It s really hard to get married, and big brothers and sisters come up with ideas.

Give up Shenzhen and go home! Close to both parents.

When people are old, they need the care of the next generation, especially the spiritual care, so they need to be with the elderly often.

Work, start a business again! In today's society, as long as you are not lazy, you will not starve to death; As long as you are industrious, you can be rich; As long as you have a long-term vision and use more brains, you can achieve a well-off.

What is the point of making some sacrifices for the sake of love?

At present, there is a lot to be done in the rural areas, and the economic growth point has also shifted inland.

You can go home and start a business while waiting for the opportunity to take the civil service exam. Even if you can't pass the test, it's good to have your own career.

Good men are afraid that they won't be able to find food.

If you do want to go home, then don't be afraid to go home and not find a job, there must be a way before the car reaches the mountain.

If you are really worried that you will not be able to find a job when you go home, and you are still blowing, then it is better to break it off.

I advise you not to delay, it will not do any good, it will only increase the trouble for yourself and delay the youth of others.

It depends on your ability, if you can settle everything in Shenzhen, I think she is willing to go to Shenzhen to accompany you, including the settlement of both parents, the girl should not want to be too far away from her parents. If you can't settle down, I suggest you go home, you live a lifetime, how precious is the time you can spend with your family, you can earn any money, your family can't be with you anywhere, I don't think your parents want you to be too far away from them

I'm humble in my opinion.

Personally, I think that men still focus on their careers, and even if you know what you will face when you go home, you should understand that men who do not have a career cannot lift their heads in front of women. However, you can also start your own business when you go home, and returning to your parents is also an option, in a word, "do it yourself". May you find your own happiness!

If you really love her, go back to your hometown. If not, let's develop in Shenzhen.

It's up to you to weigh which is more important.

Although careers are important for men, careers are optional. As long as you are willing to work hard and persevere, there is nothing you can't do.

A life is not long, it is rare to meet someone who loves you, she is willing to marry you when you have nothing to do with your career, you should cherish it, her love for you is based on love rather than other realistic conditions, if you are also willing to give up your job over there and be with her, with your love, work together, I believe you will be happy.

However, if you miss it, when you are successful in your career, can you still meet such a woman who just loves you as a person?

Don't grieve yourself, the value of life is self, and only you know what you like.

Go with the flow friends and good luck.

Go home and start your own business and don't go to work. The countryside is as good as the countryside.

Too many men are faced with this choice, but no one can help you in any way. Only having a good idea yourself is the key. Personally, I think I can go home if I can, firstly for her and secondly for my parents.

My mother is worried, I have been away for a long time, even if my parents don't say it, but I want you to go home. But maybe I'm not right, it's just a little bit of my personal thought.

The way home is not necessarily so unique, you can go to your hometown city to find a job, and you have graduated for 3 years, you have some work experience, you should be able to find a similar job, cherish the opportunity to be with your family, you can be happy with the people you love and the people who love you, cherish it!

If you think your girlfriend is worth making you give up your current job, you choose to marry her, if you don't think it's worth it, don't get married, so as not to have more friction in the future.

Promise her all the conditions first, and go wherever you want to go after getting married.

It's my husband's, how dirty a man's mind is

It mainly depends on what you think, and you can choose which one is more important than the work and her position in your heart.

I suggest you go buy a lottery ticket, I have the same problem as you! Hehe.

Then go home and start your own business.

Do you understand that Fengzi is married, brother

If you don't let go of your sense of honor, you will never be happy, it's not that the man has no mood, it's the man who can't be trusted, you should have already experienced this, and if you don't let you fall to the extent of throwing yourself out, remember that the fairy can be very beautiful but not necessarily the happiest, the height is cold, your values are very debatable, the youth is beautiful and splendid is just a temporary scenery, and then it is still bland, happiness is not how you want to be, It's what kind of value and recognition you can get

You are already thinking that after marriage, you will look down on him because of family reasons and upbringing, and you are afraid of the problems that will arise after marriage. Then why do you have to embarrass yourself and everyone. The reality is not that he will love you for the rest of his life and he will be able to live well.

Unless you are willing to get along with poverty, I don't think there is a woman in society like this now, I hope you can see the reality clearly. Is it for money and love together, or for love.

It's a fuss, people, don't care so much about face, you let him have the ability to go to court and sue you for you. Laughing to death.

Don't give it to him, find a man around you to support you, don't let them bully this kind of person, once there will be a second time, if you don't have the right person, just find me and clean them up for you.

4,000 yuan is not much, so it's better to spend money to buy a stop, but you must give it after completing the divorce certificate, so as not to make it worse before and after.

At the time of admission, the bride is sent under the stage by her father and handed over to the groom (Western-style handover) On the stage, the marriage contract Q&A (Western-style) Exchange rings (Western-style), a glass of wine (Chinese-style), husband and wife worship each other (Chinese-style), the witnesses witness the marriage (Chinese-style), the parents give a speech on stage (Chinese-style), the newlyweds change their words (Chinese-style), and toast together (Chinese-style) to wish the ceremony a successful success.

Some things you don't want can be omitted or simplified.

2 games. Morning in the church, Western-style.

In the afternoon, at home, the Chinese weekly prayer is held. [The traditional Chinese prayer was originally held in the evening.] ]

Notarization of property.

But to put it bluntly, it's your dad's problem, you have to take care of your mom more.

It is very clear that the house is the joint property of the husband and wife, and your parents have half of it, and the property has nothing to do with you.

