Why was Lin Daiyu sent to her grandmother s house? What kind of person is Lin Daiyu?

Because Lin Daiyu's mother died, his father felt that he couldn't take care of her, so he sent her to his grandmother's house, Lin Daiyu was a sentimental woman and was born sick.

Because her mother died early, her father was busy with work and had no time to take care of her, and on the other hand, she was worried that she would not be able to talk to her in the future without the guidance of female elders. Lin Daiyu is a person with aura and talent in literature, and sensitive and thoughtful in life.

Lin Daiyu's mother died of illness, and Jia's mother was very sad to send the black-haired person to the white-haired person, and wanted to take Daiyu over. Lin Ruhai can't take care of Daiyu, and wants Daiyu to receive a good education from the big family. Daiyu is a sentimental person.

Because Lin Daiyu herself is from an official eunuch family, she has seen the world, and she will not be blinded by wealth, and she herself is delicate and cautious, so she is cautious.

Because she nominally went to her grandmother's house, but in fact she was under the fence, her family was shattered, so she was afraid of being disliked.

If she wants to integrate into this big family, she has to be careful if she wants to be familiar with the rules of the family, although Lin Daiyu is young, she knows etiquette and knows proportions, which shows that she is very smart.

Lin Daiyu entered Jiafu, Lin Daiyu's mother said that the difference between her grandmother's house and other families is reflected in the grandeur and strictness of Jiafu.

Through Daiyu's perspective, it can be seen that Jiafu is a famous family with strict hierarchies, and you need to pay attention everywhere, for fear of taking one more step and saying one more word. Jiafu is a big family with Jia's mother as the core, the big family is calm and majestic on the outside, but there is no lack of intrigue and flashy extravagance. As mentioned in the article, I'm afraid only a pair of stone lions outside the door are clean.

The difference from other families is mainly reflected in the grandeur of Lin Daiyu's grandmother's house, the big stone lion and many servants.

First of all, the status of Jiafu at that time was powerful and powerful, and if Lin Daiyu went here, she would definitely be well taken care of. The second is that the old lady herself likes Daiyu's mother very much, and she can take better care of the treatment, which can be regarded as making up for her previous regrets.

is because there is no mention of her grandmother in this work, and it mainly tells the story of the interior of Jiafu, which may be because her grandmother died relatively early.

One is that there may be no one in the Lin family, and the other is that orphan grandmothers generally don't want it, and they are lucky to have grandma pain.

If Lin Daiyu had grandparents, aunts and uncles, she wouldn't have to go to her grandmother's house, and Cao Xueqin wouldn't be able to write Dream of Red Mansions.

This proposition is really ridiculous, and it's embarrassing to have nothing to do. It feels like there's nothing to do.

In a home like Lin Daiyu, it is impossible for a superior person to have a "grandmother", only a "mother-in-law".

Because her father's family has long since left no immediate family. Grandma died early.

Laugh, don't talk about grandma, but if you have an uncle, you can't send it to the Jia family.

You can't let your grandmother come back to life and raise her.

Because I want to meet Jia Baoyu.

Lin Daiyu has lived in the Jia family for five or six years, and the reason why none of the relatives of the Lin family came to visit is because the Lin family is not prosperous, and the descendants are limited.

If Lin Ruhai appoints the Tang clan to visit Lin Daiyu in Beijing, it is equivalent to not believing in Jia Shouyin Mansion and not believing in Jia's mother, Lin Ruhai will definitely not act like this.

Dream of Red Mansions", alias "Stone Record", etc., ancient Chinese chapter hui style **, one of the four classical Chinese masterpieces, a total of 120 times, most people think that the first 80 times are written by the Qing Dynasty writer Cao Xueqin, the last 40 times the author is anonymous, and the organizer is Cheng Weiyuan and Gao E.

**With the rise and fall of the four major families of Jia, Shi, Wang, and Xue Nazha as the background, and the tragedy of Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu, and Xue Baochai's love marriage, Zheng Jia's marriage, and the tragedy of the marriage of Zheng Jia, it depicts the life of some boudoir beauties, showing the real beauty of human nature and tragic beauty, which can be said to be an epic work that shows the beauty of women and ancient Chinese society from all angles.

First, in order to satisfy Jia's mother's wish to miss her granddaughter and want to take over and raise her; the second is that there are female elders who love Daiyu and are carefully raised, and they will definitely be able to marry a good family in the future;

The third is that the patriarchal atmosphere in feudal society is too serious, maybe Grandma Daiyu doesn't like girls like Jia's mother and won't pay attention to Daiyu's upbringing;

Fourth, if they are handed over to their uncles to raise, they are not as good as Daiyu after all, and Daiyu may be a Shi Xiangyun again, and he doesn't want his daughter to be wronged.

So to sum up, entrusting Daiyu to Jia's mother is the best choice.

The main thing is that there are many constraints in feudal society, and generally without a mother's family, it must be renewed, and when the time comes, it will be bullied, and it will be sent to Jiafu to comfort Jia's mother for losing her daughter's heart, and second, to stay away from disputes, if it is a modern society, you can have money.

There is an important reason, Jia's mother heard that Jia Min had passed away, she felt sorry for her daughter, and she also wanted to see Daiyu, Lin Ruhai was not easy to shirk as a son-in-law. At the same time, he also knew that there were few people in the family, and hoped that Daiyu would take this opportunity to enter Beijing to see the world, and to be better under the upbringing of his grandmother and the company of his cousins.

For the sake of Lin Daiyu's future, generally without the protection of her mother, she will be bullied more or less at home, and she can stay away from family disputes when she is sent to Jiafu.

The father's family may not have the strength and the idea to raise an orphan girl. And Daiyu's grandmother's family has a financial foundation, and her grandmother misses her granddaughter very much.

One is because Daiyu has no mother, so she will definitely be bullied, and the other is that the conditions in Jiafu are much better than her own family, and her life is more secure.

Didn't you see that the Jia family has been together for generations? In ancient times, there was no such thing as sending grandma's house, because they all lived together. It is only possible that Daiyu's grandmother has passed away a long time ago, and there is no one in the Lin family who can take care of Daiyu, so she went to her grandmother's house.

One: My family is too poor to support.

2: Later, Lin Zhixiao's family came to visit Baoyu, and as soon as Baoyu heard the word Lin, he said that the Lin family came to pick up Sister Lin, and Jia's mother was busy saying that there was no one in the Lin family, and the surname Lin was dead.

Lin Ruhai sent Daiyu away not because he didn't want to raise her, but for Daiyu's future, in order to prepare her daughter's future life security, sending her to Jiafu was the best choice.

There is only one reason - if you don't arrange it this way, you can't write it down.

It's not a modern society, it's divided into grandma's house, grandma's house, and they must all live with grandma, only when grandma's house is empty, it will be connected to grandma's house.

is for the sake of Lin Daiyu's future, Jia Min's death has caused a big blow to Shi Taijun, and sending Lin Daiyu over can give the old man a little comfort.