-
I often encounter such a situation, and it is difficult to say, if he still does not change, you can talk to him, or do not change to the teacher. You can't go on like this for the sake of learning.
-
Get used to it, like in our dormitory, there are often roommates who don't sleep at noon on the balcony to wash their hair and clean up their things, I originally wanted to give her advice, but she may not listen to it, and I found that the existing dormitory portrait can also sleep very well, so I tried not to care, but now the impact is not so big.
-
Go and tell her yourself, but the tone can't be too hard, attitude is everything.
-
You can sit down face to face and explain that a dorm room is nothing.
-
The sound is off. Or, the voice is on, and there is no mercy for killing.
Also, the voice is on, and the headphones are on.
-
Tell her to her face, don't be so loud, okay.
-
The dormitory is a group environment, and it is inevitable that there will be roommates with different schedules, so if the roommates affect your rest at noon, you can communicate with them directly and make him quieter.
1. Tolerance, the contradiction is common, there will inevitably be a lot of small friction after getting along for a long time, everyone's personality is different, and it does not necessarily meet the requirements of everyone, we should be more tolerant.
Second, empathy, think more about others when doing things in the dormitory, and don't let your own things affect others. Think more empathetically, if others are like this, you will not be angry.
3. Trust, living in the same room, basic trust is to have. Don't always be suspicious and distrust your roommates. Mutual understanding and mutual trust. Everyone is mutual, I will see you how you see me, and when you open your heart, others will not deliberately close it.
Fourth, share, take out more good things to share, don't be stingy. If you are generous, others will naturally be generous, don't always care. When you buy something, if the conditions promise, you can also buy a copy for your roommate, which will enhance the relationship, and the roommate will remember your good.
Fifth, no hypocrisy, people are too hypocritical, no one wants to approach, when you see your hypocrisy, they will gradually alienate you in their hearts, don't be hypocritical, be more sincere.
Sixth, people who are not selfish, who are not selfish and quietly prepare for pickpocketing are very popular, and there will be many people who are willing to help. Because what kind of person he is, what kind of person he will be by his side.
-
Summary. You can call the police. 1. From 22 o'clock in the evening to 6 o'clock in the morning of the next day, noise disturbance is regarded as noise nuisance, and there are relevant provisions in the "Noise Management Measures".
2. Solution: 1Complaint handling with the relevant authorities; 2.
Noise disturbers can call the police. Judging by the loudness of the sound, if the noise level is reached, an alarm can be called. Legal basis:
Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China》 Article 58 Whoever violates the laws and regulations on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life by creating noise that interferes with the normal life of others shall be given a warning; and where corrections are not made after warning, a fine of between 200 and 500 RMB is to be imposed.
1.Complaint handling with the relevant authorities; 2.Noise disturbers can be reported to the police and washed out.
Judging by the loudness of the sound, if the noise level is reached, the alarm can be called. Legal basis: Article 58 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments Article 58 Anyone who violates the laws and regulations on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life by making noise and interfering with the normal life of others shall be given a warning; and where corrections are not made after warning, a fine of between 200 and 500 RMB is to be imposed.
However, in general, no case will be filed, only mediation.
Generally speaking, you can't call the police directly, ** will notify the teachers and parents to negotiate and mediate according to the actual situation, and generally order rectification and will not be fined.
Then they provoked me and fought, will I be punished with a demerit, they provoked me.
It will definitely be punished, because the nature of the fight is different.
Don't do it first.
If they provoke me, I collected their report imitation hall materials, and began to rectify the dormitory after telling the teacher, but it didn't work, I asked my parents to take me to the hospital psychology department to open a report on mental unhealth, did they indirectly make me sick, I can sue them, they smoke in the dormitory every day, play games every night, it's very noisy, I just didn't record the materials.
Generally speaking, like this situation, you may be given a change of dormitory, according to the school's management attitude is too good, I can understand your blind situation and mood, calling the police or suing Heng Ku is not very effective for minors.
