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Maybe it's because you don't have the right eye! There are more beautiful people and excellent people, and we can't have the urge to love everyone! Therefore, if the blind date is not successful, it is not that you are not good enough, it is likely that there is no eye for each other and no spark of love!
It's like two planets that don't intersect, passing by each other and never meeting each other. Therefore, love at first sight is still quite mysterious, and sometimes you have to believe it.
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The other party is not in a hurry to fall in love! If you want to succeed in the blind date, you must have the right time, place and people, and all three are indispensable. When you meet someone who is ready at the right time and in a romantic place, you will write a good story.
But if the other party's life focus is not on love, and they still want to live a comfortable life as a single aristocrat, they come to the blind date just to relieve boredom or sort out writing materials! Then even if you try your best, you will not escape the end of failure!
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Maybe it's because the other party doesn't have the right attitude to go on a blind date! Don't think that the other party is here to find a partner when he participates in a blind date, and it may also be to cope with an errand! Their parents don't agree with their love, so they have to beat the mandarin ducks and force their children to go on a blind date, and they will go through the motions in order to cope with their parents.
Therefore, even if you talk happily on a blind date, but the other party has a heart, the blind date will eventually fail!
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The reason why the blind date didn't look at it is very simple, that is, your appearance and economic conditions do not meet the requirements of the other party, it's as simple as that, I have seen a woman in the community, the logistics of ordinary state-owned enterprises, the family is average, the appearance is old, and the few numbers found out are civil servants except for an annual salary of 300,000, the others are civil servants, and the blind date is a conditional transaction, and the conditions of the man are generally significantly higher than that of the woman.
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When you go on a blind date, you should have a sense of time, say when to go back, and go back on time, there can be no delay, and at the same time you can also take the opportunity to observe whether the other party cares about the time you say, if the other party does not take into account you just play and forget the time, generally such a person is not worth continuing, especially if such a person is a man, at least he does not respect the woman.
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Don't talk about your love history, even if you have a few love histories, you only need to mention one or two sentences, and you can't say it completely, just say one of them. Too much of a rich love history makes people either think that you are too attentive, or that you are abandoned is problematic, which leads to the blind date ending without a problem.
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There will be a meal or afternoon tea on a blind date, but whether you choose to eat or choose to drink afternoon tea, it costs money, that is, there is a problem of paying, and who will pay in the end is actually a very important link. If both parties are more Westernized people, then there is no problem in choosing the AA system, if they are more traditional Chinese, then if the woman rushes to pay, it will hurt the man's self-esteem, so the wrong payment is often the key factor in the failure of the blind date.
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On a blind date, if the other party asks you what you want to do, what you want to eat, and what you want to play, it is best to have one or two things that you can make a clear decision and choice, rather than blindly saying casually, so that on the one hand, it seems that you have no opinion, and on the other hand, when the decision is made entirely by the other party, it will seem that the blind date is boring and has no desire to continue.
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The first blind date to avoid physical contact, as the saying goes, easy to get the person is the least cherished person, if you blind date for the first time was ignorant of physical contact, then always leave a frivolous impression on the other party, and soon lose enthusiasm. When you meet for the first time on a blind date, there is only a thread as thin as a hair between two people, and if you use a little force, you will lose everything.
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If there is a difference in clothing and words and deeds, then it will give the other party an unsuitable impression, which is basically a dead end when they meet. If you are dressed for yourself, it is not advisable to read fashion magazines or dressing guides before leaving.
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1. I am a national staffer, you are not.
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When the girl keeps rejecting the boy on a blind date, it means that the girl is not interested in the boy, and it is not good to refuse directly, so it is like this.
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Because girls have more choices, and now there are too many boys and too few girls, many times it is generally girls who make choices, because girls have their own ideas, and they can have better conditions to make decisions.
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This is because in the current society, there are more boys and fewer girls, so girls have more choices, and boys are dominant in a family, and if they get married, the requirements for boys are relatively high, and the requirements for girls are relatively low.
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Because girls have a clearer idea of their other half, blind date girls are also more picky, and the result is that girls reject boys more often. I wish you happiness.
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Boys are always rejected by the woman during the blind date. Then boys should examine whether they have any fatal weaknesses. For example, straight male personality, stinginess or poor conditions, these reasons will cause girls to be disgusted and disgusted!
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Men and women have different perceptions of blind dates. For example, for boys, they are all on a blind date, so they should talk about what should be discussed.
Family situation, work, personal hobbies, etc., are all explained, and they look almost everywhere, even if it doesn't work, don't ink. And for the woman, the blind date is not like this.
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It may be that the girl really doesn't like each other very much, or she may feel that the other party and her personality are not very suitable, so they will take the initiative to reject the other party, or it may be that the other party has some conditions that cannot meet them.
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On a blind date, if the girl always rejects the boy, then it means that the girl does not fancy the boy.
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When going on a blind date, it is always the girl who rejects the boy, because the girl is more demanding on emotional matters, and she can't tolerate the boy being a little sloppy with herself, and hopes that the boy can be good to her wholeheartedly.
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Girls are too picky to be left, and boys are left because of poor conditions, so it will cause girls to reject boys.
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Maybe it's just that I don't think it's appropriate, after all, it's hard for a person to feel like someone at a glance, and they all need to get along slowly, look at each other's personalities, habits, and slowly increase their goodwill.
