The relationship between the husband and wife is very troubled and needs everyone s help

I think it's still your husband's bad character, since I have children, I think I can endure it, after all, two people are together to live, and if you can live this day, try to live it, even if it is for the sake of the children. It's really not good, or it's dead, it's okay to leave him and find your own happiness, it depends on how the landlord chooses.

Actually, my husband is doing the same to me now. It's boring. But we've gone through more than 10 springs and autumns, and your child is still young.

You're still young, and sometimes it's not necessarily good to give too much. Of course, this varies from person to person. I certainly don't want you to be my second.

I sincerely wish you happiness in your life. Make up your own mind.

He thinks you're a bully, are you financially independent? Otherwise, if he throws his son to go out to work on his own, the man will not be much nicer to the woman as soon as he thinks that the woman should rely on him.

This situation is really annoying, and I think you should be honest with him about your thoughts, say what you really think, and of course you should talk about it

When there is a problem in the marriage, you first need to be calm, don't be in a hurry, and don't have a cold war or a big fight. The first thing is to check your own reasons to see if it is your own problem or the other person's problem. If it is your own reason, then you have to change yourself, if it is the other party's reason, then you must give tolerance and understanding, when the two people are in a good mood, find an appropriate time and appropriate occasion, sit down and communicate calmly, I Ching master Jiang Boquan thinks:

As long as both husband and wife are sincere, it is completely possible to solve the problem through high-quality communication. In addition, it may also be caused by numerological factors, which is necessary to find the root of the disease through numerology**, listen carefully to the guidance of fortune tellers, and most of them can be well improved. I sincerely hope that mine will inspire or help you!

Summary. My dear, the teacher saw your problem, the teacher expressed sympathy, and the teacher has also come into contact with many cases<>

<> summer is coming, pay attention to heat prevention, mild marital conflicts can be resolved by more reflection, mutual respect and mutual understanding between husband and wife; If the conflict between husband and wife is more serious, it is necessary to go to a regular hospital to find a psychologist for enlightenment. Each spouse has the obligation to consciously share, help and fulfill the needs of the other, and does not have the right to demand that the other meet his own needs according to his own expectations and to be the judge of the other's behavior.

How to solve the problems in the relationship between husband and wife.

My dear, the teacher saw your problem, the teacher expressed sympathy, and the teacher has also come into contact with many cases<>

<> summer is coming, pay attention to heat prevention, mild marital conflicts can be resolved by more reflection, mutual respect and mutual understanding between husband and wife; If the conflict between husband and wife is more serious, it is necessary to go to a regular hospital to find a psychologist for enlightenment. Each spouse has the obligation to consciously share, help and fulfill the needs of the other, and does not have the right to demand that the other meet his own needs according to his own expectations and to be the judge of the other's behavior.

Quarreled with his wife, she doesn't want to come back now.

Then we can choose to redeem it.

It needs to be redeemed for the amount of information.

Now I can't listen to anything I talk to her and get a divorce.

That's just a problem with the way it was handled.

No problem. I will assist you in recovery.

Do you see the need.

What's the best way to do it.

Need to be specific to your amount of information.

I'll do the plan.

It just takes time.

I can make a plan if you need it.

Secondary attraction. Second redemption.

What a program. Scheme of secondary attraction.

The teacher suggested that you can choose this**.

I will be there for you for 2 hours.

Because you're running out of inquiries.

Summary. Hello, good evening. If there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, the first thing we have to do is to face this problem.

Hello, good evening. If there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife, the first thing we have to do is to face this problem.

You can feel that you care about the relationship between husband and wife, and you want to take the initiative to fix the problem.

Can you tell us more about what problems you have as a husband and wife?

I used to quarrel a lot, but now my wife doesn't want to go home and get a divorce.

She told me that there is no common language.

It sounds like your problems have accumulated over the years, and every time you quarrel, you are hurting each other's feelings, and you haven't done a good job of communication and emotional glue during this period.

I used to quarrel a lot, but what were the reasons for the quarrels?

She was busy with work and had to come back late every day, and the children at home could not be taken care of.

It sounds like the two people don't agree on the division of labor in the family.

What about your working status?

However, the teacher is also a woman, so from a woman's point of view, if you are very busy at work and come home late, and then there is no one to take care of the child, in fact, as a mother, there are feelings of guilt and self-blame in your heart.

At this time, if my husband doesn't see my hard work, and because I can't balance my career and family, I feel that if I don't take care of my family, I will feel a little aggrieved and sad.

My work evenings are mostly at home.

Do you think she should work less and take care of her children more?

That's what I thought in my heart.

Being able to understand your thoughts, both husband and wife are working and will inevitably neglect to take care of their children.

So the thoughts in your heart may be unconsciously presented in your daily communication, and at this time, well, as a woman, your wife will definitely be hurt.

After all, she's not playing outside, she's working. And from what you describe, she's still working hard. At this time, I have to face the blame from my husband, and I may not be understood.

Maybe she also has her career plans. At this time, if you can't sit down and communicate well, it will be easy to cause conflicts.

She never talked much when we quarreled, and I rarely learned about her work before, and I usually didn't communicate much.

Women are sometimes like this, when they feel that they are not understood, and then they feel that you have not understood her, and you say something to her, she may also give up explaining.

After a lot of times, maybe the disappointment accumulates more and more in my heart, and I don't want to talk about it.

Summary. Don't say that two people are not suitable at every turn, and question your original choice at every turn, marriage is also a practice, which requires two people to continue to learn, work hard and operate. There is something to say in person.

We must pay attention to the way we speak, and we should pay more attention to the skills of the two people, say something out, don't hold it in our hearts, each other's resentment has been piled up in our hearts for a long time, and if we can't vent it well, there will inevitably be a day of outbreak.

Hello, I am Mr. Liu, an emotional counselor, who is good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology and other aspects. I can feel that you are very confused now, and if it is convenient, I will tell me in detail about your specific situation

There are several points to solve the emotional problems of husband and wife: 1. Timely and effective communication 2. Treat each other sincerely and trust each other 3.

Don't say that two people are not suitable at every turn, and question your original choice at every turn, marriage is also a practice, which requires two people to continue to learn, work hard and operate. There is something to say in person. We must pay attention to the way we say Minli's words, and we should pay more attention to the skills of the two people, say something out, don't hold it in your heart, the resentment of each other has been piled up in our hearts for a long time, and if we can't vent it well, it is bound to break out on the day of the outbreak.