In the end, should we break up because of a little obstacle?

Your vacillation can only show that you are not sincere enough, a year is not a long time, what if you try, others have resisted for more than ten years, you are just a small test. No one can ** the future, all we can do is work hard and wait for the results.

If you really love her, then just wait, if you don't love him as much as you imagined, and you are not completely sure about this year, then do what you think in your heart. But you can be shaken so easily, I think you can not really love her very, very much, and no matter how ordinary the other party is in the eyes of the lover, there will be advantages that make you feel very good. But she doesn't have it in your eyes.

You have to see your heart clearly, now is not the past, this is the person who wants to live your life with you, how can you live without deep love. It's not good for you or her. If you don't love her that much, you really have to think about it.

Wait for a year, if she is still so ambiguous, you have to consider the paragraph, this is responsible for you and for her, after all, people's youth is limited.

If you love her, you don't care about the year.

It's rare to meet someone you love and cherish it. I wish you happiness.

Do whatever you are comfortable with, separate if it is painful to be together, and be together if it is more painful to be separated, it's as simple as that, don't think about the future, it's too far, and the future may not be, don't say how you think about the future. Some people are in pain after breaking up, can't eat, can't sleep well, feel uncomfortable, and comfort themselves that it's better to divide early than later, what's the use? This is the premise of separation, and when this problem is solved, the problem will be clear.

If you separate, there's nothing to say, then quickly forget; If you are together, then think about how to solve your problems, find out the root of the problem, love is not your business alone, you can't all do it according to your will, it is also her business that she respects the opinions of her parents, don't try to change others, if she changes for you, this woman will be boring, it is the product of your thoughts. Falling in love is a matter of two people, you have to respect her, think about it, in fact, you also have something you can't do well, she also tolerates, and she has done a lot for you. So you have to respect her character and the respect she has for her parents.

A smart man does not change his girlfriend, but always has a way to satisfy her according to her character. So my advice is, wait, because it's her choice, she's all saying things like this, saying up to a year, and she can still lie to you? When the time comes, she can't cash in, and you can torture her with this, which is actually quite a simple thing.

You say that she looks ordinary, let me tell you, ordinary girls are more arrogant, she doesn't have looks to satisfy her vanity, so she puts a high shelf on the boy's side to improve her identity. This kind of woman is the most difficult to serve, but since you are in love, what can you do, can a woman who is in love be not beautiful? Even if a beautiful woman comes out, you probably can't bear her.

This is love, after falling in love, beauty and ugliness are not so important to men. If you break up, you may not be able to find such a good one again, if she promises, you have to believe her, after all, a woman's promise is very reliable.

Divide it, divide it, I've read the whole article.

Now that you've got that idea, you're not going to change it.

But what you have to be careful about is that you don't know what regret is until you actually break up.

When you look for the next partner, you won't know how good he is for you.

When you meet someone who is unladylike and infinitely melancholy, you will remember all his advantages.

When you are 26 years old, and you have experienced a few more blows of falling out of love, you will know that ordinary life is plain.

When you find out that successful men don't have so much tenderness, when they only focus on work.

You will find that what you are lacking is the warmth, warmth, tenderness and love that others give you.

Money can be earned, he earns less, you earn more, what does it matter?

When you get married, you can fight for the same goal, and that's family.

Suffice it to say that you're selfish, you're thinking about your own things all the time, you haven't thought about it, it's actually a two-person thing.

The end of love is marriage, responsibility, responsibility is responsibility for the family.

I said you're immature, but when you really mature, and then you look back, what will you realize in your life?

I think it should be divided. In my case, I can't stand that my husband is worse than myself, although I am a very good and strong person--

You already look down on him from the bottom of your heart, and this love is no longer equal.

Divide it... A good man will have a better home.

If you want to divide it, you can divide this society, which is really realistic.

Really, you're good enough! In this era, there are really too few women who don't care about men's backgrounds, don't gnaw at old age, and insist on working together. His parents gave his younger brother 80,000 yuan, which is indeed unfair, and everyone will be a little unbalanced.

However, you have to believe in your boyfriend, he is the backbone of the family, he may also mind what his parents do, but maybe he has his own thoughts so he doesn't show it, and his filial piety is also worthy of praise. 80,000 yuan is nothing, a person's character is the most important, no matter how much money there is, if there is no character, it will only fall into the cliché that a man becomes bad when he is rich. Of course, your boyfriend has a reason for objecting to you chatting with other boys, so why do you have to talk to boys?

Perhaps, it's because men see that you are a girl and will say a lot of things that care about you, but you also know that most of those words are polite words and false rhetoric. When you see your boyfriend's selfish and small-minded side, you also have to think that it is because he cares about you that he is so nervous, otherwise he can turn a blind eye and ignore it.

Hehe, your boyfriend is very jealous, in fact, this shows that he loves you, but this will make you uncomfortable.

First of all, his parents show that he is still filial and loves his parents. It's not worth being angry, it's because you love your parents that you love your family. You don't have to complain about that, he should be a good man.

The second thing to be honest is that your boyfriend has gone a little too far, the so-called careful-eyed man, for fear that you will run away (it is estimated that most of the two of you can become a confession from him) In the future, you will always show off your boyfriend is good, and you want him to rest assured of you, even if you talk to other men, you have to be a little more restrained, after all, you have a boyfriend, and you talk to other people more happily than you talk to your boyfriend, then it is better to divide it.

It's normal to have a little psychological conflict during the off-season, and you should deal with it with your mind and mind.