-
Roommates always don't pay attention at night and will affect others' rest, to say that roommates' hearts are really hard to judge, it may be unintentional, or it may be in daily life, he is like this, has been accustomed to it.
In fact, many people know that we need to go through a lot of things in the process of growing up. And these things will teach us how to deal with people, although there is a lot of knowledge in dealing with people, but we also need to pay attention to the specific situation and analyze it. After all, different things may have different problems, such as roommates always affecting others to rest during periods of inattention.
In the face of this situation of roommates, some people will feel that they are accustomed to it, and some people will feel that it is actually their own problem, which may have arisen unintentionally.
1. Roommates always don't pay attention at night, which will affect the rest of others
In fact, when it comes to some of the actions of roommates, some people may understand, and of course some people don't quite understand. But today's college students live together, maybe 4 or 6 people in a dormitory, such a collective environment is definitely not as good as at home, and they can do whatever they want. Since we live in a dormitory, we need to change our previous freewheeling, for example, not paying attention at night affects the rest of others, which is our own problem and must be changed.
Second, what kind of psychology is it to say that roommates always affect the rest of others
If you want to talk about specific psychology, it may not mean much. After all, when we think about anything, don't overcomplicate things. After all, roommates always affect the rest of others, for a simple example, he often plays ** loudly or plays games in the middle of the night, etc., these may be unintentional, but they do have a certain impact on us.
If you really can't talk about it in your heart, it may be that he is not in a good mood and there is something wrong, and what we need to do is definitely to understand each other.
3. What should we do if our roommates frequently affect others to rest?
Originally, this situation of roommates only happens from time to time, but suddenly it appears frequently, for example, every day for such a situation, it is estimated that many people can't bear it and want to reason with their roommates. In fact, we can also talk to our roommates calmly, after all, communication can be suitable for any relationship.
The above is a simple analysis of the things that always affect the rest of others by roommates, and it has to be said that the situation faced by everyone is different. And when we are faced with these situations, we must properly handle them to avoid increasing contradictions. And how to deal with it in the process of dealing with it, this is actually the most important thing in the whole thing.
-
This kind of person is selfish, they never consider the feelings of others, think that they live in a vacuum, so they don't pay attention to the impact of what they do.
-
I think it's a kind of self-centered mentality, he doesn't think about other people's feelings and only takes care of himself, such a person is very selfish, and such roommates should negotiate with him.
-
It's a very selfish mentality, you don't pay attention to other people's feelings at all, in fact, you should communicate with him well, otherwise he will never know what he is doing.
-
Of course, it's a selfish psychology, it's not that he doesn't pay attention, but he doesn't care at all, thinking that it's okay to affect others.
-
It's a selfish psychology. This roommate of yours only takes into account his own feelings when doing things, such a person is very selfish.
-
This kind of person just has a clear head, which is particularly annoying, explain it clearly to him, and no matter how noisy he is, he won't want to sleep well, or simply drive him out.
-
This kind of psychology is particularly selfish, and he doesn't think about other people's affairs at all, and he should be scolded when he encounters such a person.
-
Just looking at the title, I think it's a normal thing.
Sleeping needs to be as dark and quiet as possible, I believe this is true for everyone, so it is understandable that everyone wants the environment around them to be in a quiet state when they sleep.
But since this question is asked, I would like to take the liberty of extending it, and there may be a misinterpretation of the meaning of the person who asked the question.
First, the question of time.
If it's time to go to bed at night, such as 10 o'clock at night, one of the roommates has to go to bed at 10 o'clock, and the other roommates are night owls, usually until 12 o'clock or even early in the morning, in this case, the roommate who sleeps at 10 o'clock wants the other roommates to be quieter, I think it is also reasonable, even if it is not guaranteed to be completely quiet, but also to minimize the sound, I think this is a respect for each other, when you want to go to bed early, you can also exchange the other party's understanding and concession.
