Can anyone deeply analyze the psychology of the masochist

Not confident enough. There is a shadow in my heart.

Not tolerant of oneself enough.

Perfectionist.

People with masochistic psychology are very painful and want to get rid of this masochistic psychology as soon as possible. But it is not enough to just smash things, shout and other ways to solve it, the way to completely get rid of this feeling is to improve your self-confidence, do not be yourself in everything, learn to analyze and look at problems objectively and comprehensively, and more importantly, you must learn to communicate with others, and tell your confusion and dissatisfaction to others and vent it, so as to avoid the occurrence of masochistic psychology and masochistic tendencies.

People with masochistic tendencies and masochistic psychology are not terrible, and do not close themselves, when individuals can not get rid of this psychology, they must seek medical attention in time, with the help of doctors can completely get rid of this bad psychological state, do not shy away from medical treatment.

By doing some projective tests, you can get some things in the individual's subconscious, such as childhood trauma, etc. Masochistic tendencies are often associated with early family relationships, but individual differences are not excluded.

If necessary, it is recommended to go to psychological counseling or psychological **.

1.Psychological trauma: Experiencing traumatic events in childhood or adulthood, such as **, **, etc., can cause the victim to feel helpless and worthless, which in turn can lead to the development of self-punishing behaviors.

2.Low self-esteem: People with low self-esteem are often prone to feelings such as self-doubt and self-loathing, and they may use deliberate self-punishment to prove that they are "unworthy" or "bad".

3.Emotional distress: Some people may suffer from varying degrees of emotional distress due to some unfortunate family circumstances, marital relationships, love relationships, etc., so they can relieve the pain of their inner minds through self-harm and punishment.

4.Certain psychiatric disorders: Certain psychiatric disorders, such as depression, anxiety, eating disorders, etc., can also lead to masochistic behavior.

Overall, masochistic behavior is unhealthy and requires psychological ** to help the patient return to normal. If you or someone close to you has abusive behavior, you should seek help from a professional psychologist in time.

According to the relationship between the subject and the object of abuse, abuse can be divided into two categories: "other abuse" and "self-abuse". Other-abuse is the abuse of the subject, the abuse of the object, and the subject and the object are two different individuals. In the case of abusive activities, he abused a certain amount of abusive behavior.

His abuse is more intuitive, easy to be noticed and understood, and easier to stop and eradicate. Self-abuse is a kind of self-harming behavior, a kind of subject-object abuse, it belongs to the behavior of self-inflicted pain and self-acceptance, that is, the subject of abuse is also the object of abuse, and the object of abuse is also the subject of abuse.

In the brain, there must be a violation of the damage to the completion of the wish means that there must be a pain damage to complete and obtain.

Low self-esteem, adolescent restlessness, depression.

1. Self-blame, guilt.

2. Hope to alleviate mental pain through physical pain.

3. Hope to be cared for, self-harm, to get the attention of loved ones, etc.

The main causes of children's masochistic behavior are the pressure from family, society and school. Patients may have commanding auditory hallucinations that allow them to hurt themselves.

In the case of self-harm, you need to go to the hospital to see a psychologist as soon as possible to find the emotions that cannot be relieved in your heart, or the difficulties that are difficult to overcome, and adjust your cognition and improve your mood with the help of the doctor. At this time, the family should give full understanding and support, and do not complain or provoke people who have a tendency to erect themselves and be disabled.

Precautions for children with psychological problems and self-abuse.

1. Accept, support and encourage children's good behavior.

2. Don't punish your child too much.

3. Parents should be consistent in their discipline, and their attitude should be serious and steady.

4. Try not to use commands, reprimands, abuses, and criticism to educate children.

5. When the child is resting, communicate with him more, listen to the child's heart, and understand the child step by step.