Can people who don t share common interests go the long way?

In real marriage, many people have no common hobbies, but they can still go a long time, you can not like what he loves, but don't object to him doing what he loves, common hobbies, sometimes not as good as accommodation in marriage.

As long as there is a relationship, you can go far, because interests and hobbies can be cultivated together.

I think that whether two people can go long-term is not necessarily related to the similarities and differences between their interests and hobbies. The interaction between men and women is also about seeking common ground while reserving differences. My understanding of the meaning of Datong is to appreciate each other, respect each other, support each other, and tolerate each other under the inspiration and attraction of love.

The meaning of Xiaoyi is that men and women can have different interests and hobbies, such as the man can like football and martial arts, and the woman can like writing and reading. As long as they are heart-to-heart and have full of affectionate love for each other, it is not a problem to have different interests and hobbies.

Whether two people who have no common interests and hobbies can be long-term depends on their age. Young people are high-spirited, have many opportunities and have a wide range of choices, and they are not the same kind of people, and they will not go far. Middle-aged and elderly people have gone through the hardships of life, as long as the three views are the same, they are good people coming together, it is possible to come together, it is possible to be long-term.

I think it's a little difficult, imagine that without common interests and hobbies, two people can't talk together, and they quarrel after a few words, how can it last long?

Definitely not, only people with similar interests and hobbies can go further.

For those who don't have a common interest, I think it's really hard to go further.

I think it doesn't matter if you don't have a common hobby, but you have to have the same three views, there are such couples around me, the two have different interests and hobbies, but the three views are positive, the three views are the same, the two have almost never quarreled since they got married, and life is the so-called trickle and long stream type.

As long as the hobbies are not against ethics and morals, let alone illegal, as long as they like each other, they don't have to worry about suspicion between each other, they don't have to hide and dodge, they do not interfere with each other, coexist peacefully, and they should encourage each other and learn from each other, in order to achieve each other's happy, fulfilling and meaningful life goals, so that they are beneficial to each other, so why not.

I have two friends who don't have the same interests and hobbies, but they can also fall in love and get married, and they can also get married and have children, they are affectionate, respectful, love and respect each other, considerate and tolerant, and grow old together. Although the two have different interests and hobbies, they can tolerate humility, support each other, and encourage each other, which is the only necessary condition for this couple to complete their lives.

Personally, I think that the three views must have the same view, and whether there is a common hobby or not may not be the basis for proving whether two people are long-term. Hobbies are just one of them, but two people must have one thing in common for a long time.

No common interests. In this way, even if people walk together, they will not last long.

When two people are together, it is not just their interests and hobbies, but each other's three views, family background, growth experience, living habits, etc.

Definitely not, only people with the same hobbies can be together.

This is not necessarily, if two people are more mature, even if both parties have shortcomings, they will tolerate each other and understand each other.

Men and women have different interests and hobbies, and sometimes they can achieve a benign complementary effect, enrich their lives more, and add color to their days together.

In the end, I think that in fact, the interests and hobbies of two people can be cultivated togetherBut at the same time, we should also have an understanding attitude towards the other party, if she really doesn't like us, we can't force him to do something he doesn't like, two people together should seek common ground while reserving differences, so even if the other party doesn't like your interest, don't force him, the twisted melon is not sweet, it is also a truth, so you should understand at this time.

Being with a person with the same interests and hobbies may not last long, so it takes a long time for two people to get used to each other and have a deep relationship.

I think it's really hard to live for a long time, two people don't have common interests and hobbies, they don't have a common language, and they need to go through a lot if they want to live together.

It doesn't last long, there are no common topics with different interests and hobbies, and there are fewer opportunities to play together, so this relationship is difficult to maintain.

The interests and hobbies are not the same, and two people must not be together for a long time, because the interests and hobbies of the two people are different, they must often quarrel, and then cause unnecessary trouble.

Not for long. Because two people do not have similar common hobbies, they will reduce a lot of topics, and they will also have disagreements on many things, which will accumulate into contradictions over time.

I don't think it lasts long, because two people are completely different, and when they are together, they don't have a common topic.

It can be long-lasting, as long as both of you are improving, still loving each other and thinking about each other.

Of course, it can be long-lasting, because hobbies are just one aspect of life, and there are still many points that two people can run into.

Of course, it can't last long, because two people won't have much in common, and it will be more painful to be together.

Of course, it can be long-lasting, two people can do their own thing, they just need to complement each other's personalities.

It can be long-lasting, as long as the two are suitable, and hobbies are not very important.

If the two of you have endless topics to talk about and common interests when you are in a relationship, then your emotional intensity will also increase. So when there is no common topic, it is time to really give up on the person who loves very much.

A common topic is a shortcut to getting the other person talking. It is a key that allows you to open a small door in another person's heart. Whether it's windy or rainy or an economic crisis, you can find it and turn it on.

