A little lost, why was he so polite to me?

Because of a man's self-esteem, it sounds like your conditions are good in his eyes, at least his conditions can't be compared with yours, he knows what the family will think about this gap, in fact, the combination of two people is a combination of three times, the first time, you and him, the second time, your living habits and his living habits, and the third time, your family and his family. So, with that in mind, he probably knows that you're unlikely, at least he doesn't want to challenge, so he's polite to keep his distance from you. If you really want to be with him, talk to him about it.

However, from your account, it can be seen that his promise may be very small, and I know this very well. So, I can only wish you the best of luck!

If he doesn't like you, he'll definitely ask you for ...... help

Because he doesn't want to be embarrassed in front of the person he likes ...

You have no definite relationship with him ... In front of the person you like, you always want to perform your best, and you don't want the other party to see your shortcomings ......

Girls are meant to be protected, but boys are meant to be adored by their girlfriends!

If you are sick, of course, you can go to him, but if he is sick, you must not come to your ......Because it will leave a bad impression on your mind ... So that's a good thing!!

Complex contradictions in the heart.

You're from Beijing, and he's looking for help from someone out of town like him.

Just because you're from Beijing, in fact, you said it yourself.

It may be that I care more about you, it may be that I am afraid of being looked down upon by you, it may be that I have low self-esteem, or I may be reluctant to trouble you.

Actually, it doesn't have a big impact, whether you continue to be friends or develop further.

He may not want you to help him, helping a man requires conditions, this condition may be your two good friends, or boyfriend and girlfriend, he may be to protect the dignity in front of you. He thinks very highly of you!

It's normal for him to have feelings ......... you

If you like it, you get it, and if you don't like it, you keep the status quo.

Is being polite a bad thing?

Maybe he asks you for help just to find an excuse to reach out to you, to show you his graceful demeanor, in other words, to show you his goodwill.

If he knows you're chasing him, but doesn't mean anything to you, he won't ask you for help. Unless he wants to play ambiguous.

I think it's a natural and polite tone, and it doesn't mean that he doesn't mean anything to you. You're thinking too much. If you like each other, find an opportunity to express it, so as not to regret it.

I'm sorry to trouble girls, don't think about it, it's possible that I'm a boy, a little bit macho, I'm embarrassed to let girls help me.

I'm not very familiar with you, right?,Or you think you're familiar with people.,But people still keep friends with you.,Don't think about it.,You have to say it clearly.。。。

It may also be that he likes you, or it may be that he thinks you are a person who treats you in a polite way. Because there are many kinds of relationships between people, they don't necessarily like you if they are polite to you. So if you want to know, you'll have to test it and see how he reacts.

Of course, the temptation should be strong and methodical, and it should not hurt the harmony and friendship.

Two possibilities.

One is to like you, it goes without saying.

The other is that you are a relatively quiet girl, so it is impossible for the other party to be very aggressive with you.

Well, I like it, I'm afraid of losing, I'm afraid of making mistakes, so I forget about being excellent.

I'm a man, so I'm sure he likes you.

I like you! Do you also care about each other! Otherwise, I wouldn't have asked such a question! So what does he do to other boys! Isn't it different! ......

That's what I do with the girls I like.

He should also like you, but he has concerns, maybe his parents are strict and he can't let go of loving you.

Maybe you're acting too proactively. It will feel unnatural. Or maybe he's still thinking about it and doesn't want to develop at this time.

Maybe he likes you, maybe he's trying his best to hide, get along for a while, see what kind of reaction he has back, don't be too anxious, give each other a little more time.

I'm a boy, my girlfriend and I were in a similar situation to you at the beginning, and now we are very happy, I just want to tell you that persistence is victory, and we will definitely be together if we have fate!

LZ can be assured to love, one thing is certain, at least he is not to you as well as to anyone else.

1. Speak the scene, not the truth.

2. Be courteous.

3 Make a courtesy gesture and be humble.

1.Be polite and humble to people.

2.Say kind words.

I guess you keep talking about him. I feel like a child who makes mistakes, and I have a sense of distance from you. In fact, boys can't talk about it all the time, and if they talk too much, they may feel inferior.

I think that since you love him, you have to accept his shortcomings, of course, you can let him correct them, but you have to grasp the way well, and encourage him a lot.

He's stressed with you. You should learn to be gentle. He's a bit machismo, and it's a good thing that a man spends money for you and doesn't let you spend money for him.

Try to spend as little money as possible for him, and in the future he will get used to using you as an ATM ......You always beat him, try not to hit him, cool him! It would feel better to let him reflexively chase you!!

I'm having the same issue and I'm wondering what happened to you guys.

