People like me, you can evaluate and give some advice

Wow.. Seeing the landlord I seem to have met a bosom friend,,Because I'm also super lazy It's the kind of laziness that makes people collapse,But there's no way,Everyone has their own way of life,Maybe this is our way,Since you can't fight and accept it calmly,In fact, I think lazy is not a bad thing,It's just that the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation is diligence So don't have to drill this horn too much,,We can experience the leisurely that others can't feel,I think this is a blessing given to us by God, It's much more meaningful than going to the desperate pursuit of those things outside the body, after all, people can only live once in the world as themselves, don't waste your life on meaningless troubles, and live your life in your own way,,, okay...

I evaluate the landlord, but I can only say that you are really comfortable, what is not worried about of course not to care, if you want to provide a house for a car, often go out to eat, drink and play, you will move if you have no money, if you do not often go out to play with friends, and they compare the car with the achievement, your work motivation will be doubled.

As far as your above language is concerned, you do have a big deficiency, but you don't realize it at all, people say that you show off, why don't you think about why, you always emphasize that you are lazy, this can only mean that you are too narrow-minded, you don't think about why you are lazy, maybe you think that money is something outside the body, but since you think so, why do you complain, I am not you, I can't understand your thoughts, but please don't be half-hearted when you set goals for yourself, what you want is the fun of life, then don't complain that you don't get it You must know that other people's things come at a sacrifice, others can't give you real help, only if you think clearly, you can know what you want, and only you can plan your life.

In my opinion, a person's life is to live for a goal and a reason, and when you work hard for your goal, you will not feel empty.

From your self-report, you can see that you actually have no goals now, you are in a passable mentality, and you are easily influenced by others, maybe you ask this question because others say so to you, and many people have done it many times.

In my opinion, if you want to change, you need to add new elements to your life, give yourself some motivation, and you first need to change yourself psychologically.

The last suggestion, find a partner, think about the baby's milk powder money in the future, you have to earn it yourself, you will have pressure!!

In general, the reason you are the way you are is because you lack self-control. If you really want to change the status quo, you need to keep asking and completing it, step by step. For example, if you wake up at 8 a.m. now, you can ask yourself to wake up at 7:50 a.m. in the first week, which is easier to achieve and your self-confidence will increase, and then you will get up at 5:40 a.m. in the second week, and in the long run, you will be a brisk person.

If you want to do better, then be diligent, and if you don't improve because you know your own reasons, you can only step forward.

The following is my personal opinion: you are aware of your shortcomings, but you have not taken practical action because you do not have a clear goal, will form a lazy habit, I suggest that you make a career plan for yourself, set a realistic goal, and then divide it into a number of small goals, step by step to achieve the ultimate goal. Maybe you have your own ideas, and you have a general idea, but writing it out is completely different, and you will find difficulties in concrete actions, which are beyond the reach of mere dreams.

And now people are generally more impatient, writing more can cultivate sentiment, killing two birds with one stone.

Friend, you are already great, you must believe in yourself, in short, people must change on their own.

I'm just like you. But people always have goals, make a plan for themselves, earn a little more each time, not too much, within their own tolerance. Don't buy a car, be environmentally friendly.

It doesn't have to be motivation, simple is happiness. Everyone has their own wants, don't care what others think. If there is no new life, you can have fun by yourself.

Laziness also requires capital.

You are not satisfied with the status quo, it is good to want to be more successful, in fact, it is a goal that you have not worked hard for, when you have a baby after becoming a family, you will have a sense of responsibility, and you will work hard.

Two possibilities: one is too much pursuit of perfection so it will be lazy and the other is too thorough in life Suggestion: to enjoy a wonderful life! Dare to change!

I'm also a very lazy person, I'm too lazy to go to school, I'm playful, I can despise me, but I'm happy.

Do whatever you want with your mood.

It can be estimated below:

First, the personality is more introverted and talks less.

Second, there is no familiar person to communicate with when you first come to the new unit.

3. I haven't mastered the new job skills yet, and I haven't had time to communicate with people.

Fourth, I am not interested in the topic of everyone's communication.

5. Concentrate on work and ignore the surrounding workers.

The above reasons are possible, but such people have just arrived in a new place and need to slowly integrate into the team, as long as there are more enthusiastic people who take the initiative to socialize, they will slowly become familiar with it.

That depends on how you treat others.

It means that this person is very introverted, in fact, it doesn't matter, everyone is different, or you can try to take the initiative to contact him and ask him about his hobbies.

Maybe people are more introverted.

Maybe there is something in people's hearts that they can't get over and don't want to talk more and communicate more!

It may just be more introverted, and even if it is introverted, there is a degree of introversion. Such a person will get along for a long time, and it is quite interesting to say that he is defeated by the bull.

Or it is a lonely person who is unwilling to interact with others, often deeply hurt before, no matter what it is, don't judge a person by appearance, and after a long time together, you will naturally know it.