I wondered, how could I have a heart for a woman who had a boyfriend!!!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well, put aside those low self-esteem.

    Even life can change with it.

    You don't have to blame yourself because you liked the woman before she knew she had a boyfriend.

    Well, it's not love, but it's okay to keep a little good wishes.

    It's an opportunity to motivate yourself to develop.

    Very nice kid at least knows how to put yourself in someone else's shoes. Oh, that's a rare point, and the rest take your time.

    If you become good--- I mean competent, then you're going to catch her eye.

    Hehe, you can quietly watch in case one day when she is in trouble.

    If you have to intervene. Look at each other's interests and hobbies (fate is important) remember to let go of your heart, scatter your heart, and vent.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Man is an emotional animal, you will take a fancy to him, this is normal, people have boyfriends, are they married?

    I suggest you go and confess to him, and if they don't agree, then take the time to forget about him.

    As for low self-esteem, there's nothing to be inferior about, and you'll find your significant other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As long as you don't get married, you have a chance, so work hard.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is not love, you are self-inflicted, I advise you not to confess!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Live the life you want to live, single or partnered, as long as you want to live as happy as you want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay to have a guy of the same age to live.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hurry up and find one. Don't set the bar too high. Just be good for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First, if you can't stand it, you should tell the other party as soon as possible. Otherwise, if people pay so much, you are also delaying others, right?

    Second, in fact, it is also a good way for others to introduce blind dates. Only when you get in touch with more people can you understand what you like and what problems you have. I know a lot of friends and colleagues who actually got together on blind dates. Most of them are living happily.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't really want to believe it**, do you really know anything about this man?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    After touching it for a few months, forget it if it's not suitable.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may be that you are too demanding!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe you are not very old, so your requirement for your boyfriend is to be able to accompany you more, that is to say, your relationship is not firm enough, in the process of dating, you do not have an unforgettable feeling, in fact, you can change your perspective to think about it, maybe he is busy, so there is no time to accompany you. In this case, it is recommended that you recall your sweet days when you are alone, and recall the pictures that once made your heart move. Get to know each other better, understand each other more, and make your relationship more qualitative.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, this phenomenon is very common, because you and your boyfriend are not really with you, that is, married, living together, so you are not combined with him from the heart and reality to become a community, so you are free during this time, so it is normal for you to have this kind of thought in your heart, how to get rid of it is to miss your boyfriend, as long as you think about someone else, you will call him ** to tell you that you miss him, so that you will know that you love your boyfriend very much, Until you enter the palace of happiness, come on, bless you, wish you happiness, love is not easy, hope to cherish. Come on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No one can control their feelings, but when two people are together, they are not carried by simple feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is difficult to count the number of people you have met in your life, and it is a rare fate for your boyfriend to meet you among thousands of people until you fall in love, and it can be seen that you cherish this relationship. There can be multiple feelings, but there is only one husband. You can discover the beauty of other people other than your boyfriend, which proves that you are sober, in fact, it is the most dangerous to have only one person's feelings in your eyes, and the pursuit of perfection!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find something for yourself to do and be enriched, and you won't want to rely on others so much.

    There is also positioning, there is still a difference between friends and boyfriends, just like touching and love are not the same thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you say that you just have a crush on the person you spend with your boyfriend because you don't have much time for you, that's nothing! Because people have lonely times, people's psychological defense line will always be lowered when they are lonely! I think you should talk to your boyfriend, as your boyfriend, if you don't even have time to spray with you, it would be too irresponsible!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You are very dependent on people right now. Changing this symptom can make you busier or connect with your boyfriend more. It won't leave you so empty.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's up to you, and if you're a good girl, you won't cheat on your boyfriend! There are things don't believe how many people nowadays can be sincere and move you too if you say a few words in online chat. Now society is dark!

    Be careful!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think that's a good thing 1 You're not married yet?!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Your relationship isn't deep enough, is it?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's all lonely and to blame! Understand 、、、

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you're really tempted, tell him sooner! But you have to think clearly, it's OK to know who is really good to you.!!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    , will be tempted, have a question, hang yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I have a girlfriend who is 9 years younger than me, and in my heart, she is just a pure little girl. The mindset and concept are fundamentally different from mine. But we went through a lot and a lot and ended up together.

    I even struggled with her every day, because I couldn't talk to her at all. But I knew in my heart that I loved her, and she loved me too. I feel like she is destined to be the only one in my life.

    I also like a girl who is 3 years older than me now. She also has a son. She is very gentle, considerate and understanding.

    I still think about her every day, but I know that we can't be together, and I only think of her as a confidante because I don't want to lose her, let alone my girlfriend. It is inevitable to be tempted by people, and the most important thing is to be measured. You have a balance in your heart, which is more important than your boyfriend's shortcomings or the love between you, and you know which one should choose.

    I hope you can be happy ... I miss that sister too.,I miss it very much.。。。 But I can only say it on the web ...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's terrible for two people to have no common language, if you really aren't the same kind of people, then end this relationship early, although it hurts, but it's better than getting married and divorced in the future!! From what you said, it basically revolves around that foreign friend, which shows how his current life occupies most of your experience, and you and your boyfriend are now habitually together, and the love is fading and the love is about to break up!! You and that friend are fresh together, not necessarily he is the ideal choice in your mind!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, you must be very self-blaming for feeling now, you blame yourself for not letting him know that you have a boyfriend earlier, you still blame yourself for why you like someone else, and feel that you are very sorry for your current boyfriend! You want to leave your boyfriend, but you don't want to hurt your boyfriend yet, you are not willing to be with him if you don't leave your boyfriend, you still feel that you are not happy with your boyfriend with him, but you still think that your boyfriend is very good to you, you are very conflicted now, right? I advise you to make a decision earlier?