In addition, you are still young, and your parents are less involved, so with your ability, you can't tell right from wrong, and you can't help yourself.

Even if you don't love it, it's futile to be together! As for the property, hemp... Recently, the law in this area has just been rectified, and your mother has made a down payment of 10w, right!?

Your dad paid it back!?This is a joint property of husband and wife, it is recommended to let your mother take some evidence, and then go to a lawyer's office, find someone who specializes in real estate, and it will be successful!

After reading your story, I also understand your feelings, it seems that you are a little unaccustomed to your husband.

But you think, you're married and have children, don't you want to get married in the future?

Once a woman gets married, there is no way back when she has children, and she will regret it after divorce.

Because I'm an elderly woman, I've seen and heard a lot about this kind of thing, so it's not strange.

First: First of all, we must think about the child, because the child lives in an incomplete family, and her life will have a shadow, that is, when she grows up, if she wants to marry a good one, others will give up because of the divorce of her parents.

Second: After the divorce, others will despise you in a strange way, and third: after the divorce, if you find another love, others will not really love you, unless you have money and power, he will use you.

When you don't have it, he will leave you without thinking.

Fourth: After a divorce, your parents will feel that they can't afford to look up because their children don't give them face.

Fifth: And your husband, at first, he will feel very disappointed, because he is not capable of catching the beautiful wife.

But he can forget everything in a short time and find a wife who really loves him, no matter how ugly.

Because he has very good external conditions.

Sixth: You will be tired of living with a child, and by the time you have an urgent need for his help, he already has another child.

And other women will say: Why are you so annoying, you can go to your husband.

Actually, since you are married, accept your fate, not to mention that the appearance of a man is not very important, the appearance of a man and a woman is logical, and it is possible to accompany each other for a long time, you have to think about it, how many husbands like you are raising mistresses outside, and how many husbands like you have abandoned their families and never returned all night.

So, you have to think more about yourself and your family, and your age is not very young, ask for stability, otherwise you will be tired for a lifetime, please think twice.

Many times it is advisable to think more about how you feel about creating a child, after all, you already have a child. Why don't you get divorced when you don't have children?

Divorced now? Have you ever considered your child's feelings? Since childhood, a crippled family life. Don't have a dad or mom?

Are you so selfish? For the sake of one's own feelings, he does not care about the child's young heart.

From your text, I only see your husband's shortcomings and your strengths.

I know you're angry at this point, probably because he did something he made you angry. That's why you angrily counted him down to dissipate your anger.

I think you should look at your husband fairly and objectively in your life. After all, he is your lover, after all, the father of your children.

It can't be said that it is for the sake of the child to be together again.

But you can't always be with him with resistance, you have to really love him. Stay with him. Then you can be happy.

Think about my words. , I wish you all happiness.

If you don't understand anything, you can ask me again.

If you do make the decision to divorce, then the agreement is not open to litigation. It is not a problem for the daughter to belong to you, and it is not a problem for the property to be according to your request, but you have to beware of the transfer of his property. Of course, it's better to agree, tell him about his advantages, civil servants, high salary, easy to remarry, and also talk about your requirements for property, lest he think you want half.

Although it is said that marriages are free now, there are still a lot of unhappiness, not out of intention, some marriages only after having children, only to find out, not to give up the family, but to fear that the child will not have a complete childhood, and the same father's love.

Life is short for dozens of cold and summer, and it's good to live happily, but how many can really live happily? Ask your own heart, try to live as much as you want, there can be no standard answer in the face of the ancient and modern world problem of marriage.

Landlord, there is no real love in this world, if you really believe in love, you are too naïve; Would you rather nibble on steamed buns than live comfortably and happily and live a carefree life?

Eun read what you wrote very carefully.

At least one point.

An involuntary marriage is unhappy.

If that's what you say.

Your man is truly hateful.

You can also get a divorce.

If you don't get divorced, you probably will never be happy.

It is recommended that you talk to him first.

If you can't get along, you can go to a lawyer to draft a divorce agreement.

As for the reason, you should know better than I am.

I wish you happiness.

I say!!! If you marry, you will marry the gray wolf!! It's true! You'll definitely agree with me!

It is an absolute good man!!

I sympathize with your unhappy marriage and support your determination to divorce him. But judging from what you said, I am afraid that the road of divorce by agreement will not work, and you must sue the court for divorce. The reason for divorce can only be a disagreement of character, so that only an equal score can be divided in the division of property, and you will not get any inclination, because he has not committed any other wrongdoing.

But I'm afraid he won't easily agree to divorce you, and it may take a few rounds and a long time. Now that you have made up your mind to divorce him, you should now consider enumerating a series of manifestations of your incompatibility with his personality, especially a series of irrational and abnormal behaviors, in order to write a divorce complaint and prepare for court presentations. In order to improve the probability of winning, it is recommended that you hire a lawyer with high professional quality to help you fight this lawsuit, although it will increase some costs, but as long as you win, it is worth it.

I hope what I said can provide you with some reference, and I wish you to win this divorce lawsuit! Take care!

Talk to your girlfriend about your hardships, what to do if she doesn't make sense to marry her... Don't. Just look at the money ...

The two of you earn it together for a wedding. Although I am a woman, I despise such a woman. It's not about torturing each other together, it's about giving each other happiness.

You'll say you can't do it without money. It's not that you live for money, it's that reality is too cruel. If you haven't been hungry, how can you know what it's like to be hungry?

If you haven't picked up garbage, how can you know that the garbage is despised by you? A lot of things are easier said than done. It takes a lot of courage to do it.