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Well, I agree with your friend's opinion, your temperament is too anxious, as the saying goes: good things are grinding, and just doing it doesn't hinder you from doing anything. It's not too late to withdraw after a long time, not to mention that you don't have a suitable candidate now.
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If this girl is worth it again, go again, and don't go if it's not worth it.
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Maybe she has a problem with her boyfriend! She can't bear him, but she likes you! She herself is also very entangled, give her some time and protect her silently behind her back!
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How much do you like it? Don't take the illusion that you like it What if you are rejected and rejected, it's a big deal to come again Be thick-skinned and soft-hearted. But if there were men in the family, forget it, ha
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She is chronically insecure. Neither her boyfriend nor you should have proven to be able to satisfy her need for security. Prove your protection of her!
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I think you can do it if you stick to it! If you really like it, stick to it, because you said that her boyfriend is not good to her, and there are children who grew up in single-parent families, and there are more or less missing in their hearts, I believe you will give her sunshine and cheer!!
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1) Don't be too sad and don't do extreme acts.
After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness.
Some were rejected, wanted to die or live, and even used threats: If you don't agree to be my boyfriend, I'll jump from here.
This kind of behavior is extreme, and it is also very selfish, thinking that if I confess, I can get the other person's heart, in fact, to confess with this kind of thought, it was wrong from the beginning, and I should understand a sentence, "Love is mutual, not unrequited love".
Correct confession, first of all, is to be confident enough, secondly, very distracted, and finally at the right time and place, self-confidence and heart, go with the flow to express your emotions, which is easy to improve the success rate of confession.
2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience.
Why did confession fail? This point must be analyzed, to avoid making the same mistake next time, some confessions, never reflect on this problem, wait for the next confession, and fail, and some are rejected more times, began to cast nets in a large area, selective fishing.
I believe that only when people understand that they are wrong can they change their direction. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time is actually that my image is not good, my clothes are sloppy, my hair is oily, and the upper is dirty.
Summary: In the confession failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.
3) Try a second confession.
After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess? Some people say, no, they have rejected me, I will confess again, so embarrassing, so faceless, let's give up and change to another confession!
Failure is the mother of success, and confessing to a failure and choosing to quit is not confident or a sign of not loving enough. The last confession failed, maybe you didn't do it enough, maybe you were too nervous, maybe you were too sudden, and scared the other party, why not try to confess again?
Don't feel that if you confess again, I will be very cheap, the more you hint at yourself in your heart, the more you dare not confess, only if you have tried and worked hard, you will know the result.
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If a girl doesn't feel any interest in you from the beginning, then don't insist too much on continuing and end up in a situation where you can't even be friends.
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Don't hang yourself from a tree, empathy is a good way to do it.
Since she said that you can't afford to give her what she wants, then she will be disgusted if you continue to pester. As for love, you can't force it, you must know that the twisted melon is not sweet. I have always felt that confession is irrational, love is brewed slowly, and confessing when the two of them have not yet felt will only scare people away.
I've had boys rejected by me before, but it doesn't seem like a thing.