Baoyu is not jealous of Daiyu, why does Daiyu often eat Baoyu s vinegar?

Because Baoyu is surrounded by too many women, and Baoyu is very considerate and gentle to every woman, she often eats Baoyu's vinegar.

Of course, Daiyu rarely comes into contact with other boys, and Baoyu just wants to be jealous and has to eat somewhere else. Daiyu is different, she is a girl who is as careful as a hair, and Baoyu grew up from a pile of women, and she is very close to many girls, which is a very excessive thing for Daiyu, so of course she will be jealous and angry.

Because men and women are inherently different, Baoyu is very arrogant, and Daiyu's character is inherently easy to be sad and compassionate, sad and sad, and easy to be jealous and conjecture.

Because Baochai, like Daiyu, is the candidate for Baoyu's wife, Baoyu also has a heart for Baochai, and the attacker is just a maid and can never become a wife, so Daiyu will eat Baochai's vinegar, but not the vinegar of the attacker。The people in "Dream of Red Mansions" have different personalities, Daiyu has more thoughts, and every time she is with Baochai, she always sneers at her, and seems to look at Baochai unpleasantly. On the other side, the attacker is Baoyu's maid, and she has a skin-to-skin relationship with Baoyu, but Daiyu has no hostility towards the attacker, and these two people can coexist with Tan Shengping.

Daiyu and Baoyu grew up together, even Mrs. Jia thought that the two were a natural pair, and Daiyu had long regarded herself as Yufeng's daughter-in-law who had become Baoyu's daughter-in-law, and it stands to reason that she should be hostile to the attacker, and the reason for this has a lot to do with Baochai's identity.

In that society, it was normal for a man to have three wives and four concubines, and Daiyu lived in that era, and the concept was the same. Attacking people is to be Baoyu's concubine, and she can never become a wife, so Daiyu never takes attacking people in her eyes, because she is not worthy of fighting with her, and she will not eat the vinegar of attacking people.

On the other hand, Baochai is different, Baochai came out of the Xue family, and Baoyu can be said to be a good match, although Baoyu has been obsessed with Daiyu since he was a child, but his heart is not firm, Baoyu also has feelings for Baochai, and he has also been moved. For Daiyu, the person who moves Baoyu's heart is her rival in love, so she is particularly hostile to Baochai.

Some people in Jiafu support Daiyu to be Baoyu's wife, and some people support Baochai to be Baoyu's wife, Daiyu knows these things, so for Daiyu, Baochai is her biggest competitor, and she naturally doesn't dare to take it lightly.

Because she knew that the attacker was assigned to Baoyu's little maid, Baoyu was only a master and servant to her, and Baoyu Duan Kai's affection for Baochai was more special than that of the hall fight, so she was jealous.

Mainly because the identity of the attacker is a maid, it is impossible for her to threaten Lin Daiyu's status, but she minds Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai dating very much, because Xue Pei can threaten Pei Bi to her status.

may be because Xue Baochai's status is very high and he can threaten Daolin Daiyu, and Xue Baochai is also very good-looking and talented.

Whether you have watched "Dream of Red Mansions" or not, everyone must be very familiar with the image of Lin Daiyu, and the adjectives around Daiyu can't escape "jealousy, love makes pettiness".

Daiyu's mind was all drawn by Baoyu, jealous and squeezing people, and she shed tears sadly alone. Daiyu has a very serious sense of insecurity about Baoyu's mind and outsiders' opinions, she is dissatisfied with Baochai when Baoyu goes to the doctor, and loses her temper with Baoyu who speaks out to defend Xiangyun, and her anxiety and loneliness torture her mind and consume her health. But Daiyu also has times when she is not jealous, and she is not jealous at all for young women who have a very close relationship with Baoyu, who is this person?

Attacking people, Baoyu's personal maid attacking people. For this young woman who had a skin-to-skin relationship with Baoyu, Daiyu completely restrained her jealousy and played the role of a good sister. When there was a dispute between the attacker and Baoyu, he persuaded her on both sides, comforted her softly, and not only that, but also called her "sister-in-law"!

Although this sister-in-law has a joke component, it is really strange with Daiyu's deep affection for Baoyu and her jealous personality.

Previously, many scholars believed that this was because in Daiyu's view, whether in terms of knowledge, identity or power, attacking people was not a threat to her, and He Qi didn't think so. The biggest premise for the establishment of this threat theory is that Daiyu has coveted the status of Bao'er Grandma for a long time, so she will be concerned about Baochai Xiangyun and the like, and will not take the attacker Qingwen in her eyes.

This view is undoubtedly a blasphemy against Daiyu, Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions" has always been a pure little daughter, innocent, coquettish and infatuated, and there are not so many trade-offs and schemes in her eyes. What she loves is not the position of Narang Bao's second grandmother, but Baoyu, who has the same heart as her, what she thinks and does is just for her own "heart"!

Baoyu doesn't treat the attacker as a maid in her heart, how can Daiyu treat Zijuan as an outsider in her heart? The two of them also have the same mind, and Xiqing truly loves the beautiful lives that take care of them, not just the Donglu Bureau because of their different identities. She treats Zijuan sincerely, of course she can understand Baoyu's thoughts about the attacker, which is also a clear proof that the two are like-minded.

The only thing Daiyu is afraid of is that someone will enter Baoyu's heart. And in Daiyu's eyes, although she is close to Baoyu, it is not love, so of course she will not be jealous!

