Should I forgive her or not to choose a divorce

It should be forgiven. If she doesn't like you at all, she won't talk to someone secretly. It is estimated that it is also to pass the time.

Since she is married to you, it is also her own choice. I don't think anyone would take their marriage as a joke. Since the choice is definitely decided.

You should be forgiven, after all, she didn't betray you after she got married, and while persuading others, he showed that he had woken up Forgive him, and he will cherish you.

Since you ask this question, it means that you want to redeem it, then forgive her... Let's talk to her, and if it really doesn't work, forget it. If you can save it, live a good life in the future, and forget about this.

Sometimes, we are willing to forgive someone, not really forgive her, but we don't want to lose her, so we have to pretend to forgive her.

If I were a man and my wife did something that I couldn't forgive, I would divorce her immediately. In modern society, men and women are equal, and whoever makes a mistake should pay the price.

The essence of marriage is to make life better for both men and women. A good marriage needs to be managed with heart and proceed from the reality of life, so as to make the family harmonious and the career smooth. Marriage is the result of two people knowing and loving each other, and choosing to enter into marriage, two people have to face many choices.

Unlike falling in love, marriage is a matter of two families, and after marriage, it will involve issues such as childbirth and raising children. Therefore, the choice of marriage should also be carefully considered at the beginning, and it should not just be greedy for immediate pleasures.

In life, everyone will inevitably make mistakes, some mistakes are insignificant, and some mistakes are fatal. As a husband, you should be tolerant and understand your wife, and if your wife makes a mistake, she should also understand the reason for the matter. If the mistake made by the wife is really unforgivable, she can choose to divorce and get together and disperse.

After the divorce, each of them bears their own responsibilities, so that the elderly and children in the family will not be harmed by the divorce of the husband and wife, which should also be the responsibility of the family.

Happy marriages are all similar, while unhappy marriages have their own unhappiness. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and no one wants to go to the step of divorce, but it is not an overnight thing to get to the land of divorce. Perhaps it is the accumulation of little by little in life, the different personalities and ideas of both parties, and it is inevitable to accumulate resentment in life.

If a little contradiction in life is not resolved in time, it will inevitably be a big contradiction in the end, and it will have to go to the point of divorce.

There can be no perfect marriage in the world, so everyone's marriage will encounter all kinds of problems, in many small issues, both parties need to be tolerant and understanding, one party compromises and retreats, and the other party should also know how to accept it when it is good, rather than becoming more and more unreasonable and unscrupulous and only caring about their own pleasure. Marriage is equal, both parties have the right to pursue their own happiness, and it is not advisable to blindly accommodate and forbear.

I think what really broke the marriage was that there was a rift in the relationship between the two people, and the reason why it came to the point of divorce must be that one party did something unforgivable.

First of all, it depends on what kind of mistake she makes, if it is a mistake of principle, I will choose to divorce her immediately, this marriage has no meaning, and there is no need to roll it and continue to burn lead.

I won't divorce immediately, because I feel that Zhou Shenying can't solve the problem like this, I will take the initiative to discuss with her first, if there is really no solution, then I will divorce.

divorced her immediately, because I would feel very disappointed in this relationship, and I couldn't forgive Li and I was disappointed in my heart, so I would mention divorce as soon as possible.

I won't get divorced, because the two of us have been living together for a long time, and I will learn to understand and learn to tolerate.

If the wife has confessed her mistake and disowned the relationship with another person, it can be considered. If there are children with grandchildren, then divorce is more important to consider.

Why forgive?Many examples are that after many people choose to forgive, the husband Zhaoting guessed again and again, and repeatedly tested the bottom line, while it was still early, he left, and he wanted to be better to himself, and he didn't want to change his feelings.

After marriage, I found that the other half hid my income from me, at this time I should calm down and learn to understand him, understand him, as long as two people live with heart, have the same life goals, run in together, and manage a good marriage is the happiest thing, and learn to be an understanding person and a warm-hearted person in life

Learning to be forgiving and understanding others is often as difficult to do as demanding of yourself. We are always trying our best to find each other's faults, always feel that the other party can't get along with me, always feel that anyone is making enemies of me, there are many things that are unintentional, but there are those who are cautious and always have to sit in the right seat and find troubles.

will not understand others, often a sentence unintentionally said, the person who has the intention to provoke listen, he sat down, thinking that he was sarcastic and sarcastic, he couldn't get along with himself, and he became troubled.

After a long time, once or twice, there may be a general outburst after the most bending, a fight, or even a person's **. All kinds of social news reports in the newspaper, such as a person who made a person for a few dollars, and a joke caused a tragedy.

In life we have to learn to forgive our friends and loved ones. The closer people are, because they care too much about each other, they are prone to misunderstandings. can't explain, can't justify, outsiders see jokes purely boring, and they can't let go of their dreams.

At this time, the only thing that helps is time, time will dilute a lot of things and will melt resentment. One day you will find out that if you are a friend, you will definitely come back. And if you forget what you have said or heard in your anger one day, and forgive each other or yourself one day earlier, the biggest beneficiary is not the other party, but yourself, and you will be happy and sweep away your troubles.

