My parents don t agree with me and my boyfriend, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-04
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since he came to your house sincerely, it means that he loves you very much, and I am happy for you. There's still a long time to live, and I don't think it's possible to give up on him. You have to decide your own happiness.

    It's settled. Trust your own choices. A true love is rare. Later, you go back to find someone. This feeling is something you can't forget.

    Your parents' perceptions will change over time, as long as you do a good job.

    A few days or months, a few years...

    You have to decide your own happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    So is your man good to you, and what are his abilities?

    If you really love him, and he is working hard to create the future for you. Just stick to it.

    It can only be said that your father is too pedantic, since your boyfriend is good to you and has the ability, you can work together, time will tell

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you love him? Isn't it very lovely!And what about you!Are you happy and happy together?First of all, make sure that you don't make a decision now, and regret it later, if you two love each other deeply, you must go for it.

    Rush away, but for your own love, for your own happiness, go boldly!Don't worry about anything, or you'll regret it later, I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After graduation, start working, first put the emotional things away, you both have a job and income to have the ability to live together, the most important thing is to see his ability to work, parents are also for the good of their children, and not just lose face After all, now the money is not good to earn and the job is not easy to find, some families in the city can work in a good unit by going through the relationship, but the rural ones do not have this ability, especially the parents in the countryside are too conservative, and the seven aunts and eight aunts have a lot of things, It's just that you haven't lived in his circle yet, you can't experience that feeling, if you really want to be with him, then let him show a little bit at work, and your parents won't be too opposed at that time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Are you going to live with him? Or do you want to live with your parents for the rest of your life?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you want to listen to your parents' opinions when you are in love?

    Personally, you can listen to your parents' opinions, because the vast majority of parents in the world want their children to live well, so you should listen to their views and refer to them.

    Many people think that listening to their parents means that they have to do what they say. Please, you are already an adult, and your parents can listen to their opinions and choose for yourself. Love and marriage are related to the happiness of your own life, think carefully and make your own choice.

    All love can listen to the opinions of parents and consider how to do it yourself.

    In fact, most of our parents' opinions come from their life experiences, and our thoughts are just that we feel happy to be with him at the moment, and we think too much about the future and too simple. The opinion of your parents is definitely a factor that cannot be ignored, but the most important thing is to listen to your heart, because it is not your parents who can accompany you to old age, but your troubled fluid.

    Do you have to listen to your parents when you fall in love?

    In real life, most girls will not listen to their parents' opinions, and even if their parents strongly oppose them, they will only turn into an underground relationship and no longer open to their parents. But such a relationship is often difficult to get to the end, and it usually takes several years to finally break up. So, what's wrong in between?

    Is it really the parents' judgment that is right? Not really. The core question is:

    The pressure from your parents makes you neglect to observe each other, and instead focus on confronting your parents, trying to prove that your choice is the right match. And the more you want to prove it, the less you will look at the shortcomings of the other party, you will not look at the other party objectively, you will look at him with a filter, and you will not listen to the negation of others about him. You will feel that when others deny him, they are denying yourself.

    So, should you listen to your parents in love? Parents' opinions can be consulted. But in this process, you must see your partner's shortcomings, run in with him, get along normally, and find out whether you are suitable in time.

    Don't let the pressure from your parents blind you.

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