Why am I being so him? Why are you so ruthless?

Judging from your description, you love your boyfriend too much, resulting in you can't accept it when you break up, there is love and hate, how to say it, your boyfriend said that he broke up with you, he feels a relief, which shows that when you are in love, he is not happy at all, when he says that except for himself, everyone else is a burden, you can feel that he used to love you too, maybe like you said, you love him too much, your love makes him breathless, and it feels like your love is a burden! Let it go, don't think about it, and summarize it well. Remember that love should give each other free space, and the important thing is to remember that the meal should be 8 points full, in fact, love is only 8 points enough, which is enough to maintain each other's love!

Love and hate usually go hand in hand, you first love him, then he doesn't love him as much as you do, you are unwilling, you hate, and then love more, it is best to adjust yourself, calm yourself, and jump out of that love-hate whirlpool. Know how to enjoy an ordinary life.

I won't say if you love me or not, you must be impossible, even if you get back together, there will be cracks, and you will be the one who will be hurt in the end. So forget it, find a place to travel and travel, and the rest will pass, time will dilute everything, that's how I deal with it, go out for a walk alone, and after a month, although I still miss it, it won't be as strong as before.

A very selfish guy, even his parents have become a burden, is such a thing worthy of your love There are many good men in the world, why bother to give up the entire garden for a rotten apple? You're not a psychiatrist, you can't change him.

Communicate more, it's the most uncomfortable to hide something in your heart without saying it.

From what you recounted, you can see that you still love him.

You have hated because of love.

I love you so much, but you have to push me away.

What changed your original intention, what took away your love?

It's been 36 million hours since I left you, I miss you so much, do you miss me?

I don't believe you don't love me, and I don't believe you're so ruthless.

When I was still in my dreams, it was you who whispered in my ear that you loved me.

I accept your love, try to respond to you, and fall in love with you seriously.

I don't know how long it took for you to lose your enthusiasm for me, and you didn't seem to like it as much as you did at the beginning, I couldn't understand it, I couldn't understand it, I wanted to ask you about it, but you always avoided answering, you always said, you'll know when you know.

That day did come, and a gust of wind blew me away.

I tried to hold on to you, but you turned and left.

With tears in my eyes, I begged the wind not to take you away, but you never turned to look at me.

I'm far away, your shadow is getting smaller and smaller, I love you as before, but you are at the ends of the earth.

The wind stopped, and I also returned to my roots, and the Buddha asked me, from **, to **?

I am a Buddha, I came up from a tree, and I want to go to the sea of suffering.

Self-discipline allows you to meet a better version of yourself.

Clever words are like water. 1. A good figure means that you are self-disciplined in your mouth.

A good temperament indicates that you are self-disciplined in your studies and mind cultivation.

Good popularity indicates that you are self-disciplined in your temper.

A good career shows that you are in time.

Energy, physical strength, and mental strength are self-disciplined in many aspects.

Everything is good for you to be self-disciplined in your awakening.

Self-discipline is the only way to meet a better version of yourself every day.

2. Where does freedom come from? From self-confidence, self-confidence is from self-discipline! Learn to restrain yourself and control your life with a strict schedule, so that you can continue to hone your self-confidence in this self-discipline.

3. I have never believed in any lazy freedom, the freedom I yearn for is a broader life achieved through diligence and hard work, and that kind of freedom is precious and valuable; I believe in the 10,000-hour rule, and I never believe in pie-in-the-sky inspiration and waiting for achievement. Be a free and self-disciplined person, and live seriously with the determination to achieve it.

4. Don't indulge yourself and make excuses for yourself. Be strict with yourself, and over time, self-discipline will become a habit, a way of life, and your personality and wisdom will become more perfect.

5. Self-discipline is a process of self-improvement, in which it is inevitable to experience the pain of giving up, and its degree of intensity is even like facing death. But, as in the nature of death, the old disappears and the new is born.

6. The so-called self-discipline is an important principle to solve the pain of life with a positive and active attitude, which mainly includes four aspects: postponing satisfaction, taking responsibility, respecting facts, and maintaining balance.

