-
The first is cordiality. People who love to put on a show, everyone will stay away when they see it. Being able to put down your status anytime and anywhere and get along happily with other people is a person who is truly loved.
Whether it is a big official, a big boss, a big person, or a big star, he is willing to get close to the people around him, keep a happy mood at any time, and be willing to say some homely words.
The second point is cheerfulness. People who are happy every day will like it when they see it. With a smile on his face, he will feel happy to meet him, and this optimistic attitude will unconsciously infect the people around him, and everyone will involuntarily want to get close to him.
The third point is zealousness. Those who are enthusiastic in the group will always be respected by others. Many people are afraid of trouble for some trivial things, and will only blindly shirk, always thinking why I am doing it, and always afraid of losing, such people are not easy to be welcome.
Enthusiastic people, many people will stand up and do it when they need help; Sometimes we don't care about the benefits we lose to benefit the public, and we tend to feel grateful and respectful of such a person for what he has done.
The fourth point is humor. People who can laugh and make everyone happy have the upper hand wherever they go. Everyone loves pistachios, but who loves to be sad? Although they may have a lot of bitterness behind them, but they still bring out laughter when facing everyone, who can not love them?
The fifth point is to look good. Among the ugly people, there are also people who are likable, but if you are good-looking, take advantage of them everywhere! This is an undeniable fact.
The psalmist says, "Beauty is eternal joy." "It is human nature to like beautiful things, and beautiful people are surrounded by people everywhere, which is also a reflection of this nature.
Appearance, dressing, and dressing can make people feel pleasing to the tax, and they are also important conditions for attracting people!
The other two very important conditions are "popularity" and "affinity". There will always be some people who are born with a trait, popularity is very good, and everyone will have different reactions when they mention him, so if you have a good condition, but the popularity is not good, it will still fail. And some big officials and celebrities, if they don't have affinity, will only put on a show, and such people, although they have a high status or popularity, are still not successful.
The above traits are all the traits of popular people, what have you achieved?Look around you with people who have these qualities, and think about how they will handle any situation you encounter, and I'm sure you'll become a very popular person.
-
Go play with your friends more!!
-
Learn to make friends with friends of friends, not only meet new friends, but also consolidate old friendships;
Attend a variety of dinners, events, training classes, and meet a variety of friends on a variety of occasions...
We must have a good attitude of dealing with things and being a person, treat people and things around us with a broad mind, and learn to understand and trust others!That's the premise. Secondly, you also have to have a certain degree of initiative, take the initiative to communicate with others, and it is not good to be passive.
-
Participate in social occasions such as friends' birthday parties or outdoor activities, etc., and accumulate your network as much as possible, and soon you will have more friends.
-
In the middle of the night, I still can't help your question, the train the day before yesterday, and I talked to people about tonsil inflammation (in fact, it was also the train that didn't turn on the heating in the middle of the night and woke me up, haha!).o(o), the university has received unanimous praise, so I think I am still qualified for your question. Communication is really everywhere, whether it's getting on the train to Kan Dashan, queuing up and getting bored with strangers, or even meeting someone's boyfriend at a class reunion, to put it mildly, this is a matter of course for me, generally speaking, introverts are always not confident enough, and always feel that their every move will be noticed by others and be careful everywhere (please, it's not Fan Bingbing, in fact, you can't do this).
The first step in communicating with people is to have a hearty and friendly smile, the perfect first impression is the most important but also simple, if you are not dressed too rudely or your hair is obviously not washed, a sincere smile is everything. Don't seem reluctant, it will make people think that you are repulsive. Secondly, if you want to talk a little more, you must have something to talk about, you can't say that people tell you that he likes Ma Yun very much, how can you only weakly ask who Ma Yun is, but you don't know how to pretend to understand, it's worse, people will feel that the time just now is wasted after talking for a long time, the sooner you leave, the better, and continue to waste time.
It is also very important to have a good associative ability, as far as the example on my train is concerned, the buddy who called the soldier opposite said that he was bored in college, and Tianlong Babu carefully watched it three times, and the idea of my conversation with him is like this: I also like Tianlong Babu - Huang Rihua's version of the classic - Zhang Jizhong's version is also good, how Hu Jun is - what else Hu Jun has acted in - I remember that movie very well, it is really rare, it seems to have won some awards. In this way, you can see that everyone's thoughts are being taken away by me in the whole scene, and I am the absolute protagonist.
Of course, it is still a little difficult to achieve this level, there is a simple way, that is, to express your own opinions from time to time when others are talking, to be the kind that can represent your own opinions, don't be afraid of others laughing at you or seeing your inner thoughts or something, don't you have to say your own opinions after you finish speaking, how fair it is. It's a big deal that you won't talk to him next time I have to say that it's still humorous, and it's hard to learn about this, but the average introverted girl is always afraid that she will make people angry if she jokes.
Let's talk so much first, what can I ask again, the simplest, at least you can't be too indifferent when people take the initiative to talk to you, this is an opportunity that fell from the sky! I used to have low self-esteem to death, I hope the above can help you o( o
-
Don't worry, most of the relationships in college are unreliable. When you step into society, you will change.
First of all, pay attention to the words and actions of the boys around you, and give them a little hint when you have the opportunity. Someone who understands what you mean is definitely paying attention to you on a regular basis, so he will take the initiative to approach you next, and then it will be much easier.
Got it.
-
Multi-faceted and all-round development, more contact with all kinds of people.
-
How can I expand my social circle? I'm a boy, 26 years old, want to get acquainted,?
Invite others to dinner.
-
QQ near the group! You can see and meet a lot of people in the group! Be humorous and generous.
-
Friends who know their own friends.
-
Walk around more and touch more to talk.
-
It depends on what type of person you want to socialize, and if it's a regular street hustler, go to the bar. If you have a bit of business acumen, you go to bookstores and restaurants as waiters.
-
Participate in various activities, such as activities in the same city, play ball, climb a mountain, travel or something, anyway, it is all kinds of activities.
-
Smile more, be able to joke, pretend to be a gentleman, play basketball, do difficult things, be confident, smile, don't be too twisty, don't be presumptuous, calm down, in short, such boys are usually more popular.
-
Have a sense of responsibility and take responsibility. Do things naturally, don't deliberately behave, which will make others offended. Be real, do things for the sake of others. Everyone should have more contact with each other, good people are not necessarily good, and bad people are not necessarily bad.
-
Self-confidence, self-confidence is the most important thing!
At the same time, don't be too selfish and think more about others!
Furthermore, be talkative and sunny!
Finally, remember, learn to laugh, whether it's a giggle or something!
Pure hand hit adoption thank you!
-
If you don't understand, you can't believe it, I'm a man, I'll tell you in charge.
-
It is reliable or introduced by acquaintances, and it can also expand the social circle.
If the social circle is narrow, you are often more or less unsociable, and it takes a certain amount of time and practice for people to become sociable. So it's actually more appropriate to use social apps and the like, at least this thing doesn't require the subject to communicate face-to-face, but there will be a certain buffer time. >>>More
Six ways to expand your network in relationships.
Make your personality more cheerful. People like cheerful people, so if we want to win everyone's affection, then we first try to make ourselves more cheerful. >>>More
It's too easy for a girl to want to get off the single. Meet a few more friends, as soon as your friends introduce you, there will be boys who will chase you, and ordinary girls will have men to pursue. As long as it's not too harsh, it's fine.
You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! >>>More