Do you need to continue in a relationship that your parents and friends don t agree with?

Tell the truth, you should be honest with him about your difficulties ...

1.Because your parents don't agree, it's a big obstacle, you have to tell him why your relationship is stagnant and make the problem clear.

2I think that boy will have his own opinion even if he is not assertive, you just have to listen to what he has to say.

If he is very decadent and heartbroken, it can only mean that he loves you but can't give you happiness... He was cowardly and unresponsible.

If he tells you that he will fight for you to get your parents to accept him and find a way to get out of this problem, it means that he is worthy of your dependence. He didn't run away from the reality of the problem.

3.If you like him, support him, try to get your parents to agree with him, and help him get impression points in your parents' hearts. It's you who you're going to live with him for the rest of your life, not your parents.

Think about it, will two people be happy together? If not, then letting go is the best fulfillment for both parties.

Today is the Qiqi Festival, did the parents of the Cowherd and Weaver Girl agree?

No, then they are not continuing to write the legend of love.

It's up to you whether you want to continue or not, ok

Life is in your own hands, but from the overall analysis, you have found that it is not suitable, if you add contradictions to the future. It's not another saying, you don't have to marry someone to love her, right? Anyway, no matter what the result. I hope you both have a happy life.

Does he love you ? According to what you said:

The man is introverted and doesn't talk much, which makes people feel very weightless.

In my opinion, it is not appropriate to continue dating.

This should be judged according to one's own heart, and it is difficult for outsiders to say.

Don't care about other people's opinions, just two people who care about each other and like each other I think so, but it's up to you to choose, choose a decision that you don't regret later!!

Then you listen to the opinions of your parents and friends or your brothers and sisters at home, if most people are against it, then I advise you to give up, because the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. The world of love is all blind!

It's better not to get along, you're going to have a long life in the future, and since you've found something inappropriate with each other, let's end it as soon as possible. In case you get married and encounter problems in the future, the family will definitely say that they did not agree with you being together at the beginning, and you should also consider your future life and your parents.

If you think it's good or not, don't continue if it's not good.

Don't do it, the man will have pressure in his heart, and after a long time, the woman will also have opinions about the man.

I think love that parents don't agree with should continue. The beginning of love is often easy, two people like each other, or they don't hate each other, they can develop into boyfriend and girlfriend. And in the face of liking, all the shortcomings and personality incompatibility can be run-in in the subsequent relationship.

However, there is one problem that is an important reason why many couples break up, and that is that parents do not agree. I'm sure everyone must have heard the saying that if your parents don't let you marry, you don't marry in the end. And those whose parents didn't let them marry ended up marrying.

First of all, of course, it is to find the reason for the disapproval of the parents, and the relationship is not approved by the parents, most of which are due to financial problems. Whether the man's parents do not agree or the woman's parents do not agree, the economy is a very important reason. Boys' parents are worried that their son's burden will become heavier if the girl's family is not good, while the girl's parents have a simpler reason, fearing that their girl will marry and suffer.

If it's for this reason, I think it can be overcome, two young people, with sound limbs, as long as they are willing to work hard, I think anything will be there. So, that's one of the best problems to solve.

The second is that he feels that his son or daughter is dissatisfied with himself, and this is mostly because his mother-in-law is dissatisfied. Therefore, people will feel that their children are very good, so they will put the requirements for their children to find the other half very high, and in reality, it is too difficult to meet the requirements of the mother-in-law or the mother-in-law. If you disagree for this reason, then I want you to remember that it is you who get married, not your parents who get married.

Your other half is your own choice, if you give up just because your parents are not satisfied, then I think it's just because you don't love enough, and there will be so many reasons for true love. And because their parents don't agree and choose to give up, most of them are boys' attachment in love is mostly less than that of girls, so whether their mother disagrees or the girl's mother disagrees, under the pressure of day after day, they will gradually feel that what their parents say may be right, maybe if they change someone, it will really not be so hard.

