Why am I reluctant to give my feelings? I ve never been in love

Phobia in love.

Symptoms of rejection phobia are manifested in such people. Unconfident, introverted, sensitive. They don't believe they have the ability to get what they want.

That's why they will retreat. It's not so much that you're afraid of being hurt as it's that you're afraid of being hurt.

All you have to do is build up your confidence, not just watch from a distance, that you can be the lead actor or the director. Tell yourself, I don't want to be a clown, I want to be a director, I want to be a protagonist

I didn't say that you have to fall in love, but it also depends on your feelings, for love, it will come when it comes, don't force it, go with the flow

It's just that for such a situation, it's psychologically pathological! I don't mean anything else! Thank you for your understanding

You are unwilling to pay because you haven't met excellent, you haven't met someone you like very much, and the boy who likes you is the feeling of others, and of course you are not willing to pay if you don't feel good about others.

This one is very simple, just because you haven't met the man you really like yet. If you meet someone you like, then your previous thoughts are gone. For men who don't have a good feeling or don't have feelings, they will definitely choose to escape.

Oh......Maybe you're the one to be a great artist!

Haha, because most great people love only themselves. Like Leonardo da Vinci Actually, it's because you haven't met a better boy than you.

So I think you're going to make them sad, or you're more aggrieved with them or something.

Mama's emotional affairs, let it be

Why do you feel wronged? Isn't it nice to have a boy chasing after you as a girl? It's not that you don't want to pay, it's because your every move has a good impression among the boys who like you, and they have that unique love for you.

Love does have to be paid, as long as it depends on whether the effort is worth it. Don't think that you will be wronged by agreeing to a boy, this kind of thinking is very strange, you should try to accept that boy, of course, you still have to approve of it yourself.

First of all, you must understand that love is not necessary to fall in love, don't regard love as your own task baggage, it is at most a product of natural nature Deliberately looking for early love but can never find its existence, do you pay feelings in line with what you want? Are you still willing to pay if it doesn't match?

Actually, this is not good, you have to cherish the people in front of you.

Maybe I didn't meet the right person.

It's not that you don't want to love, it's not that you don't want to love, I'm afraid that love is also a kind of harm...

You must be a person with a story

Then you want to associate with a few people so that you don't feel wronged.

At the beginning of a relationship, I am always willing to give, because at the beginning, I will feel that my efforts are worth it, and I will also feel that the other party is very important to me. But maybe after a period of time, I feel that I don't like the other party so much, so if the other party always lets me have those contributions, I am not willing to accept it.

In fact, everyone is like this, that is to say, when facing some things or a kind of feeling, they will be willing to give a little more at the beginning, because they will think that it is normal, so there will be no rejection.

But as time goes on, you will find that you will ask for more things, and you will want more things, for example, at the beginning you feel that you can do things for the other party, and slowly, you will find that you are not willing to do it for the other party, on the contrary, you expect the other party to make such things for you.

If that's the case, after a while, you'll find that this kind of love can make a person really feel that physically and mentally exhausted. In other words, the longer you are in a relationship in this case, the greater the problem between the two people, so it is impossible to be happy in the end.

So at this time, it depends on whether the other party will be willing to pay for himself, if the other party has become accustomed to this kind of feeling later, so he is willing to pay for himself, then basically he will still be nostalgic for this kind of love.

But if in the end, the other party is still unwilling to change, or always waiting to accept their love, then basically this kind of relationship will be quickly abandoned, because love itself needs to be given to each other.

Therefore, it is not just one person who can continue to give, real love requires two people to give to each other, and to make each other feel love, so that the relationship between two people can be better, so that each other can go to the end.

In fact, not only boys will have such a situation, but also many girls, who were willing to pay for each other at the beginning, but as the relationship between the two became longer, they became more and more unwilling to pay. And once one party in a relationship does not give, the relationship will be unbalanced, and various problems will arise。Next, I will talk about what those who are unwilling to give in the end of their relationship think.

First, they don't get equal returns. There are indeed many people's feelings that are unequal from the beginning, not all feelings are two-way running, two feelings are happy, there are many feelings are only one person to pay, this kind of feelings at the beginning of everyone will be more energetic, and will want to influence each other through their own efforts, after all, in everyone's subconscious will feel that people's hearts are flesh and blood, as long as they persist long enough, the other party will definitely like themselves. But as the time together becomes longer, at first I will voluntarily pay but I will feel unwilling in the future, and I will slowly have some complaints, and I no longer have hope for this relationship, so I am naturally unwilling to pay.

