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Couples working together is one of the great joys of married life. Everyone has their own areas of housework that they are good at and are more willing to participate in than the other. For example, if I don't know how to cook or cook, and I'm afraid of fumes and chopping vegetables, I'm afraid of getting burned, so I hope my partner can take on more chores in this area. I love to tidy things up, so I prefer to do the cleaning myself, such as washing dishes, washing clothes, sweeping the floor.
I don't know how to distinguish between the zero line of fire from a small age....Forget it....Gotta men come. So you see, isn't it good to perform their duties in this way, which not only achieves the equal sharing of housework to a certain extent, but also can have a good sense of presence in the other party. "Honey, you stand aside and I'll come" - is what I consider to be the most affectionate confession in the long years.
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Men doing housework is the [bottom line], it is [should], not the "upline" that can be taken out and worthy of praise! Many of the values in the country are deformed, resulting in the slightly normal modern view of civilized society becoming a commendable "virtue". Hehe, to all adult males:
As long as there is one day when your wife is working full-time like you, as long as there is another day when you can't support the whole family with your work alone, as long as there is still a penny of your family income that your wife earns, you should do the housework! You're not qualified to say you're tired!
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My parents are in the same unit, and my father is still the leader of my mother. But my mom didn't do anything when she came home, just watched my dad busy with everything, mopping the floor, washing and cooking, and being very diligent. My mom sometimes feels like she's not doing well enough and she's going to help.
They are nearly fifty people, and sometimes my father will bring gifts to my mother when he is out on business, roses for Valentine's Day, etc. My mom would be coquettish in front of my dad, which made me embarrassed. They are college alumni, free to love.
I think it's beautiful, this is love, my dad loves my mom deeply, so that he will let my mom do what she likes comfortably at home. Just like the manager of a foreign company, it is out of love that he will care for every detail.
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I think a man who can do housework is very responsible. To be passionate about life is to be passionate, and a lazy person who has no enthusiasm for life will not do housework.
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From a girl's point of view, boys who can do housework are more attractive. Girls still like to understand a boy's attitude towards life through housework, and boys who can do housework are generally more patient and loving, and love life more.
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This time I went to my husband's hometown for the New Year, and several brothers-in-law or cousins are very powerful, and their annual income is not less than 500,000 yuan, and they are basically business owners and executives. The family is very harmonious, and the brothers and sisters-in-law are over forty years old, which is quite sweet. What is very interesting is that the New Year's dinner is going to be eaten, the old man is old, and there are several men in charge, and the cooking is quite good, and he is busy with more than a dozen dishes in the morning.
After eating, the couple tidied up together, playing and laughing while doing it. While having dinner at my brother-in-law's house, the eldest cousin was in a hurry to leave at four o'clock. As soon as others stopped him, he was in a hurry, Runhua (his daughter-in-law) was home alone, I had to go back to cook...Doing housework together is good for the relationship between husband and wife, not chicken soup, who experiences who knows.
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Housework does not have to be done by women, I think that as long as one of the two is free at home, doing housework is also a kind of exercise to make yourself feel comfortable.
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It's a good thing for a man to do housework when he's not busy, but I don't like my man doing housework every day, I still want me to do most of the housework, and of course I hope he pays more attention to his career.
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I think it's normal for men to do housework, because most of the couples are at work first, so men should do housework as well.
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I think this is a good man at home, housework is not just a woman's business, and husbands and wives can be happier when they do housework together.
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Personally, I think that men should also share the housework equally when raising the family, because now and the past are different, not only men are making money to support the family, but also the vast majority of families, women are the same, and they are also at work, sharing the responsibility and obligation of making money to support the family, so on this issue, we should not blindly think that housework is a woman's business, and as a man, we should also help their wives and lovers share the housework.
If in daily life, many men think that their income is relatively high, and they work harder outside, so they push the housework to their wives, then it is obviously unfair, and an important premise for the relationship between husband and wife to be well maintained is to understand each other, tolerate each other and understand each other, and the equal division of housework Zheng is an important means and premise to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, both men and women have the responsibility and obligation to share the burden of the family, Making money to support the family is not only a man's business, but also a woman's business, and doing housework is not only a woman's patent, but also a man's participation in the common order, so that each other's hearts can be balanced, and the relationship between husband and wife can be promoted.
