I had a quarrel with my husband, and my husband said that I felt that life was boring and that I did

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Small friction between husband and wife is a very normal thing, find a specific cause and analyze it and solve it, as for what your husband said, there is no strength to struggle, it may be a joke, there is no fuss, and what is said in anger is not counted!!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Motivate him and rekindle his male fighting spirit.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why did you get married at that time?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have to calm down and talk about it together, lovers need to be tolerant, and nothing cannot be solved. Divorce is a last resort!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The 7-year itch is indeed terrible, and we should be more tolerant and understanding of each other, and don't regret it on impulse.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now you are all young and don't know how to cherish your emotions!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then leave, you joke with your feelings, and regret it now.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't have children, you will be separated for a while.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Calm yourself down first. Husband and wife are the fate of thousands of years of cultivation, not a matter of principle, or to communicate well, it will be very good.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not easy to enter a family, and it's not as good as one to change your husband, so change yourself first.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Divorce, I don't like to quarrel and I love to fight.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Communicate first, calm down and have a good talk.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Try to maintain it, depending on the situation, if you don't have children, don't ask for it first, otherwise it is the children who will hurt the most in your divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal to have nothing to say. There are two aspects, one is that I am afraid that my speech is too low-level and the other party will not look down on it. The second is that they are afraid of saying the wrong thing to each other, and if the heart is still there, then communicate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Nothing to say and quarrel? What's the noise?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Does he know how much he has in savings? You can take out some of them appropriately to prove your attitude and feelings, and the economy is very bad this year, understanding and tolerance are necessary, and you have to give him hope, and he can give you hope.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The meaning of life, the meaning of life, is to take some time to discuss it. Darwin told us that people come from **, and what we need to solve is where people are going.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The man is not motivated, and encouragement no longer works, but only provokes him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Marriage is firewood, rice, oil, salt, laundry and mopping. This is the appearance. Marriage is an ordinary greeting in daily life, a towel handed over when you are sweating, a hidden love, a mutual body drying and lasting support, and a petal after blooming.

    A happy marriage is built on mutual appreciation and is a responsibility for life. Only those who have the courage to take on this responsibility will be happy for a long time. Marriage is to be implemented into every bit of life, firewood, rice, oil and salt, trivial and practical.

    Think about it for so many years, think about how gray you are, do you remember why he or she was with you? How to handle the relationship between husband and wife! How to avoid a quarrel between husband and wife First of all, reflect on yourself Think about why you are angry, and if a calm exchange of opinions can solve the problem, why bother?

    Think about the other person When a fight is about to happen, think about putting yourself in the other person's position. You should think about why the other person is unpleasant? When the flames of war are about to burn out, you might as well retreat and wait for the other party to calm down, and then find out the reasons and exchange opinions, so as to avoid quarrels.

    When a quarrel between husband and wife inevitably occurs, it is necessary to take matters into account, and never prove yourself right by exposing each other's secrets, or use this to make each other submit. Otherwise, it will intensify contradictions, deepen differences, and hurt feelings. Don't compare yourself to someone else's husband or wife when you quarrel with each other.

    That kind of approach will not solve any problems, but will hurt the self-esteem of the other party. Don't involve relatives Husband and wife quarrels are purely their own household affairs, and do not involve other relatives. Not only will this not be helpful, but it will also make the other person's affection for your relative disappear completely.

    Don't be judged by outsiders When husband and wife quarrel with each other, don't say what the other party is wrong in front of outsiders, and don't let outsiders judge who is right and who is wrong. This will make the other party feel that they have lost face and will expand the conflict. Reconcile as soon as possible After a husband and wife quarrel, it is important to reconcile as soon as possible.

    After a quarrel, no matter who has a reason, you should take the initiative to apologize to the other party. As the saying goes: a hundred years of repair can be crossed by the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together, How difficult it is for two people to be together, we must cherish each other!

    Happy to you in the end; Sweet feelings, harmonious families, and happy marriages 0

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is no husband and wife in the world who do not quarrel. The key is how to deal with it, to have a degree, and not to hurt people too much. Moderate quarrels are also a form of communication. There is no need to quarrel with those who really can't go on anymore.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The most important thing before husband and wife is a harmony word, I hope you can be more tolerant of your husband, of course, the most important thing is to communicate more and talk calmly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    How many husbands and wives don't quarrel? People, there will always be some setbacks in this life, if you don't want to face them, don't follow them and live your own life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because you have to let him, of course he has to let him here, he quarrels with you and you don't quarrel with him, so that you can never quarrel, be good to her, he will be good to you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Maybe you didn't communicate well, right? Should you have a good talk, or should you all have troubles and don't want to talk about it? Maybe it's stressful, try to calm down and talk.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe it's too much pressure, it's not in a good mood, and we'll see after a while.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    See how you feel! And his attitude态It's better not to be noisy

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Husbands and wives always have to run in with each other. Otherwise, how can you go on for the rest of your life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes It just needs to be communicated more and arguing doesn't solve the problem.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hehe, don't you think that after a quarrel, you understand each other, that feeling will be better?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's normal to quarrel, but it's strange not to quarrel.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    We often quarrel over small things, and today is no exception.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You all need to be calm and look for the reason for your quarrel! Big things are small.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Communicate more, how long have you been together.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There are a lot of common topics when you are in love, but after you get married, there are no more such things; Don't think about divorce, even if you get divorced and find another few years later, the result will still be the same. I suggest that you be more tolerant and considerate of each other......

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Communicate, say each other's feelings and thoughts. Marriage needs to be managed, and the problems that should be solved as much as possible are said. Good luck.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I'm in the same situation as I'm thinking about divorce.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Now the key is whether you believe your husband or not. Will he ignore you for the sake of the woman on the Internet? In fact, the feelings in the network are all fake.

    Who knows what kind of person is on that end of the network? It is precisely because I don't know that I am curious and have the desire to understand. If your husband cares about the woman on the Internet, you might as well care about her too, or help your husband with ideas.

    Your husband will thank you for your generosity and consider your feelings. If you tell your husband intentionally or unintentionally, who knows if what his netizen said is true or false. They're all adults, and I'm sure your husband will understand.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It is estimated that your husband's heart is not entirely on you two anymore! Don't push him too hard, if you push him too hard, it will only be you two who will be hurt! If your life is secure, let it be!

    The outside world will always have an irreplaceable attraction for men, and he will come back when he is tired enough!!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Looks like your husband's heart is deteriorating! However, you still have to talk to your husband to see how the situation is after the conversation, and what are you planning for the next step?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    In the life of husband and wife, we must tolerate each other, understand, communicate and trust each other to live more and more happily.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Anyway, the reason is inexplicable, all of them are reasonable, only if they make an agreement, whoever gets angry first, the latter must be silent or leave, and there will be no quarrel.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    In fact, every team of couples will quarrel, even if you are divorced and looking for it, people don't get you, you are precious, and it will still be the same, so you will quarrel in life

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Take the initiative to talk to him, there is no knot that cannot be untied.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Take the initiative to talk to him and talk about your thoughts.

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