Can our love be the best match for reality? Let s talk about it

Love is an existence that transcends reality ...

It's not good for a person to be too realistic about love.

If you really like him, you'll worry so much, ah.

Is it that he is not firm, or is he subconsciously dissatisfied with this boyfriend?

I suggest that you don't have to be the right person in love. It's good to love each other.

You also said that he is the kind of man who has a very husband.

Good for you. I think you erase others just because they are not in good condition. It's irrational. It's hard to find such a good man.!

The point is that you also have a good relationship.

If you really can't live in reality yourself, and your family is against it, then break up calmly.

Truth be told, it's really too powerful.

Hehe, bless you.

Then stick to it, I believe that there will be loyal love, which can overcome the cruelty of reality.

If you love him, let it go.

Don't put pressure on yourself.

This society is real, but we are also real.

Nothing is impossible.

As long as you have faith, there is nothing that cannot be done.

It mainly depends on what you want most.

It's just a choice, the sovereignty is in your hands.

There are a lot of people who are facing this kind of problem right now.

In fact, it depends on fate, everything follows fate.

But you still have to rely on your own efforts.

In short, the place of first love in your heart is indelible.

A lifetime of memories.

But realistically, we have to take into account: First of all, your boyfriend is a graduate student studying physical education, and to be honest, I don't know what kind of work I want to do after graduation.

For now, if you are willing to let go of this relationship, then you should separate as soon as possible, save yourself more and more tired, and if you are reluctant, you will stick to the end, in fact, you are already lucky, at least you can see each other often in a city.

After all, it's not easy to hold hands, so don't say break up easily.

I just want to say something you don't like to hear. It's just not enough to stand up to reality!

I'm now, basically the same as you say, except I'm a boy!

My parents wouldn't agree, I tried...

But it depends on how determined you are ... But you have to think about it. YOUR FUTURE ... And how to live. What are the odds!!

Actually, you already know the answer. I just don't want to face it! This is the same as I am ...

In fact, in the end, the result is still the same!!

Don't think about anything.

Looking at the way you look, you also know that you are very realistic.

Go with him 88.

Otherwise, you will all suffer.

I think you know from what you say that you are biased towards reality. Even if you don't break up and get married now, you will feel that you have lost and married when you are nurtured by your family, so you look down on his family and even him. And men have a strong self-esteem and will think you are vain.

This is the hidden danger of husband and wife quarrels.

But if you love him very much, accept it, because people's birth is not something they can decide, and everyone wants to be born in a rich family.

Fate can be changed, it depends on the efforts of the day after tomorrow, and you have to believe in him. There are many self-made people, and the money of the rich is also earned back by hard work.

The most unrealistic thing is not his current family environment and economic conditions.

The most unrealistic thing is that he is still a student, and he has to wait three years, compared to three years, even if it is three days, the change is unimaginable. For yourself and for your parents, there's nothing wrong with being realistic, everyone wants to be comfortable.

Since you're hesitating, it means that you still have a lot of leeway, so be friends.

No beat! Reality is unforgiving!

You're so right, no matter how deep your feelings are, you can't beat reality. It's just that people live to be happy, and if you are determined to be happy with him, then go on.

Why emotions can't compete with reality, I think this question, we must first know what feelings are and what is reality.

Whether it is love or marriage, it must be based on feelings, which are love at first sight, two loves, three views coincide, and so on. To put it bluntly, feelings require two people to have feelings before they can be affectionate. And this kind of relationship does not need to consider too many external factors, as long as each other's three views are in agreement, there are feelings, and they can tolerate each other's shortcomings.

That is, we often say that feelings are a matter of two people.

So what is reality? Feelings are things that can only be completed by integrating with each other's relatives and friends.

1.Money is a problem.

There is an economic foundation to ensure the emotional foundation, no matter how good the relationship between two people is, it will eventually fall into food, clothing, housing and transportation, if the other party has no money, you may endure it for a while, but you will not endure it for a lifetime. Poor couples mourn everything, and if they have to pay carefully for money every day, no matter how good their emotions are, they will be consumed little by little. Therefore, the most practical problem in marriage is to have a sufficient material foundation, because this is the guarantee of the emotional foundation.

2.Problems with both families.

Marriage is not only about living a good life for two people, but also getting along with each other's family members, if the other party's family is sympathetic and easy to contact, it is good to say, but once there are contradictions and problems here, there is an estrangement between each other, it is very annoying and a problem that affects life. For example, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

3.A problem for two people.

What marriage needs is understanding and tolerance, but if the other party really has a problem in the realization and you are powerless to change, will you tolerate it again and again at this time? This is often going to be difficult. So in marriage, a good relationship is to grow and encourage each other, and Kai He is not one person dragging the other person away, otherwise the other person will be too tired and too hard.

From this, we can conclude that feelings can actually be as long as two people get along, that is to say, there is only love in the relationship. But the reality is to face a lot of problems, and these problems, in addition to love, there are family and friendship, how to deal with the relationship between the three, is the focus of real marriage, but it is really difficult to deal with it.

That's why, in the end, a lot of feelings are lost to reality.

My opinion is that love is a bubble, no matter how many years two people have been together, when facing reality, they can't stand the test at all.

No, reality is cruel, and a lot of love can't compete with reality, and it can't stand the test of reality at all.

My opinion is that 8 years of love can withstand the reality of regret, as long as the two people work together. Be firm with each other, no matter what kind of difficulties you encounter, what kind of setbacks, and how cruel the reality is, both of you can get through it.

I think it's okay because two people have been together for 8 years, which is a long time, so it's hard to beat.

I don't think so. After 8 years of love, you have no freshness to each other, and there will be no future between you.

The enemy is not able to deal with reality, and practical problems are very important, and we should consider some realistic things in everything we do.

My opinion is that it is no match for reality, and no matter how long you have been in love, you can't change it. On the contrary, the feelings between two people will be worn out by reality.

The love of secular barriers, given up in helplessness.

Selfless letting go.

Maybe it's fulfillment.

He has perfected himself, and he has perfected him.

Heart-rending pain...

There will be new love. The new him.

Someday... Don't smile.

Purse your lips and smile. I'm not alone.

The love of the world.

Hand in hand in a difficult situation.

Long pain.

But there are two hands to bear it together.

Someday... Hand in hand.

Watch the sunset together. There are no regrets in this life.

Every kind of life. There will be a different ending because of the choice... Love and reality.

It's not a contradictory relationship. It's just your choice and there is a different love. A different reality.

In the final analysis.. Our pain and love will precipitate because of time. So don't ask how many people can laugh and don't blush...

It can all change depending on the choice? When the precipitation has passed. It's all a passing day.

If there is still no way to do it in the end, we should look at this problem with an open-minded state of life. Bless her.

There may not be many people who smile goodbye.

But there are many people who are obsessed with being famous.

Love is beautiful, but reality is cruel.

If you let go, it is a surrender to life;

If you join hands, how much pain do you face?

One by one, the choices are placed in front of you.

Don't smile and don't blush, that's all there is to it.

In the face of reality, love is a toy.

When you get tired of playing, you let go and disappear in a hurry.

If there is affection, it will eventually become a family, but it is just a good creation.

Since you truly love each other, you should overcome all the difficulties.

As long as it's sincere, nothing can stump you, right?

There is a song called The wolf falls in love with the sheep, and true love can pass through the walls of the world.

A hundred years of life, if you really love it, go for it. It's a big deal to accompany her for a lifetime.