How to prevent friends from rubbing rice, and how to refuse good friends rubbing rice?

In the QQ restaurant, after adding dishes, sell them first, and when there is 33% left, you can be rubbed often to replenish the ingredients and will not be rubbed rice, you can use your trumpet to see the remaining time to rub the rice, as long as the ingredients are replenished within that time. It can also be calculated by level, simply put, if you are level 3 now, the maximum you buy level 3 dishes is 1200, so if you are less than 1200, you will be rubbed with rice. Level 4 is 1300, and so on.

In fact, in order to avoid some people only putting the most advanced dishes to upgrade, forcing everyone to learn the dishes of other departments in order to put high-end dishes in all 3 positions. First of all, I would like to remind everyone that the default time of eating in QQ restaurant is not the time displayed on your alarm clock, but you can get the approximate time by the number of your meals, which is 1170 meals. When it is less than this number, alumni can rub their meals.

So how do you not let alumni rub their meals when they go offline? 1. Blocking the route of restaurant guests, such as blocking the door with decorations so that guests cannot enter; 2. The position of the table makes the waiter unable to pass the food, when the waiter designated by the system cannot deliver the meal to the table of the guest designated by the system, if it accumulates to a certain number, the new guests will naturally think that there is no table and leave your restaurant; 3. Make your own food, without ingredients, you can't do business; 4. I recommend the method of hibernation. That is, control the number of waiters (preferably one), control your own table (preferably two or three, and lengthen the service distance of the waiter), so that the number of your meals 3 things are saturated, that is, you can no longer add the number of states, so that you can go offline for about ten hours with peace of mind, that is, it will not affect your rest, and it will not affect your upgrade to make money (of course, it must be slower than your **, but it is also a good way to prevent hanging).

You can hire security guards and you won't be overlooked.

If you want to refuse tactfully, friends often come to the house to eat. This requires a certain amount of mind and skill, and you should never refuse it outright. Otherwise, it will affect the relationship between two people.

Since the other party often comes to your house to eat, then come and don't be rude, you also find an excuse that you don't have time to cook, let him bring some food to you, if he is not annoyed after a few times, it means that he is a big grinning person, or this person knows how to be grateful, such a person, in the future, you will rub, and you will have the possibility of begging him in the future, this person should be enough friends. But if this person makes an excuse to ignore you after a few days, you continue to let him treat you or something, he is annoyed, and he will naturally not go to your house in the future.

Or you can also make a few raw meals for him alone, and make some half-cooked dishes! I went out to eat a few times, but he didn't rub it a few times, and he may not come next time! Prepare just enough for himself to eat, and if he comes to rub it, you say that the amount of food is enough for him to eat, so that he will retreat.

At this time, Liang Hehou should not feel embarrassed Oak Cave Paisi, if you don't say it, he doesn't know that you are very disgusted, and he will often come to your house to eat, so although he will not be poor, he will also be very uncomfortable, and he will feel a lot of pressure, so it is better to find some ways to solve it.

Do you have this kind of person around you who loves to take advantage of small things? It's the kind of commute that always likes to rub a car, you never give you money to buy him food, you always don't pay back what you borrow, etc. Take the car rubbing incident as an example, if it's just a drop by for a while, it doesn't matter.

But some people really treat you as a free driver and make an appointment in advance. Don't talk about the detour, he still urges you when you're late, and he asks you to wait for him to wait if he has encountered it. If you're worried that a direct rejection will hurt your face, or hurt your feelings.

First of all, the first one is called a tooth for a tooth. Many times others take advantage of you, and what you keep silent is actually encouraging him to take advantage of me and not want your money. The best way to deal with this kind of person is that he takes advantage of you, and you take advantage of him.

For example, when he rubs your car, you can say something like: This car is really hot, you go down and buy two cold drinks, **It doesn't matter, the important thing is that you have to let him figure it out for himself, you can't rub this car in vain, right? This second trick is a bit ruthless.