Maybe he feels that the feeling between you has changed, and he no longer thinks about you and me all the time like when he was in love. Maybe he's so polite to you because he doesn't want to hurt you, and he's trying to sort out his feelings. At this time, you shouldn't chase him so hard anymore.

You might as well play less**. The mood is higher when he hits **, so that he can feel the warmth from you when he is unhappy. But don't nag too much, aren't we the same when we face our mothers?

If you talk too much, you will get annoyed. Let him see a big girl who is considerate and sensible, knows how to advance and retreat.

When you have something to say, you might as well write an e-mail to him. This is more clear and easy to solve problems.

All in all, maybe his enthusiasm has passed. So you can't hold him to the same standards as when you're in love. Be tolerant, there is nothing "should".

My boyfriend is like this, he loves to be silent, and if he is suddenly polite, it means that he is angry! His temperament has advantages and disadvantages over time. It's all about how you get along.

I feel that when the boy first fell in love, he thought you chirped very cute, and after a long time, you really looked at it as a family, and always liked to say a few words when you saw something wrong, but he was unhappy. He thinks you're not the same as you used to be, not so cute, and always says he's bad or something. If you put yourself in his shoes, you imagine what you say to him as what he says to you, and you know what he thinks.

Be considerate. People are just that person. If you have something to say and say something, he will listen.

Well. It is difficult for others to guess what people think, otherwise there will be no unpredictable person, what you care about and what he thinks is nothing more than wanting to know if he still loves you, so if he still loves you, then what is the reason for this1Because of self-esteem or other reasons, it leads to guilt about you, or disapproval of yourself, after all, because of the ancient ideological cleansing, men will have psychological pressure to use women's money or goods, especially if someone has pointed out or has strong self-esteem.

2.Of course, this is just a speculation, and it is possible that after he took your phone bill, he has already understood that he wants you not to do this, unless you two break up, then in this case there are only two things that can be done, one is to alienate, and the other is to write down the psychology and return later, of course, it is also possible to say it.

3.Because you take too much care of him and he can't stand your love and the burden is too great, so estranged 4It's purely sudden, and it doesn't make much sense.

5.In a certain book, I saw that lovers should also say thank you and so on, and I felt that it made sense, so I took action.

A man is like that, if you rely on him, he will not step on you, if you ignore him, he will rely on you, and you can't bear not to give him a **, don't just get it, don't always scold him, men, they all love face. To use your gentleness to influence him and let him know that you are good, I think your boyfriend should not like savage things very much, so you should be docile and pretend to be pitiful who wouldn't, right? Also, since you know that he loves you and you love him, don't be suspicious, the most important thing in love is trust.

You make it clear to him, say that you care about him, say that you love him, you will complain that he always ignores you, and sometimes you take a step back and open the sky. Also, I think it's better for men to have a calm personality, you also learn to change your bad temper, get along well, believe him, don't break up in anger for a polite word, it's not worth it. I've always said thank you to my boyfriend or something, and that's the bare minimum of courtesy.

In the last sentence, if he is still so indifferent and doesn't care about you, you will be divided, don't hang yourself on a tree.

She respects you, she is more self-contained, politeness is a 5,000-year-old cultural tradition in China, you think too much.

This is a kind of reserve and face problem for girls. Deliberately emphasize what is needed and what is missing. Quite simply, she wants you"Delete"This kind of use"Please"The intent.

Use "please" to say that she is polite, if she says, "You bring me something." "Do you feel like she's telling you and resist a little?

It's really hard to be a human being!

By the way, holding hands does not necessarily mean accepting you (times are different), and you better try to confess.

He wants to keep the image of a good lady in your heart, understand, show that she cares about you.

So what kind of girl is she? Gentleness or kindness or something else?

The answer is yes, it's a lot of worry, and these girls are like that.

Or maybe she has the heart to keep a certain distance from you, so you might as well give her some more time.

I also like to say"Please"with"Is it good or not"

Can you please help me? "

You're so stupid! I don't care if I find a good girl!

As long as you confess, it's okay, the situation between me and her seems to be oh.

Don't think that you can get his heart by doing a little favor! Women are not for chasing, they are for care. I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, falling in love is not a rehearsal, I love when I say I love.

To take your time, take care of him first, and wait for a period of time to slowly become cold to him, a woman is a word "cheap"! In the days when you were good to him, he might pretend not to care about you, but if you are cold to him again, he should not be able to stand himself coming to you!!

But you must be patient, especially if you have a husband.

Haha, don't think too much about it, it's enough to really love someone and say I love you.

It seems that she is a very polite girl, and she is very respectful of you.

Let's show your ladylike demeanor.

People are polite people, and there is no way, it can't be.

Agree with everyone! It's a blessing to find a well-mannered girl!!

It's normal.

I sometimes say thank you to my husband.

It would make him feel respected.

Objection to the claim of the 8th floor.