A boyfriend with such a strong ambition should not be divided.

Updated on workplace 2024-05-08
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't be sad, I have the same experience as you, and my husband is also such a person, but he is happier than us. Sometimes you don't care about the return for your efforts, and from our point of view, why he doesn't care about me is actually more one-sided. But your boyfriend doesn't have a plan for you, and my husband has planned everything for our whole life.

    Actually, I also feel quite tired on this point, and every step has to be done according to his plan. But I think I'm much better at regulating it than you, because I'm going to have fun in my own way. Think about it, if he had to focus on you every day, you would feel more tired, and it would be great to have more time in your own space because you can do the things you love.

    In fact, everyone has a vulnerable side and a depressed side, and I feel as if you have lost the opportunity to vent it. Accommodating is actually a virtue, but when your little universe is about to explode, it will explode, or you will blow yourself up. When patience reaches a certain limit, tell him aloud that I am not satisfied with you, that I am not satisfied with you ...

    Then I thought about it quietly, and I found that I was not satisfied and I still liked him. So I accepted, I was used to him. Sometimes I don't take it seriously, but more often I think about his strengths.

    There are many times when I have my own space, and I don't want to be disturbed by others when I do my own things, even if my husband can't think of him when I'm focused on my own things.

    We started to get along, I would learn more about the games he liked to play and play with him, but later I found out that it wasn't what I liked, so I simply didn't play it. I've found a game I like again, isn't that the simplest truth!

    In short, what I want to tell you is that it is not a good thing to be too delicate in feelings, so that you can make a little thicker, and you will not be too tired to love like you don't love, and everyone in today's society is under great pressure to be happy together, and if you even have to stress your feelings, it is really incredible. Find your own preferences, don't pay too much attention to him, and get along easily. Career, feelings, are the spice of life, don't think too much, don't suppress, every day is the most important thing, be clear, come on, we will succeedy(0)y, be happy every day, feel yourself, hurt yourself, is really cheering!!

    Oh hehe...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're a good girl, he doesn't know how to cherish you.

    He cares too much about himself, a successful man, in addition to caring about his career, his family must also occupy a certain position.

    Now he is chasing fame and fortune too much, because he is still young, he thinks he still has a lot of opportunities. As everyone knows, after experiencing all the fame and fortune and returning to peace, I suddenly found that I had already lost the most precious person.

    You can open up a broader world for yourself, and there will definitely be someone who knows how to cherish you and believe in yourself.

    Family may be more important to women than careers, because women chase their lives, and in the end they only seek a belonging.

    I hope that the landlord can think about his future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You still have to think carefully before you break up, although your boyfriend is obviously not emotionally invested enough, does not value your efforts well, and considers you from your standpoint.

    But let's give each other a little time, say a month, two months, three months, put forward your conditions, such as how do you want him to do it, if he is willing to give in then then consider being together, if he still agrees to break up, I'm afraid you have to be decisive, stick to it, or leave.

    If you really leave, don't be too sad, it's not that you're bad, but the other party doesn't know how to cherish it, why don't you try to find someone who cherishes you? Or love yourself well ...

    If you really want to stick to it, you have to adapt.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Who knows if it's a party or a fool?

    But you don't have to worry about that. If you love Him, believe Him. But if he loves you.

    I don't think so. At least it won't make you sad. I even came to the above to find the answer.

    Right, no. It is also often played in movies. There are a lot of busy people.

    The key is that no matter how busy you are, they will care about you. Right, no. Busy, at least one message can be sent to you.

    Don't worry you. I think so. You can't be deceived by your work career as an excuse.

    Whether he loves you or not, I think only you know best. Because it's you who get along with him. Aren't women very attentive? See for yourself. Don't be deceived by feelings.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If he understands you after the two of you have a good talk, it means that he still loves you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The personality is different, no way.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A career-minded boyfriend will make you feel wronged from time to time.

    A career-minded boyfriend will make you feel like he doesn't love you.

    Of course, not all career-minded men will be like this, and some men still have relatively high emotional intelligence. Knowing that careers are heavy, girlfriends' emotions are also very important, and they are usually able to do both career and love well. On holidays, even if you are busy with work, you will try your best to give your girlfriend a gift or a blessing.

    When I accompany my girlfriend, of course, I will also give her sweet moments, and I will not only care about career things such as customers and bosses.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a very bad experience, because the boyfriend is very ambitious, so the boyfriend is often busy with his career in normal times and rarely has time to spend with himself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you have such a boyfriend, life may not become happy, because he is only busy with work, rarely cares about your feelings, and will ignore you, resulting in you being very insecure and very scared in your heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's a really sad experience because your boyfriend is only focused on his career and doesn't care about your existence or your life at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't, at least the original intention of his efforts is to give you a better life, if he really accompanies you all day long, you have to worry that your financial ability cannot meet your requirements, you can take the initiative to ask him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's important to break up, because your boyfriend's strong ambition shows that he is self-motivated, and you will live happily ever after.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't break up, make him better so that you two can be better together. After that, you will be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think we shouldn't break up, but we should give each other more understanding and tolerance, and only such a couple can go on better, otherwise there will be more conflicts with whomever you are with.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe there are some things that he can't take care of you, if he really loves you and will take care of your emotions, if he never cares about your emotions, it means that he doesn't love you at all and decisively proposes to break up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have a very ambitious boyfriend who often can't take care of you, but she's not going to come over when you need it most? If he often doesn't take care of you, but he will still come over when you need it most, I think that's good for him, and he works hard to make your life better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This should not break up, you should be his virtuous helper, always care about him, and support him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. It is very normal for different people to have different specific situations and different plans for the future.

    Everyone has their own specific situation, and different people have different circumstances.

    Therefore, everyone's plan for their future will be in line with their own situation and different from others' ......This is a very normal situation. ......Even if it is between lovers, it is completely normal for each other to have different plans for their future. ......From this point of view, you can't break up just because you and your boyfriend have different plans for the future.

    2. Different from boyfriend planning, it can be solved through communication.

    If you have a difference of opinion with your boyfriend, you can communicate and resolve it.

    Although I have my own ideas about future planning, this is not the final decision......You can negotiate and communicate with your boyfriend so that you can reach an agreement and make the best choice. ......At the same time, both parties can also help each other to plan better for the future, which will be more beneficial to each other.

    Therefore, not having the same plan for the future as your boyfriend is not a reason to break up.

    3. The