    Don't drag the mud and water, if you can't bear your boyfriend, give up on him, if you think you will be happy with him, you will break up with your boyfriend, don't be with your boyfriend and think about him psychologically, it's not fair to either of them!

    I suggest you listen to a song "Triangle Chain", I think it describes the pain of a love triangle, love must be able to afford to let go! When it is decided, it is good for all of you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you like it, take it! The fact that you are now tempted to someone else when you have a boyfriend is enough to prove that your relationship is not as strong as you think, even if it is not a current colleague, there will be someone in the future, right? Since the results are all about the same, why not take advantage of the current one!

    It's not easy to meet someone you like in life, why care about other people's thoughts? The mouth grows on others, how to say it is someone else's business, but life is your own, feelings are your own, women! Be kind to yourself!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There is no right or wrong on the road of feelings, maybe the current like may not stand the test of time, you and your boyfriend have been together for so many years and can stand the test of time, which means that you are still very good, but now there is another person, maybe he makes you excited, but this is only temporary, on the road of feelings, sometimes you have to be broken, two people think differently together, it is really difficult to live together, that is, it is not suitable to simply say. In fact, I know everything best, I have all the answers, I just want to get more people's support, as a bystander, I neither support nor oppose, think about it yourself!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello! Regarding your question, I feel that in fact, two people fell in love with each other at the beginning, liking a person is not the benefit of falling in love with him, you also have to like his disadvantages slowly, and use your love to make him change his bad habits, sometimes he should want to see how important he is in your heart! About the second man, it depends on how much you love your current boyfriend!!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Emotional things are not easy for bystanders to interject, you think about it yourself, I wish you a happy day.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Foreigners' relationships usually come and go quickly, and they think that as long as they are not married, boyfriends and girlfriends can be changed at any time, and even if they have boyfriends and girlfriends, they can still get together with other people. I don't know what kind of foreigner you know, but I've seen it with my own eyes anyway.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Divorce this boyfriend and marry the boyfriend you want to love.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Go with the flow, choose between the people you love and the people who love you, and don't regret it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Cherish every feeling, if you really can't say it, try to get along.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Be content with the status quo, men are the best when they chase others. It will change after that. Don't take the risk

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Just like I like Lin Chiling....Just look at it and pull it down.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This kind of thing, only depends on yourself, others can't help! I suggest you still cherish the boyfriend in front of you!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Everything is a floating cloud, no matter how high the education is, it can't compare to a person who makes his heart move.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Who said that high school students and master's students can't get married, my husband is a technical school student, I am a graduate student, we are still happy, you don't have to make excuses.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Actually, what do you want when you give so much! Your relationship will make you interested in other new things, and then you will compare everything around you with it.

    Two people are together by heart, by feelings, and without distinguishing each other. Don't regret it until you're separated!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It all depends on what kind of life you want to live, please think about the decision you want to make now, what you can bring to yourself in 1 year, 2 years from now, whether it is good or bad, and think about it before making a decision.

    My advice is that equinox points are best.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You may be able to find a better man than your boyfriend, but you can't find the exact same, you can decide for yourself.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door, just do things worthy of your conscience.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Then you are with him You don't care what your friend thinks If she really treats you as a good friend She won't be with the person you like She won't show you love letters Actually, I've also encountered a situation like you I used to be in middle school I liked a boy And he ended up with my good friend I launched It is still regretted I hope you don't be the same as me Happiness is your own The problem of puppy love is no longer a problem I know that you shouldn't have puppy love There are a few people who like you You must be a little beauty But you have to ask yourself, no matter what the boy is, do you like him, if you like it, you have to seize the opportunity to work hard and speak out boldly, or you will regret it later, even if you may not be with him forever in the future, but you will not regret it, come on, happiness is your own

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's complicated, but I think you should try to keep the feeling.

    Because I don't let all the feelings around you deteriorate, I image your life.

    Try to keep it ambiguous, I feel better than being together in real life.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Send you a few words Love what you love, no regrets

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Go for your own happiness! ok?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Women regret marrying anyone, and regretting it even more if they don't marry, think for yourself.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Be a lover, don't want him.

    Congratulations on being a husband.

    Such a suitable candidate, what are you waiting for.

    Let's get in touch for a while.

    The moral character is not bad, the conscience is not bad, and the habits are not too bad.

    So be it.

    Good-looking men don't belong to you personally.

    If you don't really want to share.

    I propose that you consider accepting him.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    You should try it out first, in fact, a man's appearance doesn't matter as long as it's not ugly. If you don't feel it after a while, switch to the next one.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Well, what can you do if you look good, if you are too good-looking, someone else will come to grab it, and then you will have to fight with others, how annoying, as long as the person is good and has a certain foundation, you and he will not starve and freeze.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Choose, the fault is the regret of the time, the miss is the eternal regret, the current people can't look at the looks, being good to you is the most important thing, it depends on whether he has the ability, the family is not his ability to do it.

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