I broke up with my girlfriend, who was 9 years older than me, but she was about to end her life

Love can't be forced, love is love, and not love is not love. If you are not a man who can be sacrificed, then don't force yourself to continue to maintain a relationship with her that you don't want to keep for her, even if you do that one day you will find that you have been in love with this **! Love should be no one right or wrong!

Explain it to her. Because you can't choose to die because she's going to die. You're going to accept her against what you want. But if you really love her. You won't mind. But in the end, it's all about what your heart thinks.

Finally, I hope you have an ending where no one is harmed.

Appearance is just a shell of a person, you don't think she's old, I think you'll get old too, as long as you love her, you should accept her, if you really love each other, you should be together! Why not give her a chance and give yourself a chance?

Age is not a problem, height is not distance, weight is not pressure!

Hehe, you're too young at heart, only children would mind this.

And to put it bluntly, why did you go in the first place, why didn't you think she was old at that time.

Yes! Don't suffer from this false kindness, if you were really merciful, it wouldn't be like this, would it? Hehe.

If I were that woman, I would rather kill you than kill myself. Hehe.

I hope you find a young and beautiful one, but you have to be careful, maybe one day the girl will dump you, thinking that you are an old man and can't take it out

Let's take care of it.

Breaking up can be done later.

She only has one life.

Think about it, do you really love her? Have you ever loved her?

Don't love just because of your appearance? Despise such people

Forget it, you wouldn't choose to be with her for that, would you.

Why? Do you love her? I'm only 17 years old. I don't understand. However, the girl who waited five years was also two years older than me. I'll wait too. You know?

Think about it first Do you love her ? Love her for something.

She's dying

Are you so ruthless?

What did you eat in the first place?

What did you do in the first place?

It's understandable that you're older than you, why did you get married? I'm also a little bit wrong, but it's just the opposite of you, I want to find a place where I've never been in love! Unsophisticated!

A lot of men like to be smaller than themselves, but it's normal for people like you to be in a situation after all.

It's nothing, older girls will take care of people and take care of the family, you feel the benefits of this, that's why it's like this, it's normal.

1.Respect her choice, because she is still young and cannot affect her development.

2.You have to have the courage to take all the responsibilities, people have times when they make mistakes, but escaping will leave a lifelong grudge, and the process of bearing it is also the process of your growth and exercise, the process of atonement, because you said that you are a responsible man.

3.If she has no other decisions and choices, you stay with her and love her well.

In the end, we are human beings, go with our own conscience, yes. If you take responsibility, all the so-called mistakes are not mistakes.

You can divide it, or you can't divide it, it depends on what you think, about maturity, it's not a problem, who can guarantee that the decisions she makes now are mature, a lot of things are in a thought, if you don't know what to do, you can discuss it with her, half a year later, if the two of you still want to divide, then divide it, give her enough freedom in this half a year, this freedom is not indulgence, the form is divided, people are still together, decide it after half a year, this is good for everyone.

The age difference is not big, but she was young when you got married, and she didn't experience a lot of things.

In fact, you were only 25 when you got married, which is not too big.

If you still love her very much, thinking about the presence of children, if you can wait for her, wait for her for a few years, maybe she finds out that she is not doing as well as by your side, and may come back, after all, there are still children involved.

If she's doing well outside, you can just let it go, and maybe you'll find one that's more suitable for you.

Maybe you can tell her: as your man, I support your dreams and pursuits, you can go and realize your dreams, and I will be your strongest backing. Because you're my favorite and the mother of my children.

If you're tired and homesick one day, come back! My child and I are waiting for you every day.

If she still wants to leave you without hesitation, then let her go! Maybe she's not mature enough now, and she'll understand when she goes out on her own.

9 years old is not too old, but it's actually pretty good. The problem is that people don't want to do it now, so bless her and go their own way.

I go to 16 and 20 and you can't see it? You didn't want to see it, did you get married without knowing anything, what did you think at the time? It's normal for her to want to break up After all, she is the same age as a flower in her 20s She likes to take risks and go out to see Now she is directly a yellow-faced woman Who will do it But the girl is too impulsive After all, the children are all Can you mess around?

She may just be willful for a while, you wait a little and see if she can correct her and figure it out After all, girls are sensible relatively early, and it should be over soon, just a temper tantrum.

Having ideals and pursuits doesn't necessarily mean breaking up. According to her, a woman with a career cannot get married. As a husband, I should communicate with her well, my brother-in-law is more than 10 years older than my sister, and now I have 2 children, a happy family, and both of them are executives of large enterprises.

Wives have ideals, and husbands should give moderate support and support each other, so that they will be happy.

In fact, you have already thought about it, but you just want to hear everyone's opinions again, and you haven't said it yourself.

But the age difference is too big, she is not mature, even if she doesn't break up now, there will be a lot of trouble in the future", do it when you think about it, don't be depressed, don't be afraid, face it directly, what should come will always come, there is no fluke.

It's your own and yours all the time, even if you barely stay, her heart is still not with you, let go will have a good result, and when she is tired of playing outside, she will know that you are the most reluctant for her!

Then let it go, if she doesn't like you, you can keep her person, but you can't keep her heart

If she is hard-hearted, the nine cows will not be able to pull it back, you can only do your best, and the only way to achieve the final goal is how to do it is the best way for the child.

In 18 years, Huachun's heart is swinging, and the red apricot can't be stopped if you want to go out of the wall, young people always can't stand the outside world of flowers, sweet words, haven't you been living together?

Starting from a child, after all, it's a child's mother.

