fulfilling life. Whether we study, get married, start a family and start a company; Whether we are officials to make money, or to practice and cultivate, we must have our own goals and plans. Seek happiness, joy, freedom, happiness, and enjoy the joy, joy, freedom, and happiness of life's journey, everything is up to you.

Let it off, find new motivation, and regain your strength.

Usually this situation is to continue, to be decadent.

Slowly adjust away from a life that makes you decadent.

You must really know the purpose of learning and the importance of learning, and have an interest in learning A student must have learning goals, motivation to learn, and confidence in learning! Then you will naturally calm down and study hard! Understand the following:

If the young man does not work hard, the boss will be sad! The hardships of eating are the only ones who are masters! Abandon all meaningless distractions and distractions around you!

Try to fight for your future ... The principal of my high school said something very touching: Would you like to eat a candy today or a bag of candy tomorrow?

Don't work hard for the sake of today's temporary comfort, and then work hard for the rest of your life, children! Imagine the pain of your parents or relatives who didn't bother to study when they were young, and who grew up hard and without money! Think about how the coolies who have been seen in society live ...

Think about what my teacher once said: If you don't study hard now, let alone have status and wealth when you grow up, it's hard to find a wife who is at least better! Society is so realistic and cruel, if you have the ability, everyone will look at you, you are incompetent, you have no status, everyone will look at you with white eyes, how uncomfortable is that taste!

If you are looked at by others today, when you grow up, your children and grandchildren will be so good that they will be **... That's a big problem! It doesn't matter if you harm yourself, can you see that your descendants will also be looked at by people because of you!

Explain these truths! This is also the case in a country, Comrade *** said: If you are backward, you will be beaten!

It's the same for a country, it's the same for an individual! So, no matter if your current family is good or bad, you should work hard! There was a book for him to read:

How steel is made! Go and see it a few times! Abandon distractions and study wholeheartedly!

Lay the foundation of strength when you were young! A happy tomorrow beckons to him! You must read the book well, after working hard, success or failure is one thing, but not working hard is absolutely impossible!

Everyone has their own irritability, this is normal, first of all, you should maintain inner peace, don't always say that you are not motivated, people are in a bad mood is the least able to think too much, can only think more and more boring, so it is best to give yourself some time to relax, don't push yourself too much, believe me, let your spirit relax, exercise, out of the Han, climb the mountain, do what you like and happy, play more with friends, distract your attention, Focus your life on positive and happy things, and your life will be happy, believing that life is rich and colorful, and we will be happy to help you.

What happened to you, I think it's very common for office workers nowadays, and I think I'm the same. Internet access is also available in the unit. So after my job is done, it's just to play games.

Last year, I didn't want to do anything to play. Anyway, I want to see how web pages are made. I was really told by my family:

Playthings are demoralized. I had a great time this Spring Festival. With your family, take a walk and change your mood.

Now sitting here again, although I don't know what to do next, I have already decided to change two things: when I am done with my job, I will get up, go out for a walk, and talk to others. After work, you should contact some friends who do not work in the unit, preferably in business, and learn about their lives. I believe that my interests and hobbies will be cultivated over time.

Human beings are group animals, there is no happiness and motivation when they are separated from the group, participate in more group activities, even if you go crookedly and listen to others sing, your mood will get better immediately, you can try.

Read history on the soft day, read the scriptures on the first day, and read more books.

Go out more, hang out with friends more, and you'll be fine!

What do you want others to help you, is it to give you motivation, to give you friendly help, to give you the solution you want to solve the problem, or to tell you how to overcome your inner emotional experience, I also feel that life does not have much motivation, in fact, there are many reasons, more is their own inner inertia, this inertia is the reason why we do not work hard, because we have always thought that these reasons are undoubted, certain, these reasons are often the unfairness and unluck we have encountered in life, Life is not ideal, these things may be their own illness, may be their own loneliness, may be the pain in the heart and want everyone to know, may be some trivial prejudices, may be the vicious circle of thinking that they can't escape, no motivation, or have not shaken off the dust of the soul, or the shackles of reality, I want to tell you, no one can help you find motivation, in fact, what kind of life is what you want, you already have a hazy impression, you are afraid to do it, dare not do it, Your inert reason is the dust of the soul, shake off the dust of the soul to break the shackles of reality, breaking the shackles of reality is the only way you hope, but also where all your motivation lies, send you a few paragraphs of "power is free, only because of the haze, so that you do not pay attention, save the haze, lose your mind, break the haze, the road is self-revealed". Those false reasons should be dismissed. Work hard, come on.

Set yourself short-term goals and long-term goals. Work towards these goals.