My husband and the upstairs neighbor have a quarrel, do I still have to deal with the upstairs neigh

Updated on society 2024-05-17
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello friends, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.

    It's over, just try to communicate! Maybe it's not a big deal, just pass it in the past!

    In the future, the two families get along well and help each other, and the neighborhood relationship may be better?

    Women must not add fuel to the fire in quarrels, and must be good at turning big things into small things and small things. Bury the hatchet.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think you should still talk to him, quarrels are quarrels, neighbors still get along, your husband quarrels with them, it's none of your business, look down and don't look up, if you are identious, it's not good for anyone to sleep, it's not right for people.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's all neighbors, it's best not to make too much trouble, your husband quarrels, you can resolve the contradictions between them from it, just talk about it, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, look down and don't look up, it's better to be harmonious.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, what's the big deal, if you want to make trouble with your neighbors, I think you should be generous, as before, you should talk and talk, regardless of their business, and show that you are more generous and sensible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It should be reasonable, it is better to have a good relationship with neighbors and solve the contradictions, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    How to say this, you are willing, if you don't want to speak, don't say it. Anyway, your husband is arguing with the upstairs neighbor. It's not that you're arguing with your upstairs neighbor. I think you should take care of the upstairs neighbors. Is there a saying that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not a big deal between neighbors, they quarrel, and it will be fine in a few days, you don't have to ignore the neighbors, this will only increase the conflict.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you and your upstairs neighbor usually have a good relationship, because of unimportant things to quarrel, after all, it's a neighbor, upstairs and downstairs will always meet, when you meet, you still have to say hello, if people don't care about you, don't say hello in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The traditional virtue of the Chinese nation is that neighbors help each other, it is normal to quarrel with others, and as time goes by, maybe the reasons for those quarrels are not important, as the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, I personally advocate that you can reconcile with your neighbors, or to develop in a good way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your husband had a fight with the upstairs neighbor. If it's not a big deal. I don't see you downstairs when you go upstairs, and it's okay to say hello when you meet! Grievances should be resolved, not settled! Get along well!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's best to solve the problem, live upstairs and downstairs, always have to meet, and it will be awkward to meet.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you meet, you must say hello, this is polite, and it is not a deep hatred, your husband is a big man with an open mind, are you so stingy?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Legal analysis: If the neighbor is too noisy and the communication is invalid, you can complain to the property or the neighborhood committee, and they will mediate, if it is still invalid, you can also report to the local police station, and mediate by **, if this kind of thing is sued, the court will not accept it under normal circumstances.

    Legal basis: Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China

    Article 17: Basic level people's courts have jurisdiction over first-instance civil cases, except as otherwise provided by this Law.

    Article 18: Intermediate people's courts have jurisdiction over the following first-instance civil cases:

    1) Major foreign-related cases;

    2) Cases that have a major impact in the jurisdiction;

    3) Cases over which the Supreme People's Court determines that the Intermediate People's Court has jurisdiction.

    Article 119:Prosecution must meet the following requirements:

    1) The plaintiff is a citizen, legal person, or other organization that has a direct interest in the case;

    2) There is a clear defendant;

    3) There are specific litigation claims, facts, and reasons;

    4) It is within the scope of civil litigation accepted by the people's court and the jurisdiction of the people's court receiving the lawsuit.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is recommended to communicate more and actively solve each other's problems.

    1. Communicate with your downstairs neighbors first, now everyone is of good quality, and generally it will have a good effect after communication. About 80% or more can be improved, so be sure to communicate with the downstairs first.

    2. I have encountered those who cannot communicate (I have encountered them, saying that we have too much to manage.) Searching and teasing. At this time, you can call the police to deal with it.

    If the noise is serious and the neighbors are not rectified after repeated criticism and education, a fine of not less than 100 yuan but not more than 500 yuan shall be imposed. Some people suggest looking for a property, I don't think the effect is good, but whenever he encounters a rogue neighbor, he will be more generous in front of the property. They don't take the property seriously at all.

    3. After the general alarm, most of the remaining building noise problems can be basically solved. Timely is a rogue neighbor, and they are also afraid of people who are more powerful than him.

    4. After the above two ways, basically more than 90% of the building noise can be solved. However, it is not excluded that it will still not be solved. The probability of being able to sell this situation is very low.

    Once encountered, you can be ruthless, change the house, don't drag it out, the building noise will greatly affect people's mental health, depression, discomfort, and sub-health. You can also find some equipment to fight back, which is not very popular now, but it is a very useful option for this last pairing. Now I don't know if I can find it, you can use**search function, search**, scan to see if it's still there.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary: 5 ways to deal with the upstairs neighbor who is too noisy and affect the rest.

