Is it good for girls to marry far away, their own family is different from the man s family

Girls have three opportunities to change their fate in their lives, the first is to be born well, this is decided by God, and it has nothing to do with you. The second is to change one's destiny by reading. The third is to marry well.

If you marry the right person, you will be happy for a lifetime, and if you marry the wrong person, you will be sad for a lifetime.

Especially for many girls who marry far away, if your other half is not good, there is no one around you to help you speak, and you are alone in tears.

I can finally understand why my mother didn't let my sister marry far away, and stubbornly thought that my mother just wanted my sister to be closer to her and take care of her more in the future, but I didn't expect it to be for my sister's good.

Girls who marry far away will plan well before marriage, for example, they take turns to go home for the New Year every year, no matter how busy they are, as long as they have holidays, they will often go home to visit.

Although the traffic is very developed now, such good expectations are always interrupted by various things, the child is sick, the company is working overtime, the girlfriend is married, and he may not go back for two or three years, and even if he comes back, he will leave in a hurry.

If your other half's family conditions are okay, then you can still be allowed to go home several times a year after marriage, but if you are a very ordinary family, have you ever thought that in your rush for firewood, rice, oil and salt, the huge high expenses every time you go home make you interrupt this idea again and again.

You call your parents and say that you can't go back, your parents know that you have your own family, and they will also say that it's okay if you don't come back, you are not in good health and save a lot of toss on the road.

Even if your other half of the family is good, there will be conflicts, at this time, if your husband is on your side and defends you, then you may feel better, if your husband does not speak for himself, then these grievances and distresses, you can only turn into tears and swallow them in your stomach, and you will gradually be isolated and ......helpless

Nowadays, many families are mostly only children, and if your parents have any physical ailments, you will also wish to be able to fly to them like wings yourself.

But many times, time waits for no one, and people always know how to cherish it when they lose it. Caring for your parents is something that is difficult to let go of for a lifetime, and the guilt of your parents in your heart is also difficult to let go of for a lifetime.

Girls, when you choose to marry a man, ask yourself if it's worth it.

Every girl who marries far away is brave and faces an unfamiliar environment and starts a new life.

May everyone who marries far away can be treated gently by the years.

Look at the attitude of your in-laws towards you, if you have a good attitude and your family supports you, it is best to look at the man's economic situation, after all, if you are married far away, if you are an only child, you should often go home every year to see, customs are not so important, as long as it is not the kind of more excessive, important family; If there is an older brother, it is up to the younger brother to see himself.

Consider the following points before making a decision.

1.Does the man really love you and really treat you well?

2.What is the man's personality?

3.What about the man's family? Especially parents.

4.What is the man's family background?

If the man is really good to you and has a good personality, then at least you won't quarrel often when you get married.

If most of his family members are okay, even if you and you quarrel or have difficulties, there are people who think about you, stand up for you, and solve your worries.

If his family's financial conditions are good, then you don't have to worry about going back to your parents' home.

It depends on how much you love him, how determined you love him. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and there are always difficulties, depending on whether you are ready to overcome difficulties for love. Good luck.

I don't think it's good for girls to marry far away.

1. It's not easy to go home, and it's hard to see your parents.

Before you get married, you may think that no matter how far away it is, how far it is, how far it is, it's just a matter of hours to fly. But when you really get married, you will find that you have your own family, your own job, and your own life, and you may not be able to spare time to go home to see your parents once a year.

It's going to be hard for you to see your parents, let alone take care of them. You simply can't eat your mother's cooking, chat with your father, and honor them as you imagined.

2. When you encounter grievances, you have nowhere to go.

When you are married, when you and your husband have any conflicts or grievances, you can also go back to your parents' house and talk to them, and they can also come forward to support you and help you solve your problems. But when you marry too far, your husband treats you badly, and you are wronged, so you can only carry it yourself and secretly wipe your tears.

No matter how much you are wronged, you have no way to tell your parents, and you have no way to just leave and return to the warm embrace of your parents. At that time, you will be very homesick.

3. Far from your hometown, you will feel lonely.

When you marry away for love, you will stay away from the city you are familiar with and your familiar friends. In a strange place, everything starts all over again, even if you are adaptable, you will still feel lonely. And the older you get and the longer you're away, the more you'll miss your hometown.

Therefore, it is really not good for girls to marry far away.

There are advantages and disadvantages for girls to marry far away, depending on how your husband's family conditions are, if the family conditions are okay, then the family is not a problem, you can often go back to your parents' home, if the family conditions are not good, the economic situation is very bad.

You have to be cautious with such software, because it costs a lot of money to go back to your parents' home.

Although money is not everything, it is impossible to do without money.

Love is very important, bread is also very important, there is no love without bread.

Benefits of marrying far away:

1.The person who marries is the one who loves and loves himself.

2.I don't often go back and feel very close.

3.You can feel a completely different cultural environment from the past and meet new people.

4.Learning to deal with various contradictions and learning to be independent is conducive to the resolution of contradictions5Like a moth to a fire, it has been reborn, away from everything that is now disturbing people and things.6The children born are generally relatively intelligent or good-looking.

7.If there is a conflict between husband and wife, because it is far away, the parents cannot see or hear it, and it will not make the parents sad and sad.

It is not good to say, but now that transportation is convenient, the world has become smaller. It should be okay to be farther away now, provided that it must be true love!

Many people say that it is not good for girls to marry far away, and I agree with it. If the parents don't travel far, they will marry home a lot less often, and they may see each other less in the future.

It is said that it is not good for a girl to marry far away, and it is difficult to see her family. But now that transportation is developed, as long as you can be happy, it doesn't matter.

I didn't understand it when I was young, but when I grew up, it was definitely not good for girls to marry far away, the first is that you are too far away from your parents, it is difficult to see your parents once, it is even more difficult to do filial piety, and if you marry far away, you will encounter a lot of difficulties, and you can't go home when you are homesick, which is still not good.

There are pros and cons, if a girl is married, if she finds a good husband or a good in-law, then it is okay, if you can't find it, it is really very aggrieved and difficult.

When two people fall in love and enter a certain stage, they have to consider getting married, but as a girl, should they marry far away? Parents always tell girls that they can't marry far away before they fall in love, and it is difficult to be truly happy if they marry far away. Although parents warn so, in reality, there are still many examples of marrying far away, some people have reaped happiness by marrying far away, but there are also a considerable number of people who regret it after marriage.

So should girls follow their parents' advice?

The answer is actually not important, it is you who are married, you should ask yourself, is this man worth marrying far away? If there is a difficult problem between you, can you solve it? Your parents won't let you marry far away, and your biggest worry is that you won't even find someone to talk to after you are wronged.

For parents, you are their baby, the pearl of their palms, and they can't tolerate you being hurt in the slightest.

It's not good, it's too lonely and helpless to marry far away, if you are angry at your mother-in-law's house, it is impossible to run back to your parents' house to complain, in short, the girl who marries far away has no confidence in her heart.

I don't think it's good for a girl to marry far away, if there is an awkward quarrel in her husband's family, it is too inconvenient to want to go back to her parents' house, it is better to marry closer.

As long as you live happily, it doesn't matter if you marry far away. Don't worry about your parents. Live your life.

Of course, it is not good for a girl to marry far away, so far away from her parents and hometown, she will miss her parents and hometown very much, which is not good for a girl.

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