I was rejected by the girl I liked, and I just broke up with his ex boyfriend, what should I do??

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Respect her opinion, she has just been injured now, and she is not well, you chase her, the timing is not right, and the success rate is definitely low.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    She doesn't love you. You've been pestering her. She was disgusted. After this time, you might as well try to distance yourself from her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    What are you waiting for, if you don't make a move, others will make a move!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Waiting, waiting, taking care ... I think you don't want to think about whether you are moved or not, the key is to be with her. After being together, she will slowly discover your goodness, and she will naturally become fond of it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dude, in the same situation as you, she also said not to wait for her, and said a lot of cruel things, and now she doesn't pay attention to me, but I will continue to wait.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think if you keep waiting for her, she will be moved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Haha, that's not to say! Do you understand the stitches?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What to do? What do you want to do? If that guy will like you, then he will definitely abandon her girlfriend without hesitation. If he doesn't like you, you'd better settle down, don't be unhappy.

    From love to worry, from love to fear, if separated from the lover, worry-free and fearless. Now that you like it, you have to accept all the problems, otherwise don't choose love. Of course, only by following fate, seeing through, and letting go can wisdom be born, worry-free, and worry-free can be truly happy.

    You first determine if you are gay or something.

    And then think about whether he is gay or what.

    But don't be afraid if you decide.

    You should bury this liking in your heart, after all, that boy likes your friends first, don't become enemies in the end, and lose both.

    Do you choose to tell him or choose to miss him silently? I suggest you be bold enough to confess to him. What's more, it's not new for women to chase men now.

    Be bold and go after what you love. Don't let yourself regret it. Think about it if you told him.

    Maybe you'll have a chance to be together. Even if they are separated. Distance is nothing.

    At least you still have him. And a warm word from him. If it were me, I would be satisfied.

    Be bold and pursue what you love. Remember. Don't let yourself regret it.

    It shows that he is obsessed with his ex-girlfriend.

    If you like it, you can confess that there is nothing wrong with liking it, don't let yourself regret it, and sleep with the strongest wine and the person you love the most, hopefully.

    Be with him as much as you can, don't you say that you will be in love over time, talk to him more, this kind of thing should be done slowly, don't rush

    How can you be sure he's gay? Isn't it unrecognizable? Femininity doesn't have to be gay.

    Try to contact him, slowly start as a friend, where you meet, you just need to say a sentence first, such as "borrow a mobile phone to use" "Your bag is very good-looking, where did you buy it?" (Of course, this requires him to carry a bag, since he is feminine, the bag should also be able to carry)"....

    If you have the courage, just find an appropriate time to tell him, if you don't have the courage, then write a small note or letter or something, if you don't dare to tell him, he will never know, and if you don't try, how to know will not succeed, so I suggest you tell him to know quickly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello: First of all, I would like to tell you that when we grow up, we will face a lot of rejection. But refusal is methodical, there are things to refuse directly, sometimes indirectly, and sometimes there is a need for euphemistic refusal.

    It depends on the situation. Here are a few ways you can do this:

    1.If someone expresses affection for you and you don't have feelings for him, you have to politely refuse while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.

    You can do this by complimenting the other person on their looks, character, or whatever. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it.

    Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic. It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own.

    This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.

    2.If there is someone who is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.

    Because if you are not resolute enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to be pestering you all the time. To such people you can say, "I'm sorry, I don't have any feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again, thank you."

    This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people.

    3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you. Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.

    The above is my summary, I hope it will be helpful to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The clearest thing is: don't provoke her; If you have provoked her, quickly pull out ......

    Let's divide it into two cases.

    The first one, maybe you will say, she doesn't love her husband, you are the one who really loves each other. But you're not the one who can save her! If her marriage is really unhappy, what she has to do is to communicate with her husband, communicate, repair or simply part ways or even divorce, but never accept your so-called love in marriage.

    You can't meddle in their marriage in the name of love, that would hurt her husband.

    All people living in this world, in addition to the noble love, must also have the most basic sense of responsibility and morality. For example, if the other party has children, even if the relationship is not so good, they will choose to be together because of the bond of having children, and once there is a "third party", the husband may choose to divorce ...... because he can't bear itIt's also harmful to children.

    The second situation is that they have a happy family, and you are just prepared to accompany the girl simply because she is deeply attracted by her appearance, personality or temperament, and then you should not provoke her. To truly love someone is not to possess her, to look at her from afar, to wish her well, to wish her happiness, and thus to have peace of mind. It is also an expression of love.

    It's easier said than done, we all know this truth, especially in blind and passionate love. All you can do is try to keep yourself busy, fill yourself, and take your mind out of her as much as possible. You can also find opportunities to meet women around you who are suitable for you, and if you can start a new relationship, it will definitely help you get out of trouble.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Alas, brother, I'm in exactly the same situation as you now, and I'm annoyed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You don't accidentally break her and blow her away, let alone a girlfriend, you don't even have a scum. If a girl has one in mind, you need to give him time to digest it. In fact, she doesn't have any energy to flirt with you at all, because she lives with a person in her heart, so it's difficult to put you in, so ah, you have to be not sad or happy, don't exert pressure, you say start with friends, if you don't have a chance, don't force it, but if you like her, you just want to be with her.

    In this way, you will have a chance, even if you make trouble for her, don't let him think nonsense by himself, but he will spend more time alone, so she will not forget.

    And her feelings for you should be more affectionate, your kung fu is not overnight, not just to move him, but to make him feel that you can be loved, and your love is sincere. The reason why I miss an ex-boyfriend is because I can't think about it, and you have to untie this knot. Girls' hearts are very soft, if she doesn't appreciate it, you can be coquettish, sell hard, and she will definitely not embarrass you anymore.

    You can't be stubborn, you have to pay attention to ways and means. Don't think it's all an overnight thing, if it's that simple, it won't be your turn. It's because you really like it and it's really worth entrusting for life, so she should give you a chance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I used to like a girl, and this girl often mentioned in front of me how her ex-boyfriend was, and seemed to compare me to her ex-boyfriend every day. One time I couldn't take it anymore, so I told her, what do you mean? I'm your boyfriend now, why are you still in front of my ex-boyfriend, have you considered my feelings, if you want to date me, then don't mention your ex-boyfriend again, erase him from your mind, if you don't want to be in a relationship with me, then goodbye.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can also find a suitable time, and then communicate with the girl, tell her what you really think in your heart, and hope that she can pay more attention to you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It shows that this girl values love and righteousness, but as long as she is sensible, she is a good girl, you can accompany him to play and watch a movie with him, as long as he is willing to accept it, you have hope that you are the person she cares about the most

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