What should a woman do if she loses the power to be a mother?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In a woman's life, in addition to being a mother, there are many things waiting for them to do. It's just that she doesn't have the opportunity to be the mother of her own child, but it doesn't mean that she will never be able to be a mother, she can adopt a child as a mother, doesn't this fulfill her dream of being a mother, in fact, it's as simple as that.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be too pessimistic, there are many things in a person's life, and they will grow after experiencing it, and the rest of their lives are very long, and there are always things waiting for you to be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A lot of people who can't have children can actually be **, but you don't find a good hospital, if you really can't be cured, you choose a husband with children, be a stepmother, take the child when he is only one year old, and he will treat you as his own mother, A mother gives birth to a child without it, and when the child is older, he doesn't recognize the mother, you will take it around since you were a child, but you don't have a blood relationship with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be too depressed and pessimistic, you can adopt a child, love her, love her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you have to relax yourself, yes, it is a very serious problem for women to lose the right to be mothers, but there are not a few Dink families in today's society. As long as you find someone who truly loves you, holding a child can also be considered.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, I feel that as long as I don't lose it voluntarily, there is nothing to blame, after all, there are many things in this world that are not as beautiful as we think.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Facts are facts, to have the courage to accept it, the most important thing is to live happily, life is short, find someone who really loves you, someone worthy of your love, and spend the rest of your life happily.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can also find a man who loves you to marry, but tell him everything, he can accept it, and the child can be adopted. Two people who really love each other should do this.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you must be strong and happy to live, there will always be something that belongs to you. God is fair, and if you lose what others have, God will give you what others don't.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Now that medicine is very developed, if you really want to have a child, you can choose to do IVF, or you can actively go to the hospital to see if there is a chance, there are many ways, but you must not give up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't be discouraged, you can control your own destiny, the answer to the question is not complicated, and it is not simple to say! It's all on your own, and no one can really measure it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Turn your attention to your career and find yourself a new career goal. Reflect on yourself, see if you are not good enough in those places, transform yourself, and strive to be a strong woman!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is also possible to find a man who loves you to marry, but tell him everything. If he can accept it, the child can be adopted! ~

    Two people who really love each other should do this. ~

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Facts are facts, to have the courage to accept it, the most important thing is to live happily, life is short, find someone who really loves you, someone worthy of your love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Now men can have surgery to get pregnant, and not every man likes children, so you have to work hard to find it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Are you married? If not, then, I can tell you, don't be stupid anymore. He just uses you as a tool to vent his desires.

    Don't do anything stupid, the best thing to do is to stay away from him. Choosing your life again, you are already hurting now. Will revenge solve the problem?

    Do you want your whole life to be like this?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Leave him, the world will open another door while closing one window. It doesn't matter what people lose in this life, because what is gained is equal to what is lost. Being a mother is a happy thing, but not being a mother also saves you the trouble of raising children.

    Live calmly, you can also find happiness and joy! (Revenge on others is hurting yourself at the same time) I hope you can see through this.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    How can you say it, what do you get after revenge, pleasure is such a flash in the pan?

    In addition, no one will suffer for others for a lifetime, and people who will suffer for others for a lifetime, that is a product of TV.

    As for the right to be a mother, it cannot be said that it is completely lost. A woman's motherhood is not only reflected in the children she gives birth to, but also in other aspects. For example, if you were to adopt a child, would you behave like a "stepmother" to her?

    Well, whatever you want, do you like to listen to it or not. I still think that human nature is inherently good.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ay. Curse him. Write it down on a piece of paper with your most vicious mood Make a scarecrow again Stick it on the back with a piece of paper Write your name Stick it on the back with a needle Every day Say to the straw man with the most vicious words Prick him with a needle.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, if one loses the opportunity to be a mother, don't be afraid, you are not young, you still have time, just cherish it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello, first of all, I hope you can be happy! At first I read your question, I always wanted to know if you already had children, but when I learned that your husband was infertile, it seemed that the situation was easier (for you, with all due respect). My parents are divorced, so I know how this kind of seemingly emotionless family can affect children, and I don't know what advice I can give you to get your husband back, but how much you should plan for yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hey, such a man, do you really want to live with him for the rest of your life? Modern women are no longer looking for men to find backers, but men who don't have a sense of security really don't dare to compliment. Now the problem is that he has many shortcomings such as:1Born in the lap of luxury.

    2.Laziness 3Spending money indiscriminately (not yet able to make money) 4Not filial, quarreling with my mother, gnawing on the old 5Irresponsible 6Not of childbearing potential.

    These are all listed in your article, and you have seen this man thoroughly enough, whether you love it or not, you know it in your heart.

    My suggestion is that you two have only been married for a year, and there are so many contradictions, but fortunately you don't have children, leave as soon as possible, don't wronged yourself for your mother-in-law, after all, it's that man who lives with you, ......

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The road is your own, as long as you walk without regrets, then you can have no regrets in this life!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you know now, why bother in the first place? Why didn't you see each other's personalities clearly when you were talking? Why do you get married without understanding clearly?