It's one thing that everyone is afraid of, borrowing money, for example, when he rubs your car, or when he makes some excessive demands on you, you can directly borrow money from him. For example, Brother Zhang has encountered something recently, do you think you can lend me 10,000 yuan, and I will pay you back when I have enough money. If he doesn't borrow it today, you can borrow it from him the next time he rushes your car, and slowly he will have to carry you away.

Why? Pa you borrowed money, he must be thinking about it. This commodity is really poor, and he always borrows money.

Therefore, the more embarrassed it is to meet this kind of person in life.

Depending on the situation, it can be handled in the following 3 ways:

1. Take the initiative to ask the other party to pay, and you can run errands to buy breakfast according to his requirements, and you will not be charged for the hard work of running errands. Some people are too cowardly due to personality reasons, and they are embarrassed or afraid to speak up for fear that the other party's unhappiness will cause tension in the relationship between colleagues. This kind of personality needs to be self-adjusted, and it must be boldly proposed, because the fault is not in you but in the other party.

Brothers and sisters are all settlers, not to mention the relationship between colleagues? Besides, the other party often asks you to take the morning and not give money, such a colleague is either greedy and cheap, or bullying you for weakness, such a colleague should keep a distance not too close, not worthy of friendly relationship, so you have to be bold and brave to say it, if the other party is unhappy and turn his face, it is a good time to distance himself from Sui, why not?

2.Anti-customer, find an excuse to let the other party give you free early for a while. For example, if you say that you have other things to do in the morning, and you don't have time to buy breakfast on your way to work, let the other party help you.

If he asks you to take it for free, you will ask him to bring it for you for a few days, which is a matter of course, and the law of interpersonal communication in relationology is the principle of equality, mutual benefit and reciprocity. If he asks you for money, settle the account of the money you paid for him and the money he paid for you to buy breakfast, and let him pay you the difference. If he doesn't bring you breakfast, then you make it clear that you won't bring it to him in the future.

3.Say hello to other colleagues who buy breakfast on the way to work, ask other colleagues to help you bring breakfast for a while, and then tell the colleague who is greedy for cheap reeds that it is inconvenient for you to let others buy breakfast now. Change the other person's habits in this way.

If you meet a resolute person in this kind of thing, it is impossible to often bring breakfast for others for free, and courageous people do not have so many scruples, they dare to directly and clearly tell the greedy person that he is not willing to buy breakfast for the other party. For those who are cowardly and embarrassed to have a lot of concerns, they must adjust themselves, muster up courage, and bravely say their requirements. These three tricks are very applicable to people who often rub your food, the key is that you dare to use them and learn to boldly refuse others.

Between relatives, the relationship is close.

Between relatives, walking back and forth can enhance the relationship and make the family more close, which is a good thing.

Therefore, relatives should come and go more with each other.

However, some relatives do not love themselves, and often take advantage of the family affection between relatives to run to eat and drink, which is annoying.

In this case, even though they are related to each other, it is also infinitely annoying.

Therefore, when the relative who does not love himself comes to eat and drink again, he must find some way to deal with the ......

As for the specific coping methods, the following can be used:

1. Excuse yourself to leave.

When relatives come over to eat and drink, they can excuse themselves to leave. ......For example, we happen to have something to do and need to go to see a friend, so we have to leave immediately. ......In this way, he has enough reason not to cook for him, and he will not be able to eat.

2. Make some regular meals.

If you happen to be at home when your relatives come to eat, then cook a little ordinary meal, the simpler the better......When relatives saw these light-as-water meals, they naturally lost their appetite and would not come to eat again.

3. Dodge in advance.

The time of eating every day is relatively fixed. ......Therefore, the time for relatives to come over to rub the rice is also to be expected.

You can sum up your experience, and when you predict that your relatives are about to come to eat, you can hide out and wander around, and then go home when he is gone......This can also prevent relatives from coming over to eat.

4. Euphemistic refusal.

This method is a ...... way that there is no wayAlthough the tone of refusal was very tactful, the matter was already obvious, so his attitude was very clear......It is an unequivocal rejection ......I believe that after having this clear attitude, that relative will no longer be embarrassed to come over for dinner.