Second, they are tired of their other half. The reason why everyone is willing to give in a relationship is because they have each other in their hearts, so they are willing to do whatever they do. But the two people are together for longer and longer, and various problems will follow, the relationship has long been gone, and they are tired of the other half, and they are unwilling to pay anymore.

Third, they want to give up the relationship. Once we all have the idea of giving up, our attitude towards the other half will definitely deteriorate, because we already have a way out and will think about breaking up, since we are going to break up, we will definitely not be as good to the other half as when we are in love, and in the end, not only will we not pay in this relationship, but we may also deliberately make each other angry, just to make the relationship between the two people worse, so that there is a reasonable reason to break up.

Capricorn is the kind of person who is particularly self-respecting, they always feel that they are all right and the other party is wrong, and in love they are selfish and only want to be cared for and loved, but do not give.

Cancer, Cancer attaches great importance to feelings, hoping to get each other's return while paying, the concept of love is very extreme, and it needs to be balanced in love, if you don't get the same return, then in love, it will become difficult to get along.

I think everyone in love will give, because the interests are two-sided, and only in this way will there be a good result, but there is still no constellation that is only willing to get something that is not willing to give.

I think if you really love someone, you don't care about paying, you don't care how much you get, if you are only willing to get and not willing to give, this kind of love does not exist.

I think that in love, selfishness only wants to be cared for and loved, but does not give, maybe it can be for a while, but if you want to last for a long time, this kind of love will definitely not work.

Sometimes giving is in return, and some people give without expecting anything in return. So for different payment goals, some people don't care about the gains and losses, and the original intention is to pay for each other, which is also the most trustworthy and reliable choice. And some people are just the opposite, and they will be very careful about everything they give.

I think if he is not willing to give in love, then they are not true love, so this kind of person does not deserve love.

Personally, I think that they only want to get in love and don't want to give, which may not be a problem of the zodiac sign, it should be their own personality defects, and they can't take love well.

I don't think it's a constellation problem, selfishness may be a problem of education, relatively speaking, I think people who are only willing to get will not have people who are only willing to give, and human nature still wants to give back.

The tiger is a capricious bully, they do not speak of basic character, in the sense that they also like each other on the one hand, let them be workers in their own work, without good sweet love.

Doing so will end up going back to the other side of their own and giving them the idea of breaking up countless timesSo the Tiger should understand some gentleness, the interests of the other side and pay more attention. The Tiger is a self-righteous person in love, thinking that the other party must be by his side, he is the most charming person, so he only knows how to enjoy the efforts of others, not his own.

Over time, the other party will feel that the tiger does not love them, they will waver, and the relationship between the two will be in danger of trustmachine, therefore, in love, but also a little modest, respectful, and more considerate of the other party is the best. Since they are insecure when they fall in love, they want others to love them more, they want them to have only one in their world, and they want to be well taken care of. So the boy has a strong sense of dependence, but he forgets his salary.

Love is given to each other, don't always get it. No matter what the other person does, it's the look of loveEspecially the Tiger people, so even if they are in love, they are too lazy to pay for each other, and just want to blindly ask for each other's love. If the other party can wait and see.

It is the behavior of the Tiger people who are really harmful, and the people will be tired, who want to get the love of each other. You never know, the two will go their separate ways.

Unwilling to give hungry love is not long-lasting, of course, any relationship needs to be painstakingly managed by each other.

I think that in love, those who are only willing to get but are not willing to give are the zodiac dragons, and they are more self-conscious.

Dragons generally do this, they are more concerned about themselves and are generally concerned about others.

Falling in love is two-sided, and it is easy to have contradictions if you are only willing to get and are unwilling to pay such a relationship unequally.

That's because this relationship is inappropriate, if she has a good impression of you, she won't ask you to pay, she will pay for herself, and the relationship is both parties.

It depends on the position of the two parties in love, if a guy loves a girl very much, he will definitely give everything for her.

Some people don't care about gains and losses, they mean to pay for each other, and it is also the most trustworthy and reliable choice. And some people are just the opposite, and they will be very careful about everything they give.