If you want to go abroad for emotional problems, please help, thank you

Actually, I don't think it's necessary to say it, because even if you say it, I don't think it makes any sense, please forgive me for speaking bluntly, because I broke up with my boyfriend because he went abroad, and we broke up three months later, because after he left, he lived in his specific environment, and please don't believe that love can resist the test of distance. This is p words, so I think you are still very young, you should look forward, I believe that after you enter the university, your views will slowly change, and you will find that there are more and better boys worthy of your appreciation, believe me!

Yes, you won't regret it when you think about it in the future.

Wouldn't it be nice if he had a crush on you too?

It doesn't matter if he's not interesting to you, he's going abroad anyway.

Ask yourself if you love him very much, if you really become, whether you go abroad with him or with him, it is not pleasant to be separated, and it is so far away

Yes, right? It's up to your values.

If you are together, it is a long-distance run of love.

Maybe he replied to you on purpose.

As long as you take the initiative to try again where no one is around, you'll know.

Do you think it makes sense to go directly to him and make it clear that you can pay if you can There is no need to be together There is no need to be together to meet together for a long time, but I feel bored to go and talk to him directly! Support you! Top it.

Then both refused, landlord, let me say so, what about your friend, look at this, look at that, it's not that he doesn't want to hurt anyone, but he thinks both are good, so he hesitates.

Otherwise, don't have any of them. Otherwise, hurry up and agree to one.

So the landlord, she wants both of them, so it has nothing to do with the injury, but I'm afraid that it's good to follow this, and I'm afraid that it's good to follow this. I admire her a lot, and I can like 2 people at the same time.

Love is not a choice, it is a feeling, it is not a decision to make for fear of hurting someone, the key is whether you love or not, in fact, there is no harm at all No matter who you are not with, that person is just a lovelorn It is also a part of growing up Besides, loving someone is that she can be happy If it is just to get a romantic scene with someone In fact, he only loves himself So love what I love Tell your friends In fact, you don't have to be entangled Let your friends recognize what love is Tell those two people Love is not to have It is to watch the person you love happy OK come on, I wish you and your friends a lifetime of happiness.

The problem of feelings, you can't take into account who you will hurt and who you won't hurt, you can choose whoever you like, and if you don't like it, you will give up. If a person takes care of everyone's feelings, he can only make himself suffer, and in the end, he will still hurt others!

She is afraid that both of them will be hurt, and if it drags on like this, it will be three people who will be hurt, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and the longer the relationship drags on, the more hurt she will suffer. Let's fix it quickly.

If the two of me want it together, kill two birds with one stone, and have the best of all three worlds.

Follow your own heart, whoever you like is whoever you like, and the other one will understand.

Pick the second one, and if you really like the first one, you won't hesitate.

I think first of all, you should think clearly about whether your boyfriend is a person worthy of your life, and secondly, you should communicate with your parents well, figure out the real reason why your parents disagree, and prescribe the right medicine, you must not hurt your parents for your boyfriend, you will regret it later! I believe that your parents are all for your own good, and only your parents will stand by your side when the time comes!

Determine your own attitude and then solve the problem of things!

Talk to your boyfriend about it, if he can solve this problem, then he deserves to be with you for the rest of his life, and if he is not willing to solve it or gives up easily, then there is nothing to say. I'm sure he'll work hard with you! In the future, you will have to face many problems together, and this is just one of them, so talk to him and see how best to solve them!

The seven-year itch.

Is your family idle, he has no ability or no money? Like me, my boyfriend and I have been with me for 5 years, and my family is also idle and he has no money.

Seriously, if you are more realistic, pursue material things in the future, and respect your parents, then you break up, but, I personally think that if you break up, you will regret it, don't break it up, if there are any difficulties in the future that cannot be solved by 2 people together, I believe that the 2 of you will create your own wealth in the future instead of relying on your family.

Keep at it and your family will understand you. I persevered.

It's easy to say, but it's hard to say.

After careful analysis, there are two options, the first is not to listen to the family, with the boyfriend. Second, end up with your boyfriend and listen to the family.

Isn't there a way to get the best of both worlds? It's all nonsense to say.

You won't do what I say, I can only say that if it's me, go by my own feelings, after all, it's not your parents who will go with you all your life.

First of all, find out why your family is so strongly opposed to it, whether it's a quality problem or a material problem.

Only by understanding this can we prescribe the right medicine.

The reason for the unchangeable cannot be said yet, just ask anonymously by changing the number.

It's a tricky one, and I think you should try to show your friendly side to your family, because your parents are kind to you, don't take a drastic approach, just remember that they're good for you.

First of all, it is necessary to find out whether the contradictions between you and the people in your family cannot be reconciled, second, whether you have the confidence to tide over the difficulties together, and finally make some efforts to change your attitude. Let time tell. Bless you all.