On the other hand, even if a man's salary and income are relatively high, but this should not be an excuse and reason for a man to avoid housework, even if the wife works to make less money, but is also working hard for the family, so as a man should be more considerate of his wife, of course, the distribution of housework should not be too careful, in line with the principle of more work, who has the time and energy to do more, but the other party must not do more housework because of his wife, Completely dumping the housework on his wife is obviously irresponsible, and it will also affect the behavior and attitude of the husband and wife, and he must change.
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First of all, doing chores together should be a joyful thing. There are so many chores in each family, and there is not much to share with each member, and it can be done quickly, so that I can free up more time to do other things (such as watching movies together, playing games, etc.), and most importantly, I think the process of doing housework together should be pleasant and warm.
Secondly, with the progress of society, the idea of equality between men and women is also reflected in all aspects of life. We should abandon the old idea that men are inferior to women, men are supporting their families, women are also working, they can earn money together, and take on housework together, I think this kind of family atmosphere should be what we should pursue.
Again, doing housework also gives me a sense of accomplishment. When you fix the light bulbs, electrical appliances, and water pipes that only you can fix at home, when you move away the furniture and old things that only you can move, when you wash a bunch of clothes and the children run over to say that you have worked hard, and then put a big thumbs up on your face, when you look at the clean, tidy and warm little home, will we have a sense of accomplishment in doing housework?
Also, I think a man doing housework is a better indication that he loves the woman. Sharing weal and woe has always been the family relationship we are pursuing, just like the sentence "I can accompany you through the ups and downs, and I can also accompany you to make a comeback", this sentence means that women will never abandon men, and men should also "go to the hall and go down to the kitchen"?
Fellow men, if you don't like housework very much or rarely do housework, I suggest that you try to start with what you like to do or don't hate to do, and slowly develop the habit of doing housework. Little by little, slowly accumulating, I believe that quantitative changes will definitely lead to qualitative changes, from the beginning to adaptation, to enjoyment, and gradually like to do housework. At the same time, it also sets an example for children, so that they can thrive in the smiling sunshine full of love.
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Whether you are a man or a woman in the family, no matter who is brilliant in the career and work, but the family is always their own, do some housework I feel tired, there is always one of the husband and wife is capable, for the family and love to do more, how much housework can be? Be considerate of each other, love each other, regardless of you and me. If one of the husband and wife is very busy with his or her career and feels very tired when he or she arrives home every day, then the other party should love him (her) with sincere love, and do more work at home, because there is love to have a home.
As a man, not every day in the busy work, housework will do some of the housework, I am a man, the work at home will be done, because some housework is not done by the wife, metaphor, the family is a bit of heavy work, climb high to connect the wires, the electric light, if the man understands something, will do it himself, so in the problem of Cha Fan Ji, the husband and wife know best, don't have a conflict between the two for the sake of trivial housework, who didn't wash the dishes today, who didn't boil water today, There's no need to make a fuss over a trivial matter, right? If the man is particularly successful in his career outside the home, and his lover is in charge of the housework, the housework wife will not let you do it, and before you get off work, the housework has already been done, and the socks that make some good food and vegetables are waiting for you to come to the house to eat, isn't it?
Therefore, making a sedan chair noisy for men, housework is more or less, and they will do it. Personal philosophy, friends with different points of view, you can talk about your own views, I will humbly accept learning, thank you.
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As a man, you should share more housework, first of all, you can exercise, and on the other hand, keeping a clean environment is conducive to good luck, and finally you can effectively please your wife's mood, and your wife's mood is good to accompany the family atmosphere.
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Personally, I think that men should also share the housework equally when raising the family, because now and the past are different, not only men are making money to support the family, but also the vast majority of families, women are the same, and they are also at work, sharing the responsibility and obligation of making money to support the family, so on this issue, we should not blindly think that housework is a woman's business, and as a man, we should also help their wives and lovers share the housework.