    1. Take the initiative to find the upstairs neighbor to communicate, so that the other party makes too much noise at night to affect the downstairs rest.

    2. Call the property **, respond to the property situation, and the property will mediate with the upstairs neighbor.

    3. Call the old demolition station and report the noise disturbance of the upstairs neighbors.

    4. Directly give the other party a strong counterattack, and also create noise to affect the other party, so that the waiter can experience the annoyance of noise, so as to empathize.

    5. If conditions permit, you can also choose to move and choose a new neighbor from the new.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello, 1, when we quarrel with our neighbors, don't think about going to the other party, ask the other party to give an explanation, or are angry and want to go to the other party to comment, these are impulsive performances, it is best to be able to sort out the cause of the matter first, to see what is going on. 2. Communicate well with each other, communication is the only way to solve the problem, in order to better solve the problem, avoid both parties have a stalk in their hearts, uncomfortable, it is best to be able to sit down and talk. 3. Deal with the relationship with the neighbors, after the quarrel, people's hearts will be more or less uncomfortable, so that there will be a gap in getting along, and it is not pleasant to get along, it is best to be able to talk about it on both sides.

    4. Try to avoid quarrels, many times, the parties actually don't want to quarrel, but the people watching the game next to them will cause the anger of the parties to be uncontrollable, don't care.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    AbstractHello, I understand your angry mood now, and you have a conflict with the neighbor downstairs.

    Quarrels can't solve the problem, you have to calm down and think of a foolproof way to solve the problem you want to solve.

    If the other person is not willing to communicate with you, you can try to communicate with him through the property. Avoid direct conflict with him.

    Not only does it make you angry, but things don't work out.

    I had a fight with my downstairs neighbor.

    Hello, I understand your anger now, and you have a conflict with your downstairs neighbor.

    Quarrels can't solve the problem, you have to calm down and think of a foolproof way to solve the problem you want to solve.

    If the other person is not willing to communicate with you, you can try to communicate with him through the property. Avoid direct conflict with him.

    Not only does it make you angry, but things don't work out.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Write a proposal at home and stick it on the door before you go to work in the morning.

    Living in a building is not good, every family may have children, and the behavior of children is largely uncontrollable. When you encounter the situation you are talking about, you should express your dissatisfaction while expressing your understanding.

    Inform the other party of the specific situation, and explain that he is not demanding, but just hope that after what time in the evening, the child will not make a fuss as much as possible. Everyone's life is not easy, and they have to go to work on the second day, and it is easy to cause problems at work if they don't rest well.

    PositiveBecause Leaky Ling looked down and didn't look up, you should tell him this kind of problem directly。Small contradictions between neighbors are not called contradictions, if small contradictions accumulate and erupt one day, it will really be fatal.

    The content is probably that the movement is too big at night, which affects the rest very much, and I hope the other party can pay attention to it. Especially after 10:00 p.m., try not to make anything out of your way. Neighbors should be considerate of each other, be considerate of you, and ask you to be considerate of us.

    The content is as simple as that, just stand on his door with double-sided tape before going to work in the morning. If it's still the same on day 2, then you can post another one.

    If the other party is really unconscious, I think you really have no other way to solve it than to come to the door and say it yourself。The most important thing about this kind of problem like that between neighbors is that the other party is conscious.

    All saidDistant relatives are not as good as close neighbors,The other party should also return more and take care of your feelings. As long as you can communicate your wishes, the situation will always be eased.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    For this stuffy problem, we can do this, first we can go and discuss with our neighbors, let them be quiet, let them know that their behavior of covering themselves as if they were affecting other people. If they don't listen, we can tell the property and call someone from the property management office to manage it, so that they know that there is a price to be paid for influencing others, after all, everyone is equal in this environment. I hope mine will satisfy you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If the neighbor is too noisy, you can call the police. According to the provisions of China's "Public Security Administration Punishment Law", if the law on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life is violated, and the noise interferes with the normal life of others, a warning shall be given; Those who do not correct the hidden defeat after being warned shall be fined between 200 and 500 RMB. Therefore, if the neighbor is tired and does not change, you can call the police to deal with it.

    Article 58 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments violates the legal restrictions on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life by creating noise that interferes with the normal life of others, and is to be given a warning; and where corrections are not made after a warning, a fine of between 200 and 500 RMB is to be given. Article 1165 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Where an actor infringes upon the civil rights and interests of others and causes harm due to his fault, he shall bear tort liability. Article 288 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China The owner of adjacent rights to immovable property shall, in accordance with the principles of conducive to production, convenience of life, solidarity and mutual assistance, fairness and reasonableness, correctly handle the poor and simple relationship between neighbors.

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