It depends on the situation, if the relatives are really in trouble, they will pay for chopsticks, if it is a quality problem, they should be indirectly told, after all, there are not many people who are eating artificially now.

It's sometimes annoying to encounter such a situation. However, there are two types.

1, it's really difficult, this kind of problem is actually quite welcome, after all, life sometimes has unsatisfactory times, since he can choose to go to my house, it means that my popularity is also very good, and he doesn't have much to eat.

Once I went to study in another city, for more than a month or so, I didn't think about going to live with relatives at first, I just thought about renting a house outside for a month, so that it would be convenient for everyone. As a result, my cousin tried her best to ask me to go to her house to live, which is very close to the place where she studied, and if she didn't go, she really looked down on her, and relatives should help each other, and the relationship between our family was quite good, and she also said that if a relative didn't even want to go to your house, it would be a failure.

Later, I went to her house for more than a month, and we got along very well. My uncle and aunt usually go back to their hometown to eat and live in my house, and they usually help each other and support each other when there are any problems and difficulties in the family. My cousin's family used to be very poor, and they couldn't eat, so they had children and became an orphan when they were 8 years old.

At that time, they all relied on our family for support. When he grew up, he was also very filial, and when there were difficulties in his family, he borrowed money from his friends without saying a word, and also took out all his savings.

Now the family conditions are much better, and I often donate some clothes to the poorer families in the same village or the next village, my mother said that if some orphans from poor families on TV are close, they can adopt them back, but unfortunately they are too far away, and the adoption procedures are troublesome.

2. If it is a scoundrel who comes to take refuge, he will close the door and send off the guest! Waste of time, waste of food!

It's really hard to refuse such a thing as relatives coming to the house to eat. Refusal will offend people, offend relatives, and cast kinship in the shadows.

And such relatives are often more direct relatives, and it is not easy to refuse directly.

However, it is not easy to refuse openly, but it is still possible to do it secretly. Find a way to let them stop unconsciously and retreat unconsciously. Just find one for the reason why you're not at home.

Something like "Friend's birthday, going to a feast." "When a leader marries a daughter, he must go to give gifts," and so on. These reasons are real and impossible to shirk.

Over time, they also know that they will naturally put away their faces of eating and drinking.

If you don't want them to eat, make what they don't want to eat at every meal, so they don't eat it.

There are indeed such relatives, who don't do it at home, and then go to their relatives' houses to eat, what kind of psychology is such a person, no one is stupid, always go to eat to save so much money, and besides, your own family also goes to relatives' houses to eat, I really don't know what they think.

No matter where you go to eat, you have to look at people's faces, and it's very inconvenient.

I think that relatives who often come to rub rice don't have to use good wine and good food to entertain them, and to prevent them from coming to rub rice, they can do something they don't like, such as making less and enough for their own family to eat, or just pickles and rice, and see if they still come.

If you want your relatives not to eat at your house, that is, to find an opportunity to go out during meals, not at home. Or when it comes to eating, they say that they have something to do and can't take care of it, and I don't think my relatives are stupid. Every woman is a little woman at heart, but not every woman can maintain this mentality all the time.

Many middle-aged women have become more mature and more able to take charge of themselves after the baptism of the years, and hide the mind of this little woman intact, but it does not mean that it does not exist, but it just means that he hides such a side in front of strangers, and he is unwilling to show this side easily, even in front of his parents.

Of course, they will only show their weakest side in front of the people they know and love the most, and when a middle-aged woman shows a pretentious appearance in front of you, you must not feel uncomfortable, this may be the performance he will have after he is attracted to you.

The appearance of a middle-aged woman after being tempted: "little woman".

It is said that most middle-aged women are strong women, but after they are tempted, they will also become "little women".

Many middle-aged women, after experiencing the trials of life and the baptism of society, have quietly hidden their original selves and become different faces.

In life, in the eyes of others, she is more like a mature strong woman, no one knows, she actually hides the fragile and true side of her heart, and is unwilling to show others, unwilling to let others see the true side of her heart, so that she looks so mature and strong.

In fact, this is not their own will, but they are forced by life to bow to society, so as to protect their true selves with a strong appearance.