If in daily life, many men think that their income is relatively high, and they work hard outside, so they push the housework to their wives, then it is obviously unfair, an important premise for the relationship between husband and wife to be well maintained is to understand each other, tolerate each other and understand each other, and the equal division of housework Zheng is an important means and premise to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, both men and women have the responsibility and obligation to share the burden of the family, Making money to support the family is not only a man's business, but also a woman's business, and doing housework is not only a woman's patent, but also a man's participation in the common order, so that each other's hearts can be balanced, and Hu Shaozhao can promote the relationship between husband and wife.
On the other hand, even if a man's salary and income are relatively high, this should not be an excuse and reason for a man to avoid housework, even if the wife makes less money from work, but also works hard for the family, so as a man should be more considerate of his wife, of course, the distribution of housework should not be too calculating, in line with the principle of more work, who has the time and energy to do more, but the other party must not do more housework because of his wife, Completely dumping the housework on his wife is obviously irresponsible, and it will also affect the behavior and attitude of the husband and wife, and he must change.
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Of course not. Housework is a family affair.
As family. You have to be a part of it.
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There is no doubt that men should share the housework equally while providing for the family! First of all, housework refers to housework, especially manual work that can be done at home.
Housework includes the following:
Grocery shopping, washing vegetables, cooking, washing dishes, washing pots, mopping the floor, washing clothes, drying clothes, drying quilts, folding quilts, folding clothes, brushing shoes, sweeping the floor, taking out garbage, washing chopsticks, cleaning up the dining table, husband and children, tidying up the wardrobe, buying firewood, rice, oil and salt, cleaning the toilet, cleaning the windows, wiping furniture, washing bed sheets, etc., making shoe polish, sorting sundries, tidying up the room, buying daily necessities, etc.
In addition, housework is very trivial but it is the most common thing in married life, and compared to the great changes in marriage, housework is an important element that affects the relationship between husband and wife. "Doing housework" sounds like a trivial matter, but the daily housework conflicts, like boiling frogs in warm water, wear out the feelings of husband and wife little by little.
Therefore, all the responsibilities in the family need to be shared by two people, and nothing is engraved with one person's name. As the saying goes, it is difficult to stand alone, and it is very unstable to maintain a family relationship by relying on the efforts of one person all the time. Marriage is like a scale, if there is always only one party paying, the balance will eventually tilt.
Therefore, while raising a family, a man should also divide the housework equally, only in this way can the family be happy and harmonious!
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Of course, boys should do housework, but who dictates that housework must be done by women? Boys and girls have to share the housework with each other, and now the social pressure and work pressure of girls are also very high, and there is no extra energy to take care of the family and be responsible for all the housework, so this should be shared by everyone.
Psychologist said:"Families where men do housework are happier. "The best marriage relationship is not that every day is greasy and sweet, but that two people live like comrades-in-arms in the same trench, and two people bear it together and fight side by side.
The same is true for housework, not who should take care of it all, but the cooperation of both parties, so that neither party feels that they have given too much and feel unbalanced.
Men don't just need to make money to support their families, and women don't just use their beauty like flowers, two people in a family share housework together, which adds to the temperature of the family. It seems that there is a "common perception" in society: housework is a woman's own job, and men's participation in housework is almost zero, but in fact, men's positive attitude towards housework can better reflect men's love.
If he loves you, he won't just let you work alone, love is cherished. In the eyes of those men who can do housework, laundry, cooking, mopping the floor, and taking care of the children together for their lovers is a manifestation of love, not a moral constraint.
If you ask your husband why she doesn't help, he may say, "I don't know what to buy, and I don't know how to cook." Or the dry grinding is crispy, "Isn't it just cooking and washing dishes, what's so difficult, I'm tired from working outside every day, what's wrong with letting me take a break?" "On the one hand, it seems that it is difficult for him to do housework, and on the other hand, he thinks that why should two people do such a small thing as housework.
The vows before marriage, the cherishing before marriage are like treasures, as if after marriage, he quickly transformed into a landlord, and began the days when he came to his clothes to reach out for food and open his mouth. In fact, no matter how good the vows are, they can't compare to sharing them again and again, whether it is a hurdle that can't be overcome in life or the trivial things in life, as long as there is someone by your side, then marriage is meaningful.
Men help with housework, reflecting the sense of responsibility for the family, but also improve the happiness of marriage, men will cherish this family more and more after doing housework, so wives, don't feel sorry for your husband, be brave and let him do housework with you.
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