What should I do if I feel bored living according to the life plan planned by my parents?

Try something new in life, get out of the loop a little bit, and see the world with new eyes.

In real life, many young people will be arranged by their parents to arrange their lives, some will choose to rebel, and some will choose to obey. And if you follow your parents' arrangement, life will be really boring, because you will not have any sense of presence at all.

Be brave enough to try new things, and you'll find that the world is truly wonderful. If you've always been a good baby in the eyes of your parents, be a little rebellious and go to the bar with your friends for a drink; If you've never left your hometown, take a trip that says go.

Do something different from real life, and you will find that there are many interesting things in life, but you have never dared to try.

It really takes a lot of courage to change your current state of life, which you can't do without courage. Maybe when you're bored, your boredom is the motivation to try something new.

Step out of the circle a little bit to see the new world, and then live your life step by step. You are used to this kind of life, and when you are bored, you can go to the world outside the circle, but don't go too far, you always have to come back to this circle.

I'm in this state now, I was put into a factory by my parents after graduating from university, and I've been working in the factory ever since. Later, although I chose the path I wanted to take, this path was still within the arrangement of my parents, which was really boring.

I sometimes go on a trip, to see the outside world alone, but I always set a time for myself, whether I go to **, whether I like it or not, I will definitely come back when the time comes.

No matter how boring your life is, you are used to the life of this circle, it is already difficult for you to adapt to the outside world, just go and see, there is no need to live in another circle.

If you look at the world from a novel perspective, you will find that life is really interesting.

First of all, judge whether your parents' plan is correct and whether it is the most suitable for you, and then see if you have the determination and perseverance to break through your own planning after leaving this plan, and then decide what to do.

A person's life should be lived according to their own plan, even if your parents plan for you is a smooth sailing road, you will be bored and bored if you don't like it, so when you feel bored, it's time to think about what you want to do, it's time to plan your own life path.

Parents often plan for their children how to change their life path, although it is for the sake of their children, but they deprive their children of the right to choose which path to choose. So if you are really wronged, go the way you like, you are an adult, you can be responsible for yourself.

Then live according to your own ideas, if you always follow the path designated by others, you will definitely not be happy, you should stick to your own ideas and work hard to live, in order to achieve happiness.

I think it's okay to live according to your parents' plans first, and then find fun and hobbies that you like.

If you feel bored, you can try to change yourself and live your life the way you like, which will be more meaningful.

If you feel bored, it is better to plan your life according to your own ideas, and always try it before you know which lifestyle is more suitable for you.

I'm a big fan of parents planning for their children. Because children are children after all, they can't see the future road, they don't have deep contact with the society, can not clearly grasp the direction of life, at this time, as a guide parents in the child's way forward is very important, to be a good leader on the child's life path, to help children do a good job in life planning is of course a very important job, but important is important, not important can be arranged, you can force children to do what they are not willing to do, Don't ignore the child's interests and hobbies because of this, just like the thunderbolt mother, has gone to an extreme, completely ignoring any feelings of the child, imposing their own ideas and wishes on the child, only allowing it to move forward according to their own planning area, this practice completely obliterates the child's initiative, but also deprives the child of the right to choose freely, resulting in the emergence of Perak spending money to buy a diploma, which reminds me of a news I heard some time ago, saying that a large number of Chinese students spend money to buy diplomas in the UK, In fact, this kind of problem occurs every year among Chinese students, when we blame those children for not understanding the good intentions of their parents and the hard-earned money of their parents, we also have to reflect on the education concept of today's parents, is there too many parents like Thunderbolt Mother in today's society? When children are forcibly sent abroad to learn what they don't like to learn, but the family forces them to succeed in their studies, so in order to coax their parents, but their learning ability is limited, at this time, they can only take the way to buy a diploma to achieve a contradictory solution, so it is not surprising that international students buy diplomas abroad.

The occurrence of these behaviors has to remind many parents who have dreams of sending their children to study abroad whether their plans for their children are reasonable and forcible to do so.

It's good to have a life plan for your child, but if it's completely arranged, things start to go bad. Children are first and foremost human beings, they need to be respected and understood, they have their own ideas and choices, parents must respect them, on the basis of fully understanding their children, combined with their interests, help them guide them to make appropriate plans, step by step towards a better future. I don't agree with Grandma Perak that children don't need their parents to plan their lives, but I agree with her that "children need emotional attention, that is, they need to pay attention to what children need psychologically".

In fact, the integration of the views of Perak's mother and her grandmother is the educational philosophy that I agree with: to make a life plan for the child based on his emotional needs. In this way, it will not go to extremes, and it will not only give full play to the initiative of the child, but also give full play to the role of the parent's leader.

How to say it I hate the future that my parents have planned for me the most, maybe for my own good. But you may not be able to fly when you are young, and when your wings are old, how can you fly?

Of course not! What's the meaning of the life they plan?

If it is completely in accordance with the development of my parents' life plan for me, then I think I may be a decent office worker now, because my parents are an office worker, and they are very persistent in their belief in having a stable job at that time, even when they are on a blind date, they have to ask each other what kind of job they have, so they feel that having a stable job is a sign that a person is very stable, so they also want me to have a stable job, so they have taught me since I was a child, I want to get into a good university by studying hard, so that I can have a stable jobBut I didn't get what they wanted, because I didn't study very well when I was a child, and after graduating from university, I didn't find a stable job to work. Of course, among their plans, there are also the following life plans for me:

1. Be a soldier

My father has been yearning for the military since he was a child, but at that time, due to the pressure of the family environment, when my father had just graduated from high school, he was arranged by my grandmother to work to make money, so his dream was not realized at all, so my father was very regretful, and he also felt that I should be a soldier, perhaps to find that kind of no regrets from me.

2. Do business

Although my parents had a stable job for a few years, they happened to catch up at that time, everyone went to the sea to do business, and the people who had stable jobs were laid off, so my parents embarked on the road of doing business, and after thinking that I did not have a stable job, they also wanted to help me plan a business.

3. Entrepreneurship

My own ideal is to start a business, because I think that only people who know how to start a business are a winner in life, and my parents are actually more supportive of my idea, so they helped me start a business when I was in my early 30s, and in their planning, they especially wanted me to become a stable entrepreneur, because they thought that risks were terrible.

Now my life will be a people's teacher, teaching children knowledge, and at the same time teaching children to behave in people, but I don't like this kind of life.

I should have become a section-level cadre by now. But I didn't listen to my parents, so I chose to quit my job and start a business. Now the loss is a mess, and I regret it.

is a very happy one, the parents' life plan is just used as a reference, and some things have to be slowly explored by themselves.