Life is long, how to see yourself clearly when you fail, and you can still go on. 20

Don't think too much about it, just continue with the set direction and goals. Life has to move forward in any situation, there is nothing to discuss. It's just to learn from the failures and add wisdom to life.

Most people are very strong on the outside, but very fragile on the inside, the most important thing is to have a spiritual pillar behind you when you fail, even if you lose everything, you still have the care of your family, the care of your friends, or the encouragement of your lover. They will always support you, no matter your success or failure. Of course, the most important thing is that you need to work your own, have a good attitude, even if you can't get up from falling down, but the road you choose must be completed on your knees.

Failure is not terrible, the most important thing is to be able to get up from failure, and realize the value of this failure, to work hard again, to be strong, that is difficult to do. Failing, many people will choose to sink and choose to collapse. Failure is inevitable, and if you don't stand up, then this failure is really meaningless.

Be strong, work hard, start all over again, everything is achievable.

Learn from the experience of failure and avoid similar failures in the future road.

To know why it fails, smart people don't trip twice at the same threshold. Nothing remarkable! Cheer up and start all over again. Things have the power to turn defeat into victory!

If a person waits, there is always a chance, but waiting often comes with a price, and that price is often terrible.

How much of a failure can you have, at least you're still alive! It's better to die than to live! Brace oneself!

You magnified the failure, I used to have a colleague, she also graduated from secondary school, but her life is very optimistic, her salary is as high as ordinary people, in fact, the job is not so difficult to find, now many companies are focusing on work ability, rather than diplomas, our colleagues also have a college graduate, scolded every day, don't look down on yourself, many big bosses have not studied in college, they also rely on their own will to persevere, in the process of work continue to learn, so finally become the boss. Let the past pass, adjust your mentality from now on, live happily, and continue to learn to replenish your energy, and you will definitely benefit a lot in the future. Hey, hey......May you be happy, society is full of people, don't close yourself off, you can chat with strangers, as long as you use a positive heart to do things will feel that everything is so bad, come on to overcome that mentality, you are still young, the road ahead is still very long, there are many opportunities, don't indulge yourself like this.

If you can enjoy loneliness, look at philosophy. In search of the meaning of life, don't look at Schopenhauer and Nietzsche! , look at Lao Zhuang, Shakya is also good.

It was really hard, my mom died of illness when I was in my second year of high school. The whole person was blinded, and I felt that nothing mattered in my eyes. This life lasted for almost a month, but there were still people alive in my life, my dad and my own brother.

Slowly I feel that life is still going on, and the change of the seasons will leave me the footprints of life, and there are thousands of relatives who will accompany me for a lifetime.

But if both parents leave ... Only let him feel the warmth in his heart and this warmth is not as short as spring and there is hope, it is best to have someone who can come into his life, do not have to rely on each other, treat each other with all his heart, as long as he can accompany him through the early morning to late at night to leave a memory. It would be easy for him to feel that he was not alone.

Bless this child to find this man, and hope that his parents will rest in Hades.

There are many injustices in life, but my life is up to me, children must remember that people must rely on themselves, believe in themselves, the future is in their own hands, the more unfortunate they should be, the stronger they should be, and let God know that you will never be defeated... Come on.

Caution is advised.

Just married, newlyweds have a process of running in and adapting to each other.

It is impossible to talk about more communication and no contradictions.

Just have faith.

You have love, and you have love in the world.

Of course you can find your happiness.

Have you ever wondered what the root cause of cold violence is, don't rush to divorce. Whether it is his own personality problem, or his psychological problem, or your communication style, you must actively solve the problem first, not avoid it first. You know that the reason why you will be confused in the future is because you don't treat the problem correctly and can't find the root cause, then you can't improve your problem-solving ability and learn lessons.

You may have the same difficulties in the future, and then you will have to run away again? Leave it alone what the end result will be, and then talk about it once and for all.

You said that you don't regret the decision to divorce, then you have to cheer up, you are only 28 years old, and the road ahead is still very long, others can't help you anything, the main thing is to rely on yourself, adjust your mentality, and you will definitely find your happiness.

In the 21st century, I still want to think so much. Women have to trust their instincts, and if they are not suitable, they will pass him! The quest for love never ends! There are many kinds of people who are good to you.

Don't think so Don't subconsciously magnify the difficulties of women after divorce, in fact, a self-reliant woman can bravely choose her own happiness, you don't rely on him, you will be happier without him, don't blindly think about whether the next man will give me happiness, at the moment, please live a good life, no man, but also be happy, happy, this time is the most important

Why do you want to do the step of divorce, everyone is fine, I think that being a daughter-in-law should have a kind of generosity, as long as the two in-laws are good. Cool to each other, divorced women are absolutely oh exaggerated.