You're just making his presence your own, aren't you? You have to know whether you like him or not in your heart.

It's so depressed Girls really can't be too reserved, too much to make men anxious, and the result will be like this.

He is now giving up very resolutely, it seems unlikely, but definitely not just because he gave up, it is very likely that he has a new goal and transfers his feelings to another person, so this is the case for you.

I suggest you dress yourself up and go to him or ask him out in person, this is the only effective way, even if you call him ** may not be useful. If you really want to redeem and cherish this feeling, do it.

If you learn that he has a new object, you should be silent.

I think he'll definitely want to continue with you.

It should be, right?? But he may not be sincere, but when you pay attention to it, you'll find out.

It's better to ask if he likes it, if you really like it, tell him that if you like it, you have to be brave enough to say it, don't guess.

I think the best way is to be honest with each other, and it's better for two people to be honest

There is a possibility 、、、

Relationship problems, since you are sure that you also like him. Why not show your heart. Why not chase him?

Well, you're right in both of them, but the angles and arguments are different; Everyone's pay will never be equal to the return, don't be too perfect in everything, otherwise you will regret the injury in the end, and it will be very hard to live, why bother! There is an old Chinese saying that it is rare to be confused, especially when it comes to emotional matters, the more you think about it, the faster you lose! Buddhism has a wise saying:

Love to the depths without complaints, love to the depths close to the Buddha's heart; Hehe, these two sentences contain the true meaning of love!

You're really, so naïve.

Except for relatives who are related by blood, no one works hard for no reason to be good to you. Why? Only by paying, can there be gain. Reciprocating the efforts of others is the greatest respect for each other.

Because I love you, I'm willing to do anything for you." Such people are brainless, stupid, and prone to make mistakes.

I think your things can be said in two aspects, first of all, your understanding of feelings is different, because you are a girl, he is a boy, girls are always emotional, boys are always rational. On the other hand, since you love each other, you are willing to pay for each other, and the other party can empathize with your situation, I think you are very happy. Love is a kind of spiritual sustenance, and on the other hand, it is also an emotional transaction from a realistic point of view.

Finally, you have to tell the boys: girls are cute when they are simple

In fact, I don't think it's anything, you don't necessarily get what you give, but you pay, he repays you, others pay, he doesn't necessarily reciprocate, that proves that he still loves you, it's just that your understanding is different, so you don't need to worry about some things, just know the result, that's your love for each other, it's just that the love you understand is not the same, so don't think too much, work hard to do your best.

The man can understand, a lot of things outside are to be calculated, otherwise how to support the family, this habit is really not a good phenomenon to bring to the home, but there is no way to do it, either to tolerate him, or slowly change his thoughts, it really can't be saved, I won't talk about the result, I hope you can handle it well.

Actually, I think you're right, but maybe men don't think so, the problem is in his opinion.

Your behavior seems to some people to be too spoiled, have you ever thought about changing it and making him feel your importance before talking to him? If you really can't stand it, I suggest you find someone who is like-minded with you as soon as possible, and this is not the way to go.

The theme is not obvious enough.

I don't know what you're talking about.

What does an 18-year-old girl know, common sense, if you have a daughter who is 18 years old in the future, can you rest assured that she will be handed over to another man? Love her so much you wait to see.

It's mainly up to her to convince her parents, all you can do is see if you can move her parents with sincerity!

Strive for his family's understanding.

You're right, you care about her too much, whether you're dating, or living together, you can't hold on too tightly, you have to give her a little space, sometimes love also needs distance, it's too close, it's not okay if it's too far, so those families who live well are those who have a good grasp of distance.

I've only heard that women treat men in this way, and there are really very few people like you, sometimes you don't think too much, you just have to think: how much she loves you, and besides, what is best between you is to spread out and talk about it, say everyone's thoughts, and tolerate each other, so that you can live a stable life.

Use love to melt those misunderstandings and those wounds, so that you all believe in love.

Maybe you often have awkward fights between you, that's why she wants to find someone to talk to!! It just so happens that her classmate should be the kind that is more sweet talking, and girls like others to coax her and tease her when they are unhappy! I don't know how to say it, I think I should give her a chance, after all, I don't want to give up the feelings I have paid!

You two have a good talk, ask her what she likes about you, and everyone sit down and make it clear! If you want to be together, let's live a good life!

Don't waste yourself again! Good girls have! Don't miss her! When you find the right one, you'll find out how ridiculous you are now!

Blessing and blessing!!

Dude: I can see you haven't been in a relationship much.

I'll give you a trick, it's very simple, talk to that guy alone, and everything will be solved immediately, and you're like this, you're just thinking too much, and I'm telling you very seriously, the more you think about it, the more you'll think that they've slept or something.

Don't think about it, it's right to act quickly.