Nowadays, people don't know how to think about problems, make their feelings boring, and then come to ask others. In fact, in reality, I often meet such help-seekers, but I don't want to tell you whether it's right or wrong today, but to tell you, if you want to share, don't bother. If you don't want to share it, you can live it seriously, and if others ask for money, you want it, then you are not worse than others.

To understand your boyfriend is to understand sincerely, not the kind of fake charity that mocks a hundred steps in fifty steps. As you said, you are as good as a bodhisattva, he is poor and careful, so you can just leave. But I could see that I didn't want to leave.

Then live simply: cherish your unique self and your lover, and cherish your unique and unique life. Marriage is like a shoe, and the feet know whether it is suitable or not.

Work your own, don't be like a child anymore as an adult. Coquettish complains to find your lover, as long as you communicate sincerely, your lover will definitely be willing to listen sincerely and share it with you. If you say you don't like that, then do whatever you like.

Anyway, what kind of approach has what kind of result. The world is fair.

You should explain it to him. After all, everyone has to have their own social circle.

If he qualitatively asks you not to associate with any man, it is impossible. After all, talking to a man is not the same as talking to a woman.

I don't approve of breaking up, after all, it's not easy to meet someone who loves you and the person you love, and if you give up easily, maybe you won't find such a caring person in the future.

Don't be unbalanced, really, if your boyfriend is motivated, congratulations, you will be happy, because your boyfriend understands considerate parents and knows their difficulties, you should try to understand him, it doesn't matter if you are bitter, you can only thrive after experiencing the ups and downs, and you will get better in the future, no one can replace you! Remember, don't compare, just let them know, know your generosity, your tolerance. Don't let them think oh, that's how you should be!

In the past, I was also very cautious, the person I liked chatted with other girls, always jealous, and in the end I couldn't bear to be willful, and he finally broke up because I was domineering. In fact, so willful, the careful eye is just too much love for each other, very afraid that the other party chose the other party not to themselves, now, I regret my own careful eyes, really want to divide is not retained, why not cherish each other's time? Communicate well, and if you can't afford it, communicate well.

If you think about it seriously, it feels like it's still suitable to be together, and it won't be more troublesome in the long run, so it's okay to be together, and on the contrary, it's just appropriate.

Try to talk to him about how you feel in your heart, talk about whether the other person can develop in the direction you like, and if not, think about it, such a situation may lead to problems after marriage.

If you really love each other, you should cherish it, and it is normal to have small problems and frictions.

I think it's life.,It's not about how it can be.,Personal opinion.,I especially don't like people who don't let girlfriends and boys associate like this.,It's too possessive and terrible.。 There should still be a normal social circle

You should all reflect on why you don't have calcium for your boyfriend when you're in a bad mood, but talk to someone else

What's good for you?

Simple couldn't be simpler

Either you change or he changes

You know he's going to be angry, but you still have to do that, and you say that you love him, and if you love him, shouldn't you sacrifice something?

Since you can't do it yourself, try to change him

I think it's very fatal for men to be cautious and selfish. It's perfectly reasonable to get along with the opposite sex, and it's good that you've been listening to him before. If he can't get rid of this, you'll still quarrel over similar things, and you won't be able to accommodate him for the rest of your life.

But from this point of view, he has low self-esteem, no matter what the reason is, maybe the economic conditions of his family are not so good, he is not sure that you will follow him forever, he is afraid that you will be robbed by others. I think the most important thing about this issue is communication, you have to tell him that you have to have your own friends, your own life, you haven't done anything to be sorry for him, and he can't tie you too much. See what his answers and reactions are, and then make plans for breaking up.

As for the 80,000 cool dollar question, as a girl, I understand you very well. You haven't asked for anything in the three years you've been with him, and you've never bothered with him about money, so you're really sensible. His parents gave his younger brother so much money to get married, as you can't say anything, after all, he is also someone else's son, I understand that you are psychologically unbalanced, indeed, if you give his brother 80,000, you will give 80,000 if you don't say anything about marriage, but at least you can't treat your daughter-in-law badly.

I think if his parents are reasonable people, they will take the initiative to find a way to raise money for your marriage, you can skip the husband's hurdle, don't force him to manage the family and ask for money, so it seems that you are not good, it depends on the attitude of his parents towards you. The money doesn't have to be 80,000 yuan, the key is whether they have that heart. If they don't come out at all, then there is obviously a suspicion of bias, and in this case, there is no need for you to marry yourself into their family.

Ask your own heart. No one else can give you an answer. Do you think you're happy living with him? Can you have a future? Only you know what to do?

You must know that if you are often used to being kind to someone, and you are too good, then your good will become worthless, and the other person will not be unlucky about your goodness.

People cannot be compared, because everyone's habits, temperament, and personality are different.

You should have a good talk with her. Tell her what you really think about her.

If you want to get along with you, then slowly change your shortcomings. This takes time.

If she is still the same, you tell her that in this world, except for your parents, no one else is obliged to be good to you for the rest of your life.

Those who always take and don't know how to give will lose everything.

Hehe, in fact, all relationships have such stages, and when the enthusiasm of being together has passed, it will slowly become like this. When two people get acquainted with each other, they will also find a lot of shortcomings in each other, and this time is to run in and adapt.

In fact, you also said that she likes you, but she doesn't know how to express it, she is reluctant to let you be unhappy, but she wants you to let her more, so it appeared, he coaxed you when you were unhappy, you were happy, she was petty again, in fact, the girl was willful and just hoped that the boy could care about her and treat her well, so ah, you just let her do more, whether it is a quarrel or an awkwardness, remember not to the next day, to recover immediately, to remember to let her coax her, what she said to make you unhappy don't go to the heart, Girls often talk angrily.

You both genuinely like each other, get along well, and it will be fine in half a year.