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When going on a blind date, it is always the girls who reject the boys, probably because there are more men and fewer women, so the girls will have a great sense of superiority in this regard, and they feel that they have a lot of opportunities to choose from, so they are naturally very picky.
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Because there are few girls themselves, many girls already have a partner, maybe they were forced by their families to go on a blind date, and girls have more rights to choose boys, so he will refuse boys.
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Maybe the boy was too eager, which made the girl feel burdened and offended. Even a blind date has to be done slowly.
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Because girls are more emotional, and girls are often in better condition, girls may not want to continue if they don't fit their eyes at first sight.
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Because in most cases, girls are on the relatively weak side, and their self-confidence and vigilance will be relatively high, and they are prone to the idea of rejection.
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When going on a blind date, it's always the girls who reject the boys, because the girls, they look at people more carefully, so the girls can always find out some of the boys' problems.
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It shows that boys are not girls' dishes, so it is normal for girls to refuse, and when girls are like this, boys should stay away from her.
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Maybe it's because girls have higher requirements, and then they will be very cautious about the choice of blind dates, so there will be more people who refuse!
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Girls have a lot of demands on their other half, and they will refuse if they don't meet the requirements. But as long as the boy can see the past girl, he can settle it.
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When going on a blind date, the girl always rejects the boy, which means that the girl doesn't like the boy, has no good impression of her, and definitely won't like the boy.
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Because girls are more reserved, love face and vanity, and are afraid of being rejected by the man first, so they take the initiative to reject the boy first.
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Because girls must be a little more reserved, they must raise their "worth" a little, so girls will refuse when they don't like it, or girls are too decisive and want to find a job, a boy whose academic qualifications and family conditions are much better than their own.
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It's very simple, it means that this girl doesn't like this boy at all, so she will always reject him, which means telling this boy that they are not suitable for each other.
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The woman's reason for refusal is: If you didn't reply to the email that day, I don't want to have any more relationships with you.
Thinking about this reason is also very far-fetched, two people on a blind date get to know each other through email, because the man did not reply to the woman's email on the same day, the woman gave up the opportunity to learn more about the man.
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In fact, when going on a blind date, girls reject boys, and that's what most people do, and most girls do, because girls just look at appearances, and they look at appearances.
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When you go on a blind date, the girl always rejects the boy, which means that he doesn't like you, and for such a person, you don't need to force her to pursue her again.
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If the girl always refuses on a blind date, the boy is just because the girl's current requirements are higher, well, many boys' economic conditions, including age, may not meet the girl's satisfaction.
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What are the manifestations that blind date girls don't like about you? Not everyone can find their perfect partner through blind dates, sometimes you like each other, but the other person may not be interesting to you at all. Today, I will list some of the performances that blind date girls don't like you after meeting, and you can quickly judge through these performances.
1. Chat attitude.
It can be seen in the attitude of chatting, because if she likes you, the girl will be happy to chat and interact with you. But if in the process of chatting, you are looking for a topic on your own and constantly opening the topic, but the girl on the blind date is simply you, or even ends your topic directly. Meaning she's not very interested in you.
If you are not very enthusiastic about yourself, then you can judge with a high degree of certainty that you have no results. So don't waste your time.
2. Always find fault with your shortcomings.
Whatever it is, she will say it without mercy. This makes you feel very embarrassed, and it's a sign that you're not interested. Everyone understands that if she likes or loves you, she will tolerate your shortcomings.
On a blind date, she keeps pointing out your shortcomings just because she doesn't want to develop further with you. At this time, you also have to find a reason to leave quickly, and you can't allow yourself to continue to feel embarrassed.
3. She kept looking at her phone.
We all know that if a girl really likes a boy, she won't do that. Because someone is talking to you, you just don't respect each other when you play on your phone. If you go on a blind date and see that the other person has been slapping **, you can conclude that she doesn't like you.
There will also be a look around, and the eyes will not stay on your body.
4. I made an appointment once, but there was no next time.
People will say, weird, the last time I dated that girl, I felt good. Not only did the chat cover everything, but there was a lot of laughter during it. She should be interested in me, but why not?
Can't make an appointment? I have to say that there are a lot of boys who think they are doing well on a date, and the same proves that girls should feel the same way, but that's not the case at all. Even if the girl thinks it's good to go out with you, there is a very important reason why she suddenly loses contact or has no next time.
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Unwilling to talk to you, ignorant of you, unwilling to reply to your messages, disgusted by your physical contact, unwilling to meet with you, these behaviors are actually rejecting you.
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Say that you are busy, put your hands on your chest, your steps are facing outward, you often play with your mobile phone, and occasionally receive ** saying that you are busy and are leaving, which means that you are really rejected.
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If the other party cuts off contact with you after the blind date, it proves that the other party actually thinks that you are not very suitable for each other. At this time, you can tentatively ask the other party out to play, see what the other party's reaction is, if she keeps finding all kinds of excuses to excuse herself, it proves that the other party is perfunctory to you.
If you don't want him to develop, it's right to reject him. Don't be sorry. If you don't like him, you don't reject him, it's more hurtful to him, and it's not right to be silent, and sometimes it's considered acquiescence.
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