    Failed marriages leave a shadow of failure in life. If it is irretrievable, then forget about each other! As for your second marriage, you must also think carefully and comprehensively, and don't make a mistake the second time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, look at your narrative you are a good woman, why waste time on such a boy, I am like you, the children of the poor are in charge of the house, so I don't want you to be unhappy. In a woman's life, the measurements before marriage and after marriage are completely different, and after marriage, they are surrounded by their husbands, children, and kitchens. Your husband is not worth going around, and you don't have children to go around, so there is no need to go around the kitchen in such an environment.

    There is also the fact that children are an important guarantee for maintaining a family, and they are also your emotional bonds, a woman, it is very painful not to be a mother, and there is an example of this around me. She was not happy.

    Now that you have a goal, you should stick to your ideas and find your own happiness to be true. People live a lifetime, you still have to think more about yourself, not everyone you can take care of, so, take care of your happiness...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Tell him to hold him accountable.

    You also have to be responsible for yourself.

    So many times**.

    You're not afraid to ruin yourself.

    It's better not to do it again.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I suggest you give birth to your baby! Talk to him about what to do first! If he doesn't want to face it, it's fine!

    Such a man, you can see his face clearly! If it were me, I would find a place, give birth to the child, and then live with the two children! I don't believe that without him, I can't live!

    Originally, you have already beaten five babies before, if you beat again this time, you may not be able to be a mother in the future, have you ever thought about it? Of course, my ideas are also more extreme, I hope you will consider it! The best outcome is that you can make a wonderful family together!

    Wishing you happiness!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The fetus has been formed, you should now maintain a good mood, for the child to put aside those unpleasant things, so that the child in the womb healthy and strong growth, you are always in a bad mood will affect the child's future character, wait for the child to be born, and then start working hard to make money OK, even if it is difficult, but also persevere, because giving birth to a life is great! Come on!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, you have to decide whether to have children or not, if you want children, you have to learn to be happy every day, communicate with your husband about your problems, and then let him worry about it. If you really can't solve the problem of food and clothing, I suggest you kill the child. Wait until you have the financial ability to have children, and don't let you quarrel with your lover for the sake of children.

    Why do you borrow money to get married? Since you don't have money, you should get married in a low-key manner, and you are not mature in this regard. As long as you calmly analyze the problem and communicate the problem, you will be happy.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Hehe! Don't think so, the baby is the crystallization of your love, without the baby, you have nothing. Money can be earned slowly, debts can be paid slowly, if you artificially abandon the baby, do you think you will feel at ease?

    As for your temper, I think it's normal! But there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, don't worry! And your husband is also constantly working hard for the family, and these are enough.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    At this time, you may be a little irritable and have some material difficulties, so you may behave more violently; In fact, pregnant women will have some irritability, not only when they are pregnant, but also postpartum depression, so these are normal phenomena, and there is no need to make a fuss, let alone have a child. The child is already so old and life, how can parents deprive their children of their life like this. At this time, I still hope that your husband can understand you, take good care of you, of course, you yourself are calmer, don't deliberately escalate the contradiction too much, at this time emotional instability is not good for children, talk to your husband, go through this paragraph, okay?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Tell you yes, I'm just like you. The child had a miscarriage for many reasons, and now I want to have a child, and it was found out to be extrauterine last month. I really regret that I used to do my child, it is the right of women to be mothers.

    It's a pity that you shed the child, think about him being born. Don't do it, you'll regret it, as for running out of money, you can go to work. Too bland.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A life, your decision is his life, do you give him this opportunity?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Setbacks are not permanent, and the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I can understand you. A girlfriend of mine is in a similar situation to you. She's getting divorced.

    Her son is three years old. Her husband beat her in front of the child. My husband and I are not as stressed as you.

    The house was bought by his parents, and the decoration and appliances were out of my parents. We can't have children now. The economy is tight.

    Usually the overhead is quite large. None of them save money. I also quarreled with him about money.

    He smokes and eats snacks every day. I really didn't know that men were so fond of snacking. Ay.

    Choose to be with him, just make do. I can't help it. Don't overthink it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Women generally feel like the weather after pregnancy, changeable! As for "money", I think your husband will definitely not let you suffer, you have to trust him, and when you are upset, you can find a friend to go out with you. Change your mood, don't think so much a day, there are still five months, your main thing now is to raise a baby, cheer for your husband!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    A life, I think it should be kept, don't weigh it in yourself, ask your family for help!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Go to the hospital for consultation, and if you can, don't do it. Raising a child requires more than just money, a harmonious family is very important. In the future, the child may ask "Mom, why does his mom have a car to drive and you don't?"

    Mom, you can't take care of me, why do you give birth to me? "As soon as a woman has children, everything is over, and if you don't have children, you can still get a divorce, and you can find a responsible man to start over.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Don't belittle your life because of the times There are many of them You won't be ridiculed by others You won't be looked down upon by your in-laws On the contrary, they will sympathize with you No one wants not to have children You can also adopt a child It's also very good Don't think about it in a desperate situation You don't have children And your husband and parents and relatives They all need you very much.

    Seek to pick the slippery man.

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