If someone you love is pursuing someone else, you will

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you knew this was the case, why bother in the first place?! You don't love him when he loves you, and he doesn't love you when you love him. Love is a superstition of the right time and place, and the marriage of heaven must be cherished artificially!

    You said that he was impeccable in his kindness to you, and since this is the case, you should have reminded yourself to cherish it in the first place. It's better to wish him happiness in the bottom of your heart, whether you will be together in the future or not, for the person you fall in love with in the future, please remember not to be so willful, valuable people, you must grasp it firmly!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love you well now, there is such a sentence that it is difficult to forget a person, I think this difficulty refers to forgetting the feelings and feelings of a person, not what you do together, I think these things are impossible to forget, because he is a real person, and you have a lot of things happening together, how can you forget? Besides, will you forget all about what happened to you and your best friend? No, let alone someone you've loved!

    Don't think that when you see something and think of him, you still love him, you should pay attention to the feeling, you have a boyfriend who is very good to you now, don't give up, cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People just don't know how to cherish when they get it.

    Cherish it. Since he loves you. You should seize this love. If you feel like you can't be together, give up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now that he has given up on you, you are still so persistent! It's not worth it, it's always hard to break the mirror, I hope you will know how to cherish it in the future!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Help him. If you love him, you want him to be happy.

    If he chases that one, she'll be happy.

    Then you should help him.

    But first you have to make sure if he really likes that person that much.

    Also be sure of his attitude towards you.

    I. You are welcome to contact us. Together**. Hey hey

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    To be honest, your purpose in posting this is to ask us to give you a decision, but I know the answer is in your heart, but I'm afraid you won't be able to find him, because I have had the same experience as him, and I know how painful it is to forget the person you love, and when you forget, you will not have love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You want to know if it's time for you to give up. Believe that time will dilute everything.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Alas. There is a saying that is true, what is not gained and lost is the most precious. Why not cherish what you have? Alas, there is nothing more to say,

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then I still like him.

    But I hope he can't catch up.

    Haha, =、、、

    Are you like me?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What is lost is cherished, woman, woman.

    I really don't understand.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans"

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're in a relationship, what would you do if someone chased you? In fact, in a relationship, no matter how others confess to you, how romantic, or how sweet they say, you should calm down and think about it and do the following:

    Number one: you have to make sure if she's the type you like, or if you have a crush on her. If you know her well and feel that she is not your favorite type, as a direct person, you will definitely have to refuse.

    You can't accept it because you say that you are being chased and confessed, whether the other party is your favorite type or not, then the two of you will have to break up sooner or later. If it's the type you like and you have a good feeling, you can move on to the second point.

    The second point: you can't just say yes just because you have a little favor, you have to confirm whether you can have a good result after being together. This is too important, how many couples start with you and me, and in the end, because girls dislike boys and are immature, they have no time to accompany her when they play games every day, and they don't have money to give her the life they want; As for boys, they dislike their girlfriends' big expenses, laziness, and sticking to people every day and so on.

    Some people must say that after talking about this, it won't work in the future, and then break up, isn't it? Actually, this point of view is wrong, since you have talked about it, you should talk about it well, and break up if it is not suitable, you think that love is a joke. So what I mean is to try to have more contact, don't promise her first, after the contact, you can accept her shortcomings, then you can proceed to the third point.

    The third point: this is the most important point. is to finally confirm whether she really loves you, some people are hot-headed, they may like you these days, and after a while they find that they like someone else, so be sure to confirm whether she really likes you.

    Does she really care about you very much, is he a dedicated person, he is usually willing to spend time with you, the specific performance of love is different for everyone to understand, it is not good to say it here.

    In short, if someone pursues you and confesses to you, first determine whether the other person is the type you like, determine whether you can tolerate her shortcomings, and she can also tolerate your shortcomings. If you are sure that the other person has feelings for you, and you feel that you have feelings for the other person, then agree to her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I will take each other's feelings seriously, if I really don't like each other, I will immediately refuse, if I like each other, then I will definitely agree on the spot.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'll try to get along first, and then in the process of getting along, I'll see if he's the right fit for me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In such a situation, I will examine the character of the other person, and if the other person is the type I like very much, I will agree.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Each of us will desire to love and be loved, love is mutual, and if we can have such a relationship, we will feel very happy. When the person who pursues you is the person you like, will you say yes right away?

    1. I won't say yes right away, I'll be more reserved, as long as he can cherish me more.

    As a girl, if the boy you like confesses to yourself and pursues herself hard, she will be very happy, but this happiness should be secretly happy, and you can't let the other party see it, because we should think about it for the long term, only let the boy feel that love is not easy, and he will cherish the girl more in the future.

    Second, after thinking about it clearly, I will reply to him, so that I can be responsible for my feelings.

    Even if I like this person very much, I have to think about it seriously for a while, because it is very likely that I agree to him now because of impulsiveness, liking is just a appearance, when I don't know him, I can't easily agree to this relationship, when I understand him through various channels, he is indeed the person I am looking for, the two of us will definitely have a good future, I will promise him, I will give yourself a period of time, in fact, it is responsible for our feelings, it is a manifestation of rationality.

    3. But don't let the other party wait too long, otherwise you are likely to lose the feelings of Pan Chun.

    If this relationship is indeed real, I have a good impression of him, and he also loves me, then I will reply to him very quickly, and I will not let him wait for a long time, otherwise it is likely that he will feel that I do not agree and change his mind, after all, he is also a very good person, there are many girls who love him, don't let others take the lead, if it is really about this relationship, I will definitely regret it, and I will blame myself very much, for the sake of the good future of the beautiful jujube, I should be cautious about this relationship, And I should let the other party see my sincerity.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If this is the kind of envy of the mountain, it is a very happy thing. It's still a very memorable thing. Both parties like each other, which is also the basis of the relationship, and it is also the most perfect relationship.

