Why is it so hard to love someone??

Look how you love.

If you love someone too much, you will be led by her nose, like being hit by a magic wand, and you can't be yourself at all. From then on, you don't have your own thoughts, you don't have your own joys, sorrows, and sorrows, you take her as the center, and when you follow her, you are the whole world; When you can't be with her, the world is her.

If you love someone too much, she will endure her unprincipledly, and slowly, she will get used to this kind of indulgence, ignore your contribution to her, and even think that you are very annoying, too impersonal, and even begin to despise, neglect, and disrespect you.

Love someone too much, and she will get used to your kindness to her, and forget that she should also give, and forget that you also need the same amount in return - she is completely spoiled by you.

Don't think that if you love each other ten, she will love you ten, love is unreasonable. So a lot of times, love is not equal. Don't love a person who loves and forgets himself, that wholehearted love should only appear in **, this society is less and less welcoming to desperate love, give her space to breathe, and leave yourself a room.

It's beautiful when it's going on, but when she's gone, how do you clean up the mess? With so much investment, can you face that heavy loss?

Therefore, don't love someone to ten points, eight points is enough, and the remaining two points are used to love yourself.

Wishing you happiness!

Loving someone is a process.

Only after hard work can there be sweetness.

Isn't that what life is all about?

If you don't give, just reap, then you won't get so much pleasure.

It's painful to love someone, and it's even more painful if the person I love doesn't love me.

Why is it so hard? Let's talk about it to help you.

Because love is a dinner party, and whoever pays pays for it.

Is it hard? Actually, it's still sweet.

In fact, love is the same, very hard.

But because some people give it, it shows right away.

But some people give very little in return, and some people even say that it doesn't pay off.

That's true, but that's love, and you're willing to give, infinitely, and maybe it will be rewarded.

The persistence of love depends on yourself, and it depends on whether you have the confidence to persevere.