7. If you want to indulge in life, you must first learn to be restrained, self-disciplined and restrained, from controlling staying up late to get up early, to controlling appetite and losing weight, to controlling all kinds of unwillingness, jealousy, gain and loss and other inexplicable delusions, all of which are a mature attitude of respecting facts and following reason.

8. The self-conscious person is self-aware; Those who know themselves love themselves;

Self-love self-discipline; Self-discipline is self-respecting;

Self-esteem is self-assured; Self-confidence and self-improvement;

The self-reliant are free; The free are at ease.

9. Self-discipline gives me freedom, and freedom makes me more self-disciplined! ​

10. True freedom is not to do what you want, but to be self-mastered. Self-discipline is freedom. The more self-discipline you have, the more freedom you have; The more self-disciplined you are, the better it is.

11. Self-discipline is to reduce self-discipline, especially young people who lack life experience, they don't know that other discipline is much more cruel than self-discipline.

12. Self-study is self-evident, and arrogant are self-wrong;

Those who are self-disciplined are self-reliant, and those who are conceited are inferior;

Those who are self-conscious are self-reliant, and those who boast are self-reliant.

13. The more self-disciplined, the more free.

14. Some people say that a self-disciplined life is free, and if you want to manage your body well, you can only rely on self-discipline and self-discipline. Remember, every inch of fat on your body is a sign that you have compromised with laziness and life.

15. Extreme self-confidence comes from extreme self-discipline.

People who can be particularly ruthless to themselves are very pursuing people, and such people can easily achieve the goals they want to achieve.

On the contrary, those who do not have requirements for themselves will let themselves go, such people are often difficult to achieve their goals, when the goal can not be achieved, or always ask for it, they will blame the unfair fate, in fact, from the source did not do a good job of self-control.

Seeing a fat man, we can easily associate that he must not be able to control his diet and take his own steps well; Seeing people who are still unable to achieve anything in old age, we can imagine that they are getting by in everything and making ineffective efforts; Seeing a parent who complains that his child does not like to study and refuses to read, we can generally imagine that this parent himself does not like to study and does not like to read......

Therefore, a person who is not ruthless to himself will be more and more ruthless to you in life, and if you enjoy the ease of yourself, you have to enjoy the ruthlessness from the world.

But as you get harder and harder on yourself, you will find that the world is getting kinder and kinder to you.

A person who is ruthless to himself in body will strictly control his diet and actively participate in exercise, so he will return you a good figure, and a good figure is the foundation of a person's self-confidence.

A person who is ruthless to himself at work will have higher and higher work standards, better and better work performance, and leaders will pay more and more attention to it, and the road to the workplace will naturally become smoother and smoother.

A person who requires himself to be ruthless to the family and to the children will ask himself to better maintain the family, and then reap the full motivation from the family.

Why it is said that the harder you work, the luckier you are, in fact, this is also the truth. A person who is ruthless to himself must be a person who works hard, and those who are ruthless to themselves understand this truth, so it will be like this.

I hope everyone can be themselves.

I think it's about making myself better and improving my abilities in all aspects. As we all know, the pressure of employment competition is very great now, and if your ability is not improved, you may be overtaken by others, and you will be surpassed by others. But generally I think these people who are very themselves, they know very well what they want, they have a goal of their own, they will work hard for this goal, and they will pay a lot to achieve this goal.

Let's take fitness as an example, like I have a classmate who is very thin, don't need **. But she really wants to have a good figure, that is, she hopes that there will be a little muscle in the vest line and arms. It's similar to having a good-looking body, rather than being flat, thin and not having a good-looking figure.

Then she used fitness software every day, went for a run every day, and strictly completed it according to some fitness recipes. It's just that there are a lot of plans every day, I really admire it, and I myself am arguing every day, but none of them can be successfully done. Every time, I didn't do it a few times and then gave up.

But seeing my classmate is really effective, she really has a good figure later, and she will not be like the previous form of just skinny.

So I think these people who are cruel to themselves, they have their own ideas, and the reason why they force themselves to work hard and struggle is because they want to become the best version of themselves, they will feel that their current self is not too inadequate, and they will have a lot of dissatisfaction with their abilities. When I was in high school, our teacher said that since you can't die in reading, you should read to death. Although this is a bit exaggerated, sometimes you really have to be yourself to get better results.

And at the end of the day, maybe you will know that it was worth it.