Having common topics and interests is a matter of life. We need to communicate every day and achieve emotional resonance through communication. Good empathy fosters mutual understanding and emotional development.

In fact, it's pretty good that couples can make up for each other. There is a saying that is good, you can't understand it, but you have to respect it. If the interests are the same, it seems difficult to attract each other.

Don't laugh at each other's hobbies and respect each other's hobbies. After a long period of time, the other person may slowly fall in love with their hobby.

You have common preferences and topics. When you get along, if both people have completely different hobbies, then the two people will often engage in activities that interest them, so that the two people will have less time and less topics to talk about. So, you can try to participate in activities, travel, watch movies, etc. as much as possible, which will not only increase your enjoyment of life, but also strengthen your common topics.

Whether you're busy or not, you should keep a certain amount of time to communicate with each other, so that both parties can understand each other's needs and ideas, and at the same time think about things from a different perspective. In this way, when there is a problem, it can be communicated in a timely manner, and the relationship between the two parties will be more coordinated.

As long as you are willing to listen, he will try to respond to you, even if your level of knowledge, interest level, etc., will make our common relationship always exist while we pursue common things and retain differences. But there is no common topic, and they are not willing to respect each other. It's hard to say, it's not far from really giving up on the person you love very much.

Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be no freshness, which is a normal performance, because it is impossible for two people to have endless topics to talk about, because the process of normal couples falling in love is to talk a lot at the beginning, but then they talk more about some things in life.

The process of normal couples falling in love, at the beginning, two people saw some shining points in each other, and then attracted one party to launch an active chase, and the other party felt that this person was not bad, and then chatted with each other, chatted and found that the two people were very suitable, talk about it, and then after falling in love together, it will involve more of each other's past, each other's lives, some habitual things, these will have a hot love period, and after these things are understood, There is a situation where the two of them have nothing to talk about, because the things that the other party can understand are almost understood, and everything that the other party has done since childhood is clear.

Two people from the love period gradually to, the dull change is all couples will go through, a time to learn to find some topics in life, two people can keep talking about things, or two people to experience more things, there are more things to talk about, but also to expand their knowledge, the other party likes to understand something, so that your chat can be more pleasant, there is nothing to talk about, The first reason is that you have been together for a long time and have talked about the past, and the second reason is that you have not mastered enough chat skills, and you have not talked more about future problems, because there are infinite possibilities in the future.

Many people can't survive the dull period of love, and feel that they have entered a love mode with nothing to talk about, that is, the emotions of two people have disappeared, not love, in fact, it is not like this, because any couple has to go through such a process, to learn to find a topic, learn to transition from romantic love to real life, and spend it, and the emotions will really stabilize during this period.

Happy couples may not have common interests and hobbies, and they will last just as long, and there is no inevitable cause and effect between the two.

But lovers who have common interests and hobbies are easy to manage when they get along.

I analyze it from three perspectives:

1. Husband and wife lovers do not necessarily have common interests and hobbies, but they need to respect each other's interests and hobbies.

Common interests and hobbies, endless topics, this is actually a requirement for friends, not for husband and wife. Husband and wife are going to live a lifetime, they are running a marriage and family together, and their roles are different from friends.

When two people are together, it's not to see how interesting each other is, but because neither of them dislikes each other's "boring".

Because interesting things are temporary, they change, and one day you don't like them?

Besides, men and women are different by nature, and their interests and hobbies are inherently different, most men like sports, games, and competitions, most girls like singing, dancing, shopping, entertainment, and some don't need to force it. On the contrary, Juehui respects each other's interests and hobbies, does not belittle each other, and can get along with each other. Of course, if you care about this, you don't have to force it.

Second, compared with common hobbies, what really determines the longevity is the consensus on key issues and the similarity in values.

What affects whether the two can last for a long time is the similarity in values, such as character, morality, money, attitude towards work, attitude towards life...

and whether consensus can be reached on key issues.

The two should have similar visions and plans for their respective roles, and be able to successfully play the roles that the other person requires of them - each other's partners, the parents of the children, and the daughters-in-law and sons-in-law of the parents. Two people have a basic lifestyle such as the division of labor in the family, how many children to have, how to raise them, career, and home pursuits....

3. Hobbies can be cultivated, and lovers can cultivate some common habits, which will be more harmonious.

For example, walking together, exercising together, reading books together, watching movies together, traveling together, new hobbies can be cultivated.

Experience more new things, start to integrate into each other's circles, and get along with each other more and more common topics.

In a word, love is your greatest common hobby. Don't think so much, with a lover, do happy things, you will be very comfortable and natural.

Isn't it blissful that there is a feeling of two people staying in the same room, each doing their own preferences, not talking, and not feeling uncomfortable?

If you are comfortable with each other, you will naturally have a long time, and I wish you happiness!