My girlfriend s best friend s boyfriend is excellent, and I have low self esteem, what should I do?

This situation is particularly common, after a boy sees his girlfriend's best friend's boyfriend, he will naturally make a comparison, if the gap is too big, he will definitely feel inferior, and he feels that he may make his girlfriend lose face.

It would be even more embarrassing if the girlfriend often compared herself to her best friend's boyfriend.

But most girls won't be like this, most girls not only won't make comparisons, but they will also like you the same, and they won't do anything because their girlfriends and boyfriends are very good.

But you still have to change yourself.

First of all, you have to be better with your girlfriend than you are now, this has nothing to do with ability, and it has nothing to do with the previous comparison, but you are irreplaceable to your girlfriend, even if the girl makes a comparison behind her back, your girlfriend can still proudly say that my boyfriend is very good to me, in front of this, excellent, rich is not worth mentioning.

But that's not to say it's enough to be nice to her.

You should also do your own career planning and life planning, I have always believed that everyone has room for growth, and everyone will grow slowly in work and life, you can also, read a lot, plan for yourself, and believe in your potential, so that your girlfriend will also believe in your potential, instead of looking at your boyfriend who is not as good as her best friend now.

And inferiority is not necessary, I think the comparison of inferiority is meaningless, because your past, your present are different, just because your girlfriend is a girlfriend may compare this one thing to make yourself inferior, it is too unproductive, if you can, make yourself more confident, make yourself more capable, and make your girlfriend happy.

In fact, if your best friend's boyfriend is very good, then it has nothing to do with you, you can only find some comfort in your own boyfriend, think more about some of the advantages of your own boyfriend, you should not just complain every day, only compare the advantages of others with the shortcomings of your boyfriend, so that the more you compare, the more you will feel inferior. In fact, you should think about the fact that when the two of you are together, you are together because you are in love with each other, so no matter what he looks like, you should gladly accept it, and help him correct his own shortcomings and move towards success and peak in life. We should not only look at others as a shadow of others, but also become ourselves.

We often say that people are more popular than people. Sometimes we will compare ourselves with the people around us, but if others are better than us, we will have low self-esteem and feel that we are not good at anything, very bad.

Especially when our girlfriend's best friend's boyfriend is better than ourselves, we will all have low self-esteem. Although I am a girl, if this kind of thing happens to me, I will definitely have low self-esteem, because I am afraid that my girlfriend will think that my boyfriend is very useless. Because it is certain that this kind of thing rests on anyone's mindset.

Because when a girl is dating and chatting with her best friend, she will definitely talk about her boyfriend, and her best friend will say that her boyfriend is so good, so good, with a high salary, handsome, and considerate, as if the advantages of the world are gathered in the boyfriend of the girlfriend, but in the mouth of his girlfriend, he can't say much about the advantages of his boyfriend, so his girlfriend will definitely feel very faceless.

However, since his girlfriend has chosen himself, he is sure that he still has the advantages to attract his girlfriend, but since he has such an excellent role as his girlfriend's girlfriend and boyfriend, don't be busy with inferiority, take his girlfriend's girlfriend's boyfriend as a standard, and strive to exceed this standard. Because only by making ourselves better and better, we will not have this kind of inferiority complex, and we can also make our girlfriend's behavior special and face-saving.

This kind of effort to make yourself good is not just by talking, but by doing it in a real way. We could have told our girlfriend at first that we could get better, but we did more than we said. Let your girlfriend see her actual actions, even if it may not surpass your girlfriend's girlfriend boyfriend in the end.

But if we work hard enough, we will also make our girlfriends feel at ease. Therefore, if we have low self-esteem, we must work hard to break through ourselves and become excellent!

You should do everything you have to do well, and he is not as good as you.

There are many people in this world who are better than you, don't always look at the strengths of others, but also find more of your own strengths. Remember one thing, brother, I was born to be useful.