3. Pay attention to feudal etiquette Throughout the Dream of Red Mansions, it can be found that Lin Daiyu is a person who pays great attention to etiquette. Even though she and Baoyu cherish each other, she still hopes to be recognized by the parents of Jiafu and the feudal society. That's why she is full of hostility towards Baochai, who is recognized by everyone, because she knows that Baoyu's marriage can't be decided by herself.

Although Daiyu knows that Baoyu likes her, Baochai likes Baoyu, so it is normal for Daiyu to be hostile to Baochai.

Because even if she knows that Baoyu likes her, she may not be able to marry Baoyu, Jia's mother is more optimistic about Baochai, and Baochai is more eloquent than her, so she will naturally be hostile to Baochai.

Because it was a feudal society at that time, Baochai had parents behind her to call the shots, and Lin Daiyu had no one behind her to call the shots.

Because of her insecurity, Baochai is good-looking and has a good personality, and the most important thing is that Baoyu doesn't hate her, which makes Daiyu, who is already sensitive and suspicious, even more uneasy, so she is hostile to Baochai.

Because Lin Daiyu knows that Baochai is always a potential unstable factor.

Because the two of them also live in Jiafu. But Mrs. Wang prefers Baochai. And Baochai is relatively much more capable than Daiyu. So Daiyu is hostile.

The reason why Lin Daiyu is often jealous of Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions" is that Lin Daiyu likes Jia Baoyu, but she is not sure if Jia Baoyu likes it too, and in Jiafu, there are many women with outstanding appearance and outstanding talents, and Jia Baoyu's feelings for sisters are very special. So Lin Daiyu is often jealous of Jia Baoyu. And I have never seen Jia Baoyu jealous of Lin Daiyu because ancient women usually do not go out of the door, so Lin Daiyu can't see other men, and because she usually learns and plays with her sisters, she can't get in touch with other members of the opposite sex.

So I never saw Jia Baoyu eating Lin Daiyu's vinegar.

Those who have read "Dream of Red Mansions" should know that Lin Daiyu's life experience is very tragic. Although her mother is Jia Min, the eldest lady of Jiafu, and her father is Tanhua Lin Ruhai, but unfortunately her mother left Lin Daiyu when she was very young, and her father was worried that he would not take good care of him, and because Jia's mother lost his beloved daughter, he missed his granddaughter very much, so he took Lin Daiyu to live in Jiafu. Who knows, within a few years, Lin Daiyu's father also passed away.

Since then, Lin Daiyu has no parents and brothers to rely on in this world, only one grandmother. So this also made Lin Daiyu develop a sensitive character.

After Lin Daiyu came to Jiafu, she met three springs who were about the same age as her, namely Yingchun, Tanchun and Xichun. Every day, they play and study together, and they live comfortably, and their relationship with Jia Baoyu is also very stable, and there are no waves. But then came a Xue Baochai.

Xue Baochai is older, has a very calm and calm personality, and treats people and things very properly, which is very popular with Jiafu and his subordinates. What's more, someone calculated Xue Baochai's life and said that she had better find someone with jade on her body. And Jia Baoyu happens to have a jade, and the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Sister Bao is also very good.

This made Lin Daiyu feel very uncomfortable. Because she is not sure of Jia Baoyu's feelings, now there is a docile and sensible sister Bao, and Baoyu is also very good to her, which inevitably makes Lin Daiyu jealous and makes her petty.

So before the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu was determined, Lin Daiyu often ate Jia Baoyu's vinegar. But since the two of them exchanged hearts, this has rarely happened.

Daiyu likes Baoyu, but she doesn't know Baoyu's feelings for herself, Baoyu just mixes with her sisters every day, making people angry. Daiyu couldn't see other men in the Grand View Garden, so how could Baoyu be angry.

Think about it, Jia Tongyin is fake, Lin Tongyin is zero, zero is jealous and hopes to have a turnaround, if you are jealous, it will not be fake, and you can't satisfy your fake desires, so Baoyu is not jealous.

It has something to do with personality. Daiyu is a girl, most of the girls are sensitive and fragile, but Baoyu is pampered and doesn't care about the little things in life.

Read Dream of Red Mansions carefully, who is left of the young and reasonable men in it except Baoyu. Baoyu is jealous of Daiyu, and there must be someone who can be because of it.

Jealousy is also the seasoning in love, but if the two gradually dislike each other because of trivial things, this is the biggest killer of love. Fortunately, the personalities of Baoyu and Daiyu are complementary, one is jealous and the other is willing to coax, which is why readers are deeply in love with Bao Dai.

Because there are too many sisters and maids around Baoyu, Daiyu is very worried that others will snatch Baoyu away. But there are very few men around Daiyu, so Baoyu is never jealous of Daiyu.

Because she likes Baoyu, there are many talented women in Jiafu, and Baoyu treats her sisters very specially. That's why she's often jealous. And Daiyu has no contact with other men in Jiafu, so she is not jealous of Baoyu.

Baoyu was also jealous, saying that Daiyu took Sister Bao Sister Feng to heart and felt unbalanced, and I felt that after Daiyu and Baochai became friends, Baoyu asked when Meng Guang took Liang Hong's case, and felt that Baoyu was not happy.

I think the main reason is that Lin Daiyu is a girl, very sensitive, and she sees people very accurately.

Because Baochai, like her, came in from other places, and Jia Baoyu was very good to Baochai, she was jealous. In other words, she herself feels that Baochai is her biggest rival.

Because among so many girls, only Baochai is qualified and can compete with her, and the others are either inferior to her in identity or inferior to her, so she didn't take them in her eyes at all