He seems to be tired of how to maintain the relationship

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Relationships that are barely together can't last long. Even if they do end up together, there will be regrets. It's better to learn to give up, and in each other's hearts, maybe you can still leave a little good memory for each other.

    Actually, it's not like you can't let go of him, right? You shouldn't be able to let go of the relationship between you and him, right? In fact, it is difficult to decide many things, and when I really make up my mind, I suddenly become clear.

    Really, it doesn't matter how many times I've said it, but it's definitely true, time is the best medicine. Time can't change anything, but it can definitely get you or us used to something. Always believe that there are people who love you more and who you love more waiting for you to appear, no matter what time is ahead.

    Don't be discouraged! Don't be discouraged.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's when there's nothing new about each of you. Since he didn't propose to break up, it proves that he still cares about your feelings very much, I think you should be separated now, and you should think carefully about whether your heart is still in each other's body. Also, during this time, you should supplement yourself more and let yourself know a little more, so that your conversation will not be so boring, so that he will feel that you can give him a sense of freshness every day, and let him feel that something is missing if he can't see you for a day.

    In this way, you will successfully pull!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I didn't look closely at other people's.

    So it's all my own thoughts.

    You can try to separate from him for a while. You must have said that it is not a good thing for you or for him. So it won't change much if you barely go on. Maybe he's already in love with someone else.

    Only when you are separated from him for a period will you know if he is in love with someone else and who he is in love with. Or let time teach him how important you are.

    Of course, you can't be completely indifferent to him after separation. Care for him in every detail, but only for friends. It's like eating together, yes, but you have to bring a friend. It's okay to go home together, but it's not him who takes you home, it's everyone who stops by.

    Got it? And then what? After a while, he will find out that you have another side and will start to have a good impression of you again, but you can't let him confess once.

    So it's up to you to get the time out of your hands and confess to him when he starts to feel good about you and is embarrassed to confess to him

    In this way, he will have face and be with you, and he will definitely be willing

    However, if you were separated during the time you sent first, it turned out that he really didn't like you because of a change of heart. Then you start to forget about him, because he won't be able to figure out what you do

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Fellow practitioners, I also understand, try it again, you can consider being cold to him, if he is still indifferent, or even very bored with you, if you are me, you will naturally be reluctant, but "the deepest tenderness is fulfillment" and "the last love is to let go of the hand", I think I will also bless him, and maybe after you leave him for a while, he will slowly realize your importance, then you can be with him again, it is very unwise to stalk, in addition, even if he still ignores it, then he will have no feelings for you, and you don't have to be attached anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Teach you to recruit a preemptive strike, you first treat him coldly, if he coaxes you back, .In that case, continue to be with him, if you don't coax you back, then you have to break up with him, because it will hurt the two of you like that, and it's best not to affect your studies.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No, how can it be the same as my situation But I'm a man You won't be my girlfriend, so be it I'll tell you how I feel It's helpful to you, in fact, I used to have a good relationship with my girlfriend, but then I felt that it was very boring to be together It can also be said that it's a proof of love fatigue It's really not happy to be with her I don't know what to say when I'm with her It's not that I don't want to say it, I just don't know what to say I once told her to break up.

    But she didn't agree, and she was so uncomfortable, and I saw that she was uncomfortable, and I couldn't bear to say anything about breaking up.

    Now it's like this, in fact, we haven't seen each other for half a year, and we haven't played ** anymore, and QQ doesn't chat.

    But there is still that kind of relationship There is a separation between each other Hey Friends all said that I should have been happy Now I don't know how to be good If I get together It can't be the same as before If you break up and don't know how to say it Hey I've said so much It's also messy It's all about where I think Hey, I hope I don't mind! ~

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you are so distressed, it means that your feelings for him are not shallow.

    If you want to be with him, if you want to go back to the wonderful feeling you had before, then you have to try.

    Think about what was important to you before.

    Do something that you all enjoyed doing and go to places that you used to go to together a lot.

    Every relationship has an angel and if the angel doesn't go, the relationship won't be gone.

    This time, you are the angel of your feelings.

    Everything will be okay Believe in yourself and believe in your feelings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should be brave enough to ask him why this is the case.

    I think there's already a rift between you, so it's better to separate as soon as possible.

    Otherwise, you won't even be able to be friends in the future.

    Maybe you need to calm down with each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hold on and don't give up if you are truly loving!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    She didn't take you seriously, I agree with the first floor, people are limited, and it's not good to go beyond that.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's take a look at it separately for a while.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, and that is:

    Codependent

    Counterdependent, independent

    Interdependent

    The time it takes to transition between phases is not necessarily and varies from person to person.

    Phase 1: Coexistence.

    This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

    Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

    When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.

    The third stage: independence.

    The fourth stage: symbiosis.

    At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (your) other person (she) has become your (your) closest person. Together, you support each other and create your own life together. Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

    However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

    Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, like this.

    The second and third phases will be shortened.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love can't be in the same period of love as ever. After the love period, there is the run-in period. If you can't run in, if there is a disagreement, you have to go in a different direction.

    Perhaps, he is too accustomed to you, so he feels dispensable, and the gentle and caring colleague should not forget to give each other a moderate amount of space, so that he has the opportunity to feel how bad his life is when you are not by his side.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Then let's replace it directly, human nature is cheap, and I don't know how to be blessed in the blessing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There's no play, I can't keep it, let him die.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That's when he encountered a trouble, and it would be good to wait for this time to pass.

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