May I ask if you are married, if you are not married, break up, while it is still time, otherwise when you get married, you will be in trouble.

This still has to be saved, what are you afraid of, after all, you have your own children, and you have to think about your children.

You do your own and try to do it better, and let the rest be.

This kind of combination is not a good sign, it is better to break up quickly.

If you want to go, you can't stop it, whether you like it or not, whether you can be together is three different things.

For the sake of the children, the breakup is not in favor.

It would be nice if she was an uncle.

If you want to have feelings, try to deepen the relationship, go to see her, comfort her, and love with all your heart.

If you don't want the relationship anymore, stay away from her and forget about her, which is good for both of you. Worry should be buried in the deepest part of your heart!

Look at people, care a lot, a girl can kill herself for you, think about it.

If you don't like her anymore, or don't go, you don't have any responsibility, now is now, you will regret it in the future, I believe that after experiencing this time, she should also have a new understanding, and her family will allow you to go to see it, send a text message to condole, make the relationship clear, so it's good for each other, if you still like her, I didn't say the above, you should know what you should do.

Hey, he may be sad and desperate now, if you reconcile with her now, then you can't forgive each other in your hearts, so you can comfort yourself without meeting.

Ordinary friends will go to see her, not to mention that you are a prospective boyfriend, a woman who can die for you, you will push it all away as soon as you say that she is very extreme, if she really leaves, you will carry a lot of conscience baggage in the future, or you will be like this if you don't handle it well.

You still have to tie the bell to the bell, go and see her, only you can give her hope to live.

You are so happy to meet this kind of woman. Her life is not as important as yours ... You should go and see him.

She committed suicide, it is your responsibility, you should go to see her.

Maybe it's okay if you stay with her and give her some encouragement.

Now that I know I'm worried, I'm going to see her, as long as it's not a herbicide to drink.

Resolutely do not take the extreme route, you should go to see her and believe that she can be well.

Find friends around you to see her, serious or not, if you don't see her at the last glance, you will regret your own troubled conscience!

I should see if it's really true to you.

You are still in the mood to ask here, do you still have a conscience?

It doesn't matter if there is love or not, it is right to see her

Those elderly people in Liaoning Province are actually old women, I have you in my heart.

You will definitely be able to support you if you go

Can you ask what kind of medicine you took?

I feel like you're still young! This kind of question is a bit complicated for you, but you think about it calmly. If you're with that woman, you'll have a lot of friends and family who will be sad and sad with you.

Your choices can affect your happiness in life, but for that woman, you are just one of her many choices.

The reason why we humans can be the head of all things is because we are highly social animals. We must not be selfish, and we should not think about ourselves in anything. Think about your friends and family!

I really can't understand why you are like this now since you loved each other so much before, I think if you really love her, she really deserves your love, you should cherish it, everything else is a secondary blessing to you.

If you do it with him once, you will be responsible, so what will it be like when you do it with him for the second time? Think for yourself.

Your relationship is not normal, break up quickly and find a little sister of your age.

Let's divide it resolutely. It would be painful for both sides to go on like this.

Fight the world, there are no wonders. An 18-year-old person will definitely change in the future unless he has experienced a great ordeal.

Feel tight about breaking up, or you'll regret it.

The test tests oneself and each other.

What you think now will be very different from what you would have thought in your 20s, and you may regret it.

I want to open up, there is nothing that I can't get over, I know the feeling of falling out of love, and suddenly fell from the sky to the ground. I feel that the whole world has left me, my heart is empty and lonely, and there is no point in persevering. But have you ever thought that you are so easily defeated by love?

When you fell in love, you chose love. That proves that you have to bear more than just the joy of love, the sweetness. And don't forget that love can also cause pain.

Falling out of love must be heart-wrenching, because you have paid a lot in this relationship, but your love is fateless, and love cannot be forced. Don't cling to who you used to be. She is already a lost beauty.

Whoever leaves can live, don't say this kind of thing irresponsibly, your parents gave you life and raised you, but you want to die or live because of a person who has no fate, who are you worthy of. There will be such a person in everyone's life who makes themselves sad, life is a road, do you have to lie down for the rest of your life if you fall? Of course, keep going.

And it's right to walk more steadily. It's normal to have a transition period, but don't let this negative energy haunt you all the time. Think about the burdens and responsibilities you have to carry on you.

Not to mention, it's normal for two people to be noisy and quarrelsome in life, the key is that you have to act like a man and take the initiative to admit your mistakes, as long as it's not a matter of principle, it's okay to reconcile.

It's no big deal if you break up, your girlfriend can let it go, why can't you? Let go of the past and renew your new life, and you will meet a better one.

Live well, don't let people look at you, as if you can't do anything without him, there is no grass at the end of the world.

Happy life, whoever is without it can't! Don't think about her, find something to do for yourself, make yourself good, there will definitely be other girls like it, don't reminisce about the past.

This benevolent brother, don't hang yourself on a tree, there are thousands of beauties in the world, I believe you will meet a more satisfactory girl in the future, good luck.

If you want to open up, it's something that everyone has to go through, and it's not as big a deal as you think.

Tired? You don't see that you are more tired, you can't stand this little setback, so what should you do if you are more tired when you get married.

It's better to die than to live, although the words are ugly, but you live to keep your parents from suffering.

Why hang yourself from a tree and try another tree.

Think of your parents, for the sake of a woman, to die, without ambition!

There are good girls in the world, and you're just getting started.

Brother, look away, don't think about it.

Going out for a tour will make you cheerful. I've just experienced it.