I lied to my family that I broke up with my girlfriend, does that mean I don t love my girlfriend?

Updated on society 2024-04-25
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should love your girlfriend, but your love is a little weak, and it's not a mistake to like someone, and most girls will mind a little.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to be brave, or you really won't love her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I can explain. At least you don't have faith.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings should not exist to deceive, but you chose to deceive her, no one can tolerate the deception of others.

    If you really love her, but the moment you choose to cheat on her, have you ever thought that you shouldn't cheat?

    In any case, the relationship will always go through ups and downs, and go through a lot of running-in. I hope you understand that feelings need to be treated sincerely, love her sincerely, and if you choose to redeem it, use your actions to prove that you really recognize your mistakes and choose to change.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, it's not right for you to deceive her, but your deception will not cause great harm to the other party, and normally the other party should understand. Why do you want to redeem it? As a man to have self-esteem, you are not idle for the sake of studying, and you have not done anything sorry for her, she can't forgive, belly.

    What's the use of such a stingy woman being with her, why is the big husband without a wife.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you can be completely honest with your girlfriend and say that two people should be honest when they get along together, and if you cheat, it will only make the relationship between two people more and more distant, so let's break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Just go and say it directly, you already know the truth, why hide it, at this time you ask her, she will also have all kinds of reasons to tell her directly, you can't accept being deceived, don't be soft-hearted.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can directly ask your girlfriend what you want to ask, see if he is a white lie, or really lying to you, if it is true, don't hesitate to break up with him directly, because such a person doesn't love you at all.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you think he has been lying to you emotionally, it is better to break up with him openly, just tell him why not say some reasons for some and nothing, and why it is better to break up with him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that at this time, it is still necessary to communicate and communicate with my girlfriend in a timely manner, and I hope that my girlfriend can understand that the most important thing for two people to be together is mutual trust.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Personally, I think you need to find a suitable time, don't suddenly propose to break up, this will be difficult to accept, you can wait patiently for an opportunity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's good to explain it to her directly, because such a person is not worthy of my cherishing at all, nor is it worthy of my sympathy for her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, it is proposed to break up, since you don't love her anymore, why do you want to do something against your will. To be a man is to be frank and open, love is love, and not love is not love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't love anymore, you have to bring it up right away and tell the other person what you really think. It is irrational and immoral to continue to lie to the other party. Even if you can cheat for a day and a month, you can't cheat for a lifetime. Long pain is better than short pain, it is better to say it in time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Propose to break up, since you don't love him anymore, and there is no need for the two of you to be together, if you continue to lie to her, you will not be happy, and you will hurt two people in the end.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think there should be a second answer to this question, it must be a decisive breakup, dealing with emotional problems, and cutting through the mess quickly is always a sharp weapon.

    Whether it is in other aspects or emotionally deceived is intolerable, your deception is not only to deceive the other party, but also to deceive yourself, in my opinion, people's youth is just a few years, 20 to 30 years old is the best time in life, if you use your youth to deceive each other, in the end it is not only the other party that will be hurt, but also yourself, which is equivalent to the seven wounds in the martial arts cheats, hurt the other party for three points, and spit out a mouthful of blood, why bother?

    Paper can't hold the fire, you package yourself like an actor, and then pretend to be sweet with each other, have you ever thought about the purpose of this? The motive is in ** again, in addition to harming others and yourself, is there any other possibility? It's fine if you can live in a dream forever and never wake up, but as you get older, how much time do you have left to weave lies, not to mention that a lie always has to be fulfilled by countless lies.

    Xue Zhiqian once sang a song called an actor, we are not actors, and our acting skills are limited, you don't think that your acting skills can deceive a woman's sixth sense, sometimes she often knows better than you how far your relationship has come, in fact, breaking up is not very difficult, as long as you both calm down and think about where you should go in the future, maybe the relationship has already ended, I am afraid of this sudden calmness.

    Most of the separated feelings are because of the sensibility and begin to end because of reason, young people's feelings are divided and combined is a reasonable thing, people are responsible for their own choices, so it is not appropriate to talk about who hurts whom more, it is not suitable to separate as soon as possible is a choice that is good for themselves and each other, it is better to be called a scumbag, to be scolded as a negative man, it is much better than ruining youth to echo a non-existent relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are no longer in love, then you must propose to break up in time, stop deceiving each other, and let the other party immerse yourself in fantasy happiness. This will not only bring more pain to the other party, but also make yourself more guilty.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you don't love your girlfriend anymore and should bring up the breakup. I think you should communicate directly with your girlfriend, talk about this problem, and tell her directly and clearly, so that it will hurt both parties less, and if you continue to cheat on her, you will also be very painful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You should bring up the breakup. Long pain is better than short pain, if you continue to lie to her, it will only hurt her more, it is better to break up with her as soon as possible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, if you are deceived by the person you love the most, it is a normal reaction to be angry and angry, but before that, you need to understand what the other party is cheating on you.

