Very helpless, please give me an idea!! 10

Love and marriage are two concepts, after marriage many practical problems will be in front of you, there may not be sweetness when love, I think this may be your friend's consideration, you can talk about it seriously, you can tell him, no matter how hard life in the future you will not regret it, let him dispel all concerns.

In a word, the personality is not harmonious, let's break up Maybe we can still be friends?

If a man is really in love with you, he will not hide his incompetence and weakness with fear of this kind of thing Marriage is a woman's last choice, but a man is not necessarily, if he uses the fear of such a nihilistic thing to define the relationship between you, I think he doesn't love you at least to a certain extent, so why should you leave marriage to him in charge?His unbraveness causes your doubts and incomprehension, and it is also his weakness that makes you feel that there is still hope However, you must know that difficulties and stress can make two people who love each other more compatible, so are you really sure that he loves you?

Love him with your heart, and he will be moved.

People like him who were afraid of wolves and tigers later.

Shake him off !!

If he does this to you, then let it go!If a man really loves you, he will definitely prove that he loves you with his actions, or he will also give you a promise.

Find a good job first, and then communicate with him, and trust him to understand you

First of all, he is a man who is not very attentive, and secondly, he has reservations about your love, and he is not willing to take any responsibility, so the more you treat him, the more afraid he becomes, afraid that once he doesn't like you in the future, there is no way to get rid of you, I think you should reconsider the problems between you.

What you said is also confusing, why should he run away from your kindness to him?What are the difficulties you have with each other?No money?You can co-create, but for some other reason?

Which of you is a man and who is a woman, men have the obligation to give women a sense of security, if a man can't give you a sense of security, what do you do with him?

Strengthen communication, she is not good at expressing herself.

It's not easy to be a good child, and it's even harder to be a sensible and well-behaved child.

Although the traditional concept of parents has not changed, don't be embarrassed for them, be considerate of your parents, that is your filial piety, this is how it should be.

Be more forgiving!Learn to be tolerant and do things and be a person for you to have a long insight, many things in life need to be tolerant to deal with, complaining and complaining can not solve the problem, no matter how wrong your parents do, they will always be your parents, often with a grateful heart, you have more energy.

If you want to prove it to them, then study hard, do more and talk less, and you're right.

Because at least you still have parents to call, and you can still study until you graduate from junior high school, so be content and happy. May you be different tomorrow!

Your mother is seriously eccentric, there are many such parents, and she puts all her feelings on your brother. I don't care about you, that's it. Live your life well, find a good husband, no parents love you, and there will be a husband who will love you in the future.

Your family is patriarchal, but not everything is like this, you just see the bad side, there is no parent in the world who does not love their children, sometimes you can talk about them appropriately, communicate with them well, if you can, say it clearly, say what you think in your heart, after all, our parents' generation is not very understandable can imagine. This happens in many families, so think about it. I hope your ideas aren't too extreme!

Bless you!

Maybe they prefer sons over girls, you have to devote yourself to studying, learn good grades, and be self-reliant, self-respecting and self-loving.

People have to be strong, you know, you have to know that you still have a family, you have to know that many mothers are close to their sons, and fathers are close to their daughters (not absolutely), communicate with her well, don't think too much, think about how people grow up, learn to be independent, don't rely too much on their families, don't live so tired, be happy.

Patriarchy is a commonplace thing You can only study hard Cultivate yourself Let your parents reverse this concept Women don't let you have eyebrows It's not only boys who can have the ability Your parents must not have much culture Otherwise, they won't be poisoned by this kind of thinking You also have to be considerate of them When you are wronged, think about this moment There are people who are more miserable than me Mine is compared to them It's really a small thing No need to be sad anymore What else can't be over Life is inherently bitter and sweet God has put you in this environment It also gives you a character that ordinary children do not have You must be very independent and easy-going There is also a stronger heart than ordinary children Cherish the feelings of others more for you This is adversity can create people more Everything happens and can bring you good gains Learn to tolerate parents Face life with positive and optimistic thoughts Believe in yourself!

Don't think too much; Cook; shopping for clothes; These are all things that girls do, and it's normal for mom to nag a few words; Women like to nag when they are old; My mom too; But it's good to finish nagging; I still think about you when I eat; I still care about you in life; Mom is old; Don't blame her; Opportunity to talk to mom; I'm sure she loves you very much!

Maybe it's really not your own mother, but you have to remember that you are living for yourself, why care so much about other people's thoughts, do your best, do what you should do well, so that even if someone accuses you, you can say that you did your best, who can say anything about you, but after all, it is your family, you can't say that you have to do your best wholeheartedly, if your mother argues with you, you can also tell yourself to do your best, you want to wait until you grow up and you will get married, so that you will have fewer opportunities to meet, how can she make you unsatisfactory? Be yourself!

You can't ask your parents to be perfect, you can only ask yourself to do something for them as much as possible, and find happiness by yourself!

What else can you do? Bear with me!

Go read more extracurricular books! At least don't think about it all the time.

Don't think too much, every parent loves her children, but she is stricter with you, maybe because you are a girl...

Every parent loves their children, don't look at the problem with this kind of vision, try to think anew, you will find that in fact, your family still loves you very much!

Learn to be generous, don't always think about how your mother treats you badly, think about when she is good to you, or think about when your brothers are good to you, you won't feel helpless and sad.

I know that feeling of not being needed must be very uncomfortable, especially for my own loved ones. You can sit down and tell them what you think. I think that parents must love their children.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and everything will be fine. Study hard now. Get a good score.

Don't mind too much, you can make more friends and increase your self-confidence, mom is such a character, get used to it, don't take it too seriously, tolerate her.

Hello! It's a physical reality that makes people feel unhappy! Looking at it from another angle, you may not understand that your loved ones have discordant beliefs! In this case, be your true attitude and bloom your youthful vitality to the fullest! I believe you are getting better and better!

Damn, the more this happens, the more you have to fight! I have heard a lot of people who earn their own money to pay for their tuition and live on their own, although I said it simply, but you have to work hard to become such an excellent talent. And you want your mother to know that your daughter is your mother's close-fitting little padded jacket.

Think too much, parents love their children, she is strict with you, she wants you to be good, she feels that you do not meet her requirements, so she is always picky. It's not a big deal, the family can't untie the knot, how can they live in society.