There is also a lunch break at noon, sometimes after Gao Luyi's laughing spring lunch class, after eating at noon, there may be roommates who want to sleep for a while, if you don't have anything special, you can put on headphones and watch a drama or something, which is understandable.
2. Incidental events.
For example, there is a roommate who has a little cold in the past two days, and he always wants to sleep after drinking medicine, and then he may tell other roommates during the day if he can be quieter, I think everyone has compassion, and this kind of accident is also understandable, I saw that my roommate was sick and had no energy when I was in college, and it was really distressing, so I hoped that she could get better quickly.
I think the above two situations can be viewed normally and understandably.
Of course, college roommates are like smoking a blind box, you may encounter the situation that you ask the whole dormitory to be quiet when you sleep, and you don't respect others when you sleep, and you are very loud, there is actually no good solution to this situation, because generally this kind of person will not be useful, you can only choose to change the dormitory or move out if you have the conditions, or you can only hurt each other, or hope that everyone can meet normal roommates!
-
In the university dormitory, if someone rests, others will keep quiet, this does not need to be reminded by others, we will all be conscious, the four years in the university, the four years that make us grow the fastest, the four years in the dormitory and the roommates, is our good memory, come and see how we get along with our roommates?
1. Smile welcome: When reporting in the dormitory, greet the roommate in the dormitory with a smile, a smile can leave a good impression, and at the same time will make the roommate think that you are particularly easy to get along with and polite, so be sure to remember to smile.
2. Help your roommates: If your roommates are in trouble in the dormitory, you must do your best to help.
3. Be tolerant of others: Everyone has their own faults, so we can't ask everyone to be perfect, we must have a tolerant heart to tolerate others, so that others can tolerate us, so that we can get along more harmoniously with our roommates.
4. Care about roommates: When we get along with our roommates, we should carefully observe the preferences of our roommates and take the initiative to care about our roommates, which will make the roommates' bedroom life more comfortable, and at the same time, the relationship between us and our roommates will become intimate.
5. Treat people sincerely: We must get along with our roommates from the heart, so that our roommates can feel our sincerity, see our quality, trust us more, and then become real friends with us.
6. Be honest with each other.
Sometimes people in the dormitory don't get along well together.
Because after a long time, you will find the shortcomings of the other party, and sometimes you will not like it.
But the dormitories should be united.
Your sincere actions will regret the honesty that impressed others early.
Sometimes don't get too intimate because it's going to get tired.
And even if some of the fire is bigger, remember to press it in the dormitory first, or you will be a little cold to your roommates.
I'm sure other people won't be able to stand it when I meet disgusting roommates.
Don't let others affect you too much!
-
When your roommate is resting, try not to make a sound, let alone disturb him to rest.
In fact, to tell the truth, compared to the noisy roommates, I think that she hates the most about her roommates. Anyway, in my college dormitory, there are roommates who love to be noisy, but you are not allowed to be noisy when I sleep, and you are not allowed to sleep when I wake up. I think this kind of person is more selfish, okay? >>>More
There are always a few people who love to play games in each dormitory, you can remind them to keep their voices quiet, after all, you can't restrict the freedom of others, if you feel that the relationship with them is not very good, you can ask to change the dormitory, because you will feel depressed in that kind of dormitory, so choose a way not to interfere with each other!
If you feel depressed in the dormitory, you can try not to stay in the dormitory anymore, leave this uncomfortable environment, change to a new environment, walk around the dormitory, and try to stay in the dormitory as little as possible, there are many places that are worth visiting, such as the library, so if you feel depressed in the dormitory, you can reduce the time you spend in the dormitory.
Be considerate of each other and talk to him more. When we first got together, we really didn't get used to it, but after staying for a long time, it would be good if we knew each other's tempers. >>>More
I think the right way to deal with this is to first figure out why they have a conflict, because if you solve this problem, the two of you will have problems in the future. If you are beaten by your roommate, I think the other party will have to compensate for the medical expenses and mental damages, because this thing is caused by the other party, so he must be compensated, and you need to communicate with the other party to a certain extent. >>>More