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This kind of girl has thundered you! I'm also an introverted college boy with few words.,Last semester, an extroverted girl in our college also took the initiative to chase me.,I can't accept that way.,She's good-looking.,But I just don't like the girl of her kind of character.,I've always liked quiet lady-type girls since I was a child.,If you don't like her, you have to be cold to her.,She naturally knows what you mean....
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Then please accept her ......
The girl seems to be outgoing, but she is actually afraid of being hurt inside, and if you refuse her, it will hurt her ......I believe you must be a very good boy ......
Introverted boys are actually very popular with girls' ......
Don't be afraid, there are many women chasing men in this era......
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First of all, is it chasing you? Already confessed? Or are they already together?
If not, I can tell you responsibly, women chasing men, compartment yarn.
Don't feel too good about yourself, be careful that you're self-inflicted!
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Because for that girl, chasing you down is a great success.
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You are introverted. Are you willing to give her everything you have? I think you must want to keep something for so long, you must want to keep it for the person you like, and you can't bear to give it to her like this?
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If you like it, just take it
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If you like it, you will accept it.
If you don't like it, you refuse.
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That's how much a woman like that! You can only play and not take it seriously!
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What would an introvert be like when you were courting a girl? In fact, in love, introverts are often not good at expressing their feelings, so they are slow to confess. So if a guy likes a girl, he must be very enthusiastic, right?
Because introverts, the common idea is that boys will be a little shyer. If a guy is particularly good to a girl, he will feel that he is good.
1. Don't dare to take the initiative to attack.
Many introverted boys will feel that it is okay to be alone. When pursuing girls, I always find all kinds of reasons to shirk and dare not confess.
If you meet a girl you like, they will become very proactive. So after meeting the girl you like, you must express your love more.
2. There is no common topic.
Because introverts are relatively weak in terms of speaking and expression, when a guy and a girl have a good conversation, they will feel that the relationship between the two people is particularly good. But if an introvert and a girl don't have a common topic, they will feel that they don't have anything in common. Because when you talk a lot, there's really no topic of conversation between you.
So they will feel that two people are not happy together! So why don't the two of you share the same topic? In fact, it is because you have not found a common topic that suits each other's age, temperament, and hobbies.
3. Not very interested in some things.
Introverts are actually more introverted about the things they like because they feel like someone very much. So they will be slower to heat up the things they like in life. Therefore, introverts are more willing to make some good friends in life.
And most of those good friends will tell them about their lives or what they like to do, thinking that this can make their lives more interesting. Introverts are also not interested in what they like, they don't put their interests too high. On the contrary, these words will make them appear better.
4. Be cautious about feelings.
In fact, an introvert is very unlikely to fall in love, because they are not so sensitive to feelings. So they are also very cautious about their feelings. Maybe a relationship seems relatively ordinary to them, but for them it is a very happy thing.
So be cautious with this kind of friend! Don't just promise a girl once. Sell rough rounds and don't be ambiguous with each other when you are in love, because many things can't be hidden from each other.
This requires you to be wholeheartedly devoted to her, and take care of her meticulously, the reason why this kind of girl does not want to fall in love is nothing more than the fear that the boy will not give her the sense of security and dependence she wants, so if you can meet these conditions, you can easily catch up with them.
Don't close yourself, give yourself a little more self-confidence, from now on communicate with people more, chat, laugh more, you can also joke with people appropriately, play games together, actively participate in group activities, over time, get used to communicating with others, get used to nature, and slowly become cheerful.
It shouldn't be a joke. If you don't give a number, you don't want to be harassed, but if you give QQ, you will have face, and you can ignore you when you are in QQ, so it's no fun! I gave me my number and QQ back then, but in the end it didn't work. Give up, get a good job, there will be good girls.
I think your current state is a normal state, because you didn't have pressure before, you didn't have baggage, as you grow older, you gradually realize the responsibility on your shoulders, and your phenomenon is not autism, but you have learned to hide yourself.
Everyone has their own personality, which is like buying drinks, some buying sweet, some buying bitter sweet, some buying light ......Your personality is the sum of your characteristics and appearance, and these are what set you apart from others. The clothes you wear, the lines on your face, the tone of your voice, your thoughts, the qualities you develop from those thoughts, all these things make up your personality. >>>More