Why are old friends always silent when they see each other?

When this happens, it is often caused by the following factors:

1. It is difficult to control your emotions, so you can't express your longing for your old friends very well, but you know your heart very well with each other.

2. Over time, the understanding between each other will gradually fade away, and I don't know what the other party likes now, so it will also cause the phenomenon of reticency. Because for young people, this can also happen between friends, let alone old friends?

It is very normal for old friends to be silent when they meet, because two people may not be together for too long, and their respective lives have not intersected, although they are emotional after meeting, they will not be able to find a topic that can be cut into for a while, so they are always excited and silent at first. After three rounds of drinking, everyone began to reminisce about the past, and slowly broke the state of silence and speechlessness!

The best state for two people to get along with each other is that two people will not feel embarrassed when they are silent with each other. If you are too polite to meet with friends, you are in a hurry to contact your feelings, so that you are not true friends, only if you are silent but not embarrassed by each other, you are true friends, you can say whatever you want, you don't have to be taboo, you don't have to deliberately, this is the most comfortable mode for friends to get along.

At the beginning, there were many friends who shared the same language, but after separation, they had different experiences, the living environment and the people they came into contact with were different, and it was inevitable that they would be embarrassed to get together again, and everyone didn't know what to say to break the embarrassment, so they could only hide themselves in silence.

Maybe it's because they've been separated for many years, and they have a lot to say, but they don't know where to start;

And because we are all old friends who have known each other for many years, we all know each other's situation, and we want to ask but don't know what to ask, after all, we all know the answer;

I think that when old friends meet, you don't have to talk about the past, you can express your opinions on current things and other hot spots, or talk about some new things, so that you don't become silent.

I went home after two years of college, and I was separated from my old classmates, junior high school classmates, high school classmates, and college classmates for two years, but now I suddenly came together with a lot of thoughts, but I couldn't find any topic. Later, he took the initiative to ask, how is the state of school? Is there a target for engagement?

In other words, the money is not sufficient, and these things are slowly taken for a long time to take a walk and have a meal, and the topic is discussed, and there is naturally something to talk about.

One of them may be that everyone is too familiar, everyone knows their respective situations, and sometimes needless to say, they all know what their friends are thinking, and there will naturally be less communication; At the same time, with the advent of the Internet era, everyone is now more keen to chat and communicate with each other through QQ, WeChat, Momo, Tantan and other online dating platforms, but there are fewer people who meet and communicate.

Ordinary friends don't see each other for a long time and don't know much about each other's lives, and some of the three views are not the same, there will definitely be times when they are silent and don't know what to talk about, but compared to close friends or brothers, even if they don't see each other for a long time, there will be endless topics.

In my personal opinion, a real good friend is not the kind that talks a lot about each other, a real good friend is the one who pretends to be each other in his heart, even if he hasn't seen each other for a long time, but the feelings and friendship in his heart have always been very sincere!

The person who can drink and talk with you is not necessarily the best person with you, silent to each other, but always have each other like this in your heart, is the friendship you deserve to have, the person you deserve to cherish!

In life, we sometimes see old friends who have not seen each other for many years, and most of them will be silent when they see each other, in fact, it is not that they don't want to say it, but that there is no need to say much about love. Everything is in plain sight, usually friends know each other better, not to mention old friends, after meeting each other, just look at each other and understand all the words of each other.

Old friends don't have to be silent when they meet, I talk very happily with old friends, every time I always find a restaurant to have a few drinks, and chat while drinking, as for silence, I think maybe it's because we've been separated for too long and have no common topics, and I should keep in touch with each other so that I don't get rusty.

Old friends know each other, many times they don't need to speak, a look to know each other's thoughts, sometimes the other party knows the second half of his sentence when he says the first half of the sentence, sometimes he can understand the other party's routine without finishing the words, and having such a few friends is also a happy life!

I guess I'm so excited! When I was going home on the weekend and going to the supermarket, I ran into an old friend who lived in the same village and started working after junior high school.

And after I finished the high school entrance examination, I went to live in the county with my parents, and we didn't contact each other again.

I suddenly ran into him this time, and found that he seemed to be a stranger, didn't like to talk much, and always had a vicissitudes of life smile on his face.

When I invited him to coffee, he couldn't find a topic, and after the first cup of coffee, he told me that there was something at home and that he wanted to go back first.

I once had a friend I hadn't seen in more than 10 years, and the two of us met by chance in our hometown last year.

We went to the restaurant together and ordered a few of our favorite dishes. But at the wine table, the two of us went, just drank and didn't speak.

We all remember the little things we used to do. It feels like we have gone from the original baby age to the middle age.

A lot of friendship is expressed in wine.

Yesterday an old friend of mine came to see me, and we have known each other for 20 years now, and our relationship is extraordinary.

We went to the teahouse to drink tea together after dinner, originally thinking that we hadn't seen each other for almost two years, and we must have a good chat, and I was ready to talk at night.

But who knows the kung fu of two cups of tea, we fell into an "awkward chat", and we were silent for a long time, and the two looked at each other and smiled.

I still remember that before we got married, we just sat together, and sometimes we could talk until two or three o'clock in the evening, but now that we have our own family life and work, we have fallen into silence.

Maybe it's better to miss each other!

Old friends "hold hands and look at each other", consciousness is speechless, and I don't know how to start.

This is human nature, I haven't seen you for a long time, it's strange for a while, and I don't know how to start with **. Once you regain that familiar feeling, you will open up the conversation and talk endlessly.

Because I haven't been in touch for a long time, each other's current work and knowing friends are all things he doesn't know and don't understand, so there is no common topic, I don't know how to start chatting, I feel that there is a gap in the middle, and I can't cross it. So friends should keep in touch with each other often in order to have a common topic!