    In this case, you can not agree to him at first. Then we will understand him and examine him. If Wang Hail sees that his actions are really liked, it is not too late for you to disturb him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, it's a pleasure to answer your question. In the vast sea of people, when you meet someone who likes you, Zheng Nian chases you. Yes or no tea is rare. But don't say yes right away, get it easily, he doesn't believe it will be cherished. You'll have to hang on to his appetite.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, I will agree immediately, because if I like this person, and this person also happens to like Hu me, I think this is a kind of fate, and I think it is really not easy to love each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When the person who pursues you is the person you like, he will definitely agree immediately, because the two brothers are together and like each other, then they will definitely not reject you, and when you confess to her, she will definitely be very happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When the person who pursues you is the one you Shinno Jin likes Kanji, you will definitely agree immediately, because you don't want to miss it, and maybe you have waited for a long time for his pursuit, so if a person who really likes you confesses to you, then you agree to him immediately.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If a person who guesses me pursues someone who happens to be someone I like, I will not agree immediately, but first test whether he is sincere to me, if it is a sincere type, I will consider accepting divination, if it is just a temptation, I will also test him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it were me, I would say yes immediately, because I like you, and you like me, and we want to be together, and your ideas coincide with mine.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No, I'm going to be very reserved, and I want to test how much patience and how much I like them.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When the person who pursues you is the person you like, you will say yes immediately, because I want our relationship to be established sooner so that we can further develop the relationship.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's better to get to know all aspects of him as much as possible, and observe more before making a decision. Emotional matters are better than abundant. See if he's worth the love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, if you like it, you will agree directly, and if you don't agree, you will miss a beautiful relationship, and the feelings that you like each other are hard to find.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are other suitors in love, and I think it is necessary to tell your other half, because for both parties who love each other, there should be no hiding in this regard, and they should be honest with each other.

    When you are in love, there will inevitably be people who love you to pursue you. But I am not single, and when there are other suitors, some people will choose to hide the object, and some people will choose to tell their partner honestly about the fact that someone is pursuing them.

    1. Concealment will lay mines for feelings.

    In a relationship, one of the most taboo things is to conceal it. Although two people love each other and start a relationship, and the lives of two people are integrated together, they still need a certain amount of space for each other. Because everyone has their own privacy and their own little secrets, not everything has to be said with their own object.

    However, in matters of principle, I believe that it is necessary to be responsible for the object of one's own affairs. For example, in a relationship, there is a person who loves him who is pursuing himself, then at this time he is faced with the choice of confession and concealment, many people's choice is to reject the other party and then do not tell the object as if the matter does not exist, most people who make this choice are generally worried that the object will think more if they know. However, you must know that "if you don't know about it, you can't do it unless you do it", and if something happens, then it will be discovered one day.

    This is equivalent to planting a mine and a time bomb for this relationship of oneself, and when the subject finds out about it, the subject will only feel more insecure and feel that it has been concealed.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on my own feelings and thoughts. I won't be anymore anyway, if you don't like me, I won't like you.

    If I really like the person, then I may consider continuing the pursuit, but at the same time, I will seriously consider the other person's feelings and thoughts. If I feel that the other person is not interested or aggressive towards me, then I may consider giving up the pursuit because continuing the pursuit in this situation may make me feel uncomfortable or hurt.

    In general, I believe that pursuing someone should be based on sincere feelings for each other, not because of some kind of obsession or perseverance. If I feel like I've done my best and the other person is still not interested, then I may consider giving up the pursuit and looking for a new opportunity to find someone I really like.

    If the feelings that come from force are not love, they are family affection, and if they are moved, it is easy to go wrong. Loving oneself is the premise, and loving others is the second.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you have a pursuit, of course you have to tell others, and you should let others know that you are now single or that you have become a famous flower and land group, this kind of thing must be explained, and you can't make others misunderstand as soon as possible.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's up to you, you can choose not to tell her to make a fight, or you can mention it like a joke, but you can't just say it like a showdown! There is a big difference between this, you can think about it yourself.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Tell him and then say something to him that makes him feel safe.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, I have. When we like someone and want to pursue each other, we will not only carefully choose the way to pursue, but also strive to improve ourselves and make ourselves better, so as to gain the recognition of the other party. Specifically, if you want to be better, you need to speak elegantly, behave elegantly, have a perfect and elegant image, and have a successful career.

    1.If you want to be better, you must have the characteristics of elegant conversation and generous manners.

    Whether a person is good or not will first be shown by his demeanor. If a person does not speak well and behaves clumsily, he will make a bad impression and will not meet the standard of "excellent". But if a person talks elegantly and behaves elegantly, he will make a good impression that this person is of high quality, and it is easier to succeed in pursuing the other person in such a state.

    2.People with a perfect and elegant image will have a better personal image.

    Personal image is an important criterion to measure whether a person is good or not. When we analyze whether a person is good or not, we must first look at the person's image. Specifically, if a person is not dressed appropriately and looks sloppy, then he is not a good person.

    And if a person's image is perfect and he behaves naturally and elegantly in front of others, then this person will make a good impression of high quality, and such a person will have a higher chance of success if he pursues someone he likes.

    3.Career success is one of the key factors to make yourself more perfect.

    Fundamentally, whether a person is good or not has a lot to do with the success of his career. If a person works in an average state and cannot be successful, he will naturally not be so good. And if a person has a successful career and is in good shape in his career, then in the eyes of most people, he will be considered an excellent person.

    Therefore, through study and hard work, on the one hand, you can improve your overall quality, on the other hand, you can work hard to develop your career, make yourself better, and finally pursue the person you like, and live a happy life with her.

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