    For example, in order to make you better devote yourself to key studies or work, the other party hides a lot of hardships in life and tells you that everything is fine, which is a rare emotion for the other party to protect you.

    Secondly, if the other party's deception is only unintentional, or even unexpected, then it can be forgiven. For the person you love the most, you also need to give each other a certain understanding and tolerance, only in this way can you better maintain the feelings between each other, instead of blindly not allowing sand in your eyes, which hurts both others and yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No. These are all correctable, and there is no shortage of white lies in this world. And you have to nurture her, correct her, inform her in behavior.

    If it's the kind of obvious lie, it would be nice to expose it to your face. And tell her you hate being cheated on, no matter what.

    If you find out after the fact, you can ask why you lied, or repeat the above words. If you haven't lied to her or been found out by her, or you can add to the above sentence that you never lied to her, and you are sincere to her, and I hope she can be honest too.

    You should explain the stakes of the matter to her, and ask her to think about how she feels if you lie to her, it is very easy to deceive people, the more you deceive, the more you can't help it, sometimes you cheat unconsciously, so I think you should make it clear to her as soon as possible, and she will definitely change.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Who can bear to be deceived all the time, or close people, this relationship is not divided now and will be divided in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is advisable to break up, because she doesn't believe you, so she will lie to you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Break up, emotional deception must be divided.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Deception is a taboo in relationships, this can't be tolerated, and there is nothing to say about breaking up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This kind of separation, deception will become a habit for a long time, and it cannot be changed.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Deception is a crime, and in general it is recommended to score.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Always lying to you, then maybe you are not her only boyfriend, break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, those who hate deception the most will have a time when they salt their wounds.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If it's not a white lie, it's pure deception.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Break up, deception is the most unforgivable in a relationship.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    broke up decisively, this is a sign of dishonesty, and two people must have a heart-to-heart relationship together, she is always a liar, you can't tell whether her words are true and which ones are false.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Choosing to break up, there is only deception, and love without trust and honesty will not go down, and will only produce more and more doubts and contradictions.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Choose to break up, a person who always lies to you doesn't treat you sincerely, this relationship should end as soon as possible.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    There is an option to break up. Honesty in life is important, and it is scary if later life is always full of deception.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Breaking up, I feel that there is nothing to be nostalgic about, and what is the point of life if it is full of deception.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The cheating girlfriend is definitely going to break up, she may have an extra hat if she gets used to cheating, or you are just one of her fishponds.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Breaking up and cheating are definitely not allowed in the course of a relationship, with the exception of white lies.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    To break up, deception will not be tolerated. If you can't be honest in love, you can't go far together.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Of course, two people should be sincere when they are together, and if they always lie, they should break up early.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If your girlfriend always cheats on you, then you should break up. Whether it is in love or in ordinary interpersonal interactions, there should be no deception, her behavior is disrespectful to you.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Should break up. Lying to you once can also be explained as having a hard time, always lying to you shows that she doesn't really love you, but treats you as a fool, the sooner you break up with such a woman, the better.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You should break up, love needs to be honest with each other, your girlfriend cheats on you and disrespects you, and if couples can't even respect each other, they should break up.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I think it should. When two people are together, they need to be honest with each other, so that they can live for a long time. If your girlfriend always cheats on you, it means that she doesn't like you that much.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    I think we should break up. Because any relationship is maintained by trust, and your girlfriend can cheat on you, then you don't need to be with her.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I think you should break up. In love, mutual trust is very important. But your girlfriend can't even do this, so let's break up quickly.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I think we should break up. Because you don't know what kind of excuse she will use to lie to you next time, when you are physically and mentally exhausted, it will be too late to regret it when you are exhausted.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Yes, if you don't want to be hurt deeper, break up early, you have to understand that ** is not worthy of love.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Hurry up and break up, there is no room for a little sand in love, not to mention being deceived all the time, which means that she doesn't love you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Break up, I think there may be a reason for a cheating, and if you keep cheating, it means that she doesn't really like you at all.

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