If the parents oppose this hurdle and can't get over, then if they encounter more difficult difficulties in the future, how can the husband and wife break through? If he can't work with you now, do you expect it to be later? At the end of the day, all the resistance is an excuse, and as long as you really love each other enough, it's not a problem.

I hope you won't break up because your parents are against it, your life is very long, but I hope you don't get married because it's suitable, but because of love. Of course, if the reason for the opposition of the parents is the character of the other party, then it is recommended that you think about it, after all, parents can see through the essence of a person better than us.

Let me share with you my real opinion.

First of all, personally, probably because I'm a boy,Even now at a mature age, if I meet a girl I like and my parents don't agree, I will refer to their opinions, but in the end I will basically follow my inner thoughts. I feel that feelings are my own business and have nothing to do with anyone, and a person needs to have their own ideas and opinions.

Returning to the objective point of view, parents want their children to live a happy life. There is no doubt that their thinking is not as advanced as ours, but their experience is there, and they are generally more accurate than us in terms of looking at people. So it's something that parents strongly disagree with, and I suggest that friends think twice.

My advice is to first clarify why parents disagree. Both parents are from the past, and love is important, but they also know the importance of bread very well. If the other party's conditions are average, you have to see whether he has the ability and willingness to fight for you in the future to live a happy life, if you hesitate or think that he can't, then give up decisively.

If you believe he can, then I support you to keep going.

The second point is for all boys and girls, if the parents disagree because of the other person's bad character, then you should consider it carefully. Parents have rich experience, and they can tell through his facial expressions, words and deeds whether this person is reliable or not, and whether the two can come together.

At last. Sometimes we just indulge in the joy of love and don't see each other clearly, and we end up bruising ourselves. If you still insist on it, then the probability of tragedy is relatively large.

In any case, friends should understand that winning the approval of both parents is the first step to a happy marriage. You don't have to listen to all the words of your parents, but you must not blindly get carried away by love and rush in desperately. In closing, I would like to say that no matter what the outcome, adults should pay for their choices.

So you must think twice before acting.

If your parents are just showing their different suggestions and ideas out of concern for you, but they don't force you to accept and be submissive, then you don't have to be too nervous, you can have a good chat with your parents about why they are against it, and maybe it will give you some new perspectives on how to maintain your relationship. For example, parents will worry about some very practical problems, such as being in a different place, financial difficulties, etc. You can take such objections as a reflection on your relationship and prepare for the difficulties that may come your way.

If you feel that your parents' ideas or suggestions are reasonable, you can choose to accept them or propose solutions accordingly. For example, you can talk to your parents specifically.

This kind of thing must be done on a case-by-case basis, and it cannot be said in general terms to continue, or to sever the relationship between two people.

The love that the parents opposed, with the insistence of the two people, some of them also bore fruit, and the two people lived a special happy and happy life.

But most of them were not happy, and many problems and contradictions arose between the two people, which could not be resolved, and eventually separated.

Under normal circumstances, the love that parents oppose is because they see some hard wounds from each other. I feel that two people are not suitable, and it is impossible to be together for a long time and stably, it is just an impulse, and it is destined to fall apart soon.

Most of them are two people, the gap is too big, or the boy has no ability, no job, lack of ability, family conditions are too poor, and parents feel that it is impossible for two people to be together.

There is also the girl's character is too bad, and her private life is too chaotic, although for the time being, the boy is carried away by feelings, and if he is sober, he will leave this girl immediately. But now they are very paranoid, and their parents will be particularly opposed.

Therefore, the love that parents oppose, I should think deeply about it, what is the reason? Is it that parents are too realistic? Can't see your own needs, or the values of the two generations are too different, and your parents don't understand you, and you don't understand your parents?

If you feel that two people are very suitable, have the same temperament, are happy with each other, and are the most suitable together, then you can persevere, and you will definitely get the approval and blessing of your parents in the end.

If it is indeed a parent, who has doubts about his lover's character and is not satisfied with his ability, he should calmly consider the real life, not be too impulsive, not be blinded by feelings, and think about his future life. In later life, there are many things, love is just a very small part of life, and love alone is not enough.