Life is made by oneself, not encouraged by others. It's been so long, don't give up easily, I'm sorry for all the effort you've put in.

Be strong, don't worry about other people's opinions, and the boy who really loves you won't mind your family background, so don't feel inferior because of family and financial factors. It's better to deal with people in the city, so that you have more friends, learn more from them, don't give up your current job first, do a year and a half first, if the boss gives you the best salary increase during this time, if not, it's okay, find a better job than him or a job with a higher salary, of course, it is more effective to find a job in the city to make a few more friends.

If someone wants to, you don't have low self-esteem. What you need most now is someone who understands you, a reliable shoulder that can carry it with you. You are amazing, the current difficulties are only temporary, and you will definitely get through it.

Let's do a small business, find a university town, or a place with a fixed ** move more, outside the private university, the food in the private colleges and universities is generally very poor, set up a stall outside, sell some food, as long as a small cart, brand some egg cakes or something, even if it is something simple.

Pay attention to what you wear clean, not new, not to mention, you must be clean, now life is very difficult, as long as you work hard every day, money can be earned, I don't know if you are **.

There are a lot of stalls outside our school that sell noodles, and now the beef noodles that are everywhere outside are sold at the cheapest 3 yuan a bowl, and you can sell at least 200 bowls a day, and it's hard work, as long as you work hard, you can go down every road, of course, you can also make something else, sell some trinkets, or small toys, but those don't seem to be easy for your current situation.

Look at your experience and believe that you are a strong person. Your brother is not young anymore, I believe that I can take care of myself if I find a job, you have to believe that he lets go and let him live on his own, you can't follow him for a lifetime, sooner or later he will start a family. In fact, everyone is a good start, you are a girl to support a family is too hard, find someone to marry can share it for you, you can also rely on it when you are tired.

But when choosing an object, you must see the quality of that person, see if it is a person worth relying on, don't believe too much what others say, and learn to observe it yourself. Find an emotional sustenance, and believe that your mood will also be better.

I have to believe that it will still be a good boy

Be confident in yourself, maybe you feel sad looking at your current life now, but will you still be like this in many years? I don't think so, when you look back at everything today, you will find that the most difficult days have passed, how can there be obstacles in life that you can't get over.

Well, that's a good point. You will stick to it, and in the end you will figure out what you want. That's to reach another level! Terrible.

People must constantly learn to comfort themselves, because no one really understands your own thoughts, your whimsical, your joys, sorrows, sorrows, etc., all need to be positively psychologically suggested.

Only in this way can we have the reason and courage to live.

In fact, what you said is right, so that you can encourage others as well as yourself.

Life may be like a game of chess, but it is not a mistake that will result in a losing game. Because I'm not trying to win this game, I'm just having fun playing it.

Who can win this game? Who can live forever. No, everyone is the loser in this game.

The mentality is different, and the results are different

As the saying goes, it's hard to buy with money, and you know that there is.

Don't think of yourself as worthless, you.

Yuan always said that he lost and failed, you also have a successful place to do ah, during the university participated in the competition, won the excellence award dao, got the computer level 2 certificate, English level 6 certificate, Mandarin level 2 A certificate, intermediate foreign-related secretary qualification certificate, and was admitted to a famous university in Shanghai graduate school. All of this shows that you are not useless. It's just that you're too negative, why don't you give yourself a vacation, let your family or boyfriend accompany you on a trip, take a break, breathe fresh air, and get away from the fast-paced city of Shanghai for a while.

Think about the people who have lost their loved ones and everything in Sichuan, and you will find out how lucky you are. It's easy to die, it's just a moment, but can you promise you won't regret it? Don't let others decide the path of your life, your fate is in your own hands, don't give up easily.

please remember : nothing is impossible in the world! come on!

1. Adjust your own goal of human rebirth, if the goal is too high, it is easy to have an inferiority complex.

2. Establish a mindset that everything goes with the flow, pay attention to the process of life, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and focus on health and joy.

3. Find yourself, know yourself, understand your own strengths and weaknesses, and develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses; Find a way to live, work, and study that suits you.

Fourth, adhere to appropriate exercise, develop a regular life, positive good habits.

5. Listen to relaxed and happy **, and often watch healthy and uplifting movies, books, and information.

As long as you stick to these five and adjust for a while, you will get better.

I wish you happiness, joy and all the best!

Live well, we will die for a long time.

There is no hurdle that you can't get over, so if you feel that you can't continue studying, you can find a job.

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Giving oneself to oneself is a new thing.

Set the right mindset and eliminate distractions.

If you are pulled something else, adjust your mentality, move forward bravely, and live the best. Happiness is not how much you have but cherish what you have, life is a long way, don't let the people who care about you cool their hearts!