It's up to you to choose, after all, it's your own life.

Such things are infuriating and hateful. But then again, this is a family ugly, and it's better not to publicize it. It is necessary to deal with this problem rationally and calmly.

The treatment plan is nothing more than two options: first, choose divorce, if you really can't accept it in your heart, then there is nothing to say, just divorce, just follow the divorce procedure; Clause.

Second, if you calm down and through analysis, he promises that this kind of thing will not happen again in the future, and if you can pass the rotten stool in your heart, then don't divorce first. Because after all, divorce is not as simple as talking. There's a lot at stake.

It depends on what happened to the two of you, and not all of them are forgivable.

After two people get married, there will be big or small conflicts and frictions between two people, and some people will also have some unforgivable mistakes. In a way, if the mistake made by a person is an unforgivable mistake in itself, it basically means that the relationship between the two people has broken down and the two people need to re-evaluate whether to divorce or not.

You need to assess what happened to the two people.

Before you decide whether or not to forgive the other person, you first need to assess what happened between the two people, and you also need to prioritize it. As I said above, if a person has made an unforgivable mistake, and this mistake has touched the bottom line of the marriage of two people, two people have basically lost the meaning of being together, and many people will choose to divorce because of this. If one person only makes a small mistake, two people should actually tolerate and understand each other together, and there is no need to blackmail each other with divorce.

This also needs to look at the emotional foundation of two people.

I don't know what the relationship foundation of the two of you is, the relationship foundation of the two of us is very good, and you can use the feelings of the two people to digest these mistakes. If the two of you often quarrel over various trivial matters, and the emotional foundation of the two people is also unstable, you need to evaluate whether the two people are suitable for being together, and you can even choose to end in divorce, because divorce can allow the two of you to start a new life. <>

You also need to fully cherish the fate of two people together.

Unless the two of you have nothing to say together, the two of you need to understand and tolerate each other, and you also need to allow each other to make mistakes. It's not a simple thing for two people to be together, and all sorts of problems are bound to arise between the two of you. But after the problem has arisen, you need to work on the problem, not just divorce.

I don't think you should forgive each other in order to forgive each other, you should calmly and rationally analyze the consequences of this matter, can you bear it, can you accept it, can you tolerate it, if I were you, my wife knelt down and begged me for a divorce, then there is no point in continuing to maintain this marriage, we should both let go and go to Shanzhao to find a happier future for ourselves.

Should. Because he knelt on the ground and begged you to prove that he was really dead to this relationship, and he didn't want to continue with you, forgive him for divorcing him, this is the best choice, and it can reduce the suspicion and damage to each other.

If there is no big problem between the two of you, then you should forgive each other and settle the matter well.

I can't forgive each other. Because it was a sign of infidelity to marriage and hurt me for the rest of my life.

I can forgive the other party, because there is no relationship after the divorce, so even if the other party is combined, it will have no effect, and Li Qiaohe and forgiveness can also make my life happier in the future.

No, because there must be reasons for divorce, and these reasons must be unforgivable, then this determines the impossibility and forgiveness of the other party.

In fact, don't blindly talk about a person's mistakes, and don't blindly talk about what you forgive, for the marriage to form such a situation, it is not a person's mistakes, for a wrong result, just like a mirror in life, when you see the mistakes in the results, also look at your own shortcomings.

Both men and women are the same, for an originally happy and harmonious marriage, if it is said that in a good grasp and management, mutual tacit understanding and understanding, there will be no big emotional disconnection, even if there is a problem between husband and wife, it can also be detected and adjusted in time to curb small problems.

For the marriage that eventually becomes a big problem and dies, no matter who the final wrong result is, it is certain that the party who thinks that he is the victim also does not treat his marriage and feelings correctly, if there is, then there will be no such big problems in the marriage, because the small problems of marriage can be solved, only when you do not have the right consciousness, even if you see the problem, you can only blindly suffer and disappointment, blindly feel that others are hurting you, you are innocent.

A wife who can choose to follow you, if you have loved you in the past, then I believe that such a person will not think that he will come to such a point one day, who does not want their happiness to be based on marriage and lovers, but when such feelings are ignored and ignored day by day, it will naturally be depressed and restless, and such a life will inevitably have problems.

You say you love very much, then your love is manifested in **, is your understanding of your wife, or you yourself know how to grasp feelings and deal with problems in life, in fact, you have not done this, the only thing you do is divorce and regret, this kind of love is more of your own feelings, and is not allowed in life.

For now you don't actually need to use this forgiveness, if you love, first ask yourself, will you love, do you know how to love, maybe your love now, may not be able to open her heart.

Happiness Bodhi Garden, the guide to happiness lost.

Although I don't say it in detail enough, I still feel that I can't, because my current wife is a second marriage, and she really won't be happy, especially the person who betrayed herself, or the person she loves the most. I wish you happiness.

What's the use of forgiving her, she has betrayed you, is she willing to turn back?

No, men have to be dignified.