Therefore, the love that parents oppose, whether to continue to insist on it, or to sever the relationship between two people, must make the right choice according to the specific situation.

If your parents don't agree to love, I think if two people really want to be together and love each other, you should have a good talk with your parents, of course, you should continue, you shouldn't give up.

It's best not to, you will have a very hard life without the blessing of your parents, marriage is bland and boring, if you don't have the closest people to your love, it is difficult for two people to go far, parents are very experienced after all, it's right to listen to it! When people get older, they will find that love is really worthless in the face of family affection!

First of all, parents do not agree to this relationship, depending on why the parents do not agree, in general, parents are for the sake of their children, may feel each other. The conditions in all aspects are not so good, and you can't give your children happiness, so if you identify the other party and feel that the other party can give you happiness, I think you can convince your parents.

It can only be said that you should think carefully about this relationship, because your parents will not disagree without reason, you can ask your parents what they disagree with, and then see if he is worthy of your company.

First, it depends on whether what the parents say makes sense, and in many cases, the love that the parents are not optimistic about is really not worth nostalgia. After all, they have a lot of experience, and they are very accurate in seeing people. So, if you find your partner's shortcomings unbearable, there's no need to be too nostalgic.

2. Communicate well, don't go against your parents, you can consider the opinions given by your parents, if the other party is really worthy of love, talk to your parents well, and let your parents find out his good.

3. If you don't stop what your parents say at the beginning, you will be ruined by your parents' opinions, no matter how many people you talk about in the future. Never think that your parents can find a good love partner for yourself, the marriage partner that parents want to find is the kind that lives at home, and they don't care about their children's feelings. After all, the marriage of my parents' time is different from the current marriage situation, the age is different, and the concept of marriage is different.

Fourth, it's good to call the shots, if the parents intervene too much, it will be detrimental to their marriage, and it will also produce a lot of ***. For example, children's mentality will become more and more hypocritical, and they will slowly confront their parents. Emotional things are always known only to oneself, and others can't feel them.

If the parents of both parties do not agree to be together, there is no need to continue, because if the two families are dissatisfied with each other, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions in the future, and the feelings of the two people may not be able to support these parents. So we should choose a partner who makes us more at ease. Because marriage is not a matter between two people, but also between two families.

Personally, you can listen to your parents' opinions, because the vast majority of parents in the world want their children to live well, so you should listen to their views and refer to them.

Many people think that listening to their parents means that they have to do what they say. Please, you are already an adult, and your parents can listen to their opinions and choose for yourself. Love and marriage are related to the happiness of your own life, think carefully and make your own choice.

All love can listen to the opinions of parents, and how to think about it for yourself.

In fact, most of the parents' opinions come from their life experiences, and our thoughts are just that Ming Jingxia feels happy to be with him, and thinks about the future too beautiful and too simple. The opinion of your parents is definitely a factor that cannot be ignored, but the most important thing is to listen to your own heart, because it is not your parents who can accompany you until you grow old, but your other and you.

Do you have to listen to your parents when you fall in love?

In real life, most girls will not listen to their parents' opinions, and even if their parents strongly oppose them, they will only turn into an underground relationship and no longer open to their parents. But such a relationship is often difficult to get to the end, and it usually takes several years to finally break up. So, what's wrong in between?

Is it really the parents' judgment that is right? Not really. The core question is:

The pressure from your parents makes you neglect to observe each other, and instead focus on confronting your parents, trying to prove that your choice is correct. And the more you want to prove it, the less you will look at the other party's shortcomings, the more you will not look at the other party objectively, you will look at him with a filter, and you will not be able to listen to the negation of others about him. You will feel that when others deny him, they are denying yourself.

So, do you want to listen to your parents in love? Parents' opinions can be consulted. But in this process, you must see your partner's shortcomings, run in with him, get along normally, and find out whether you are suitable in time.

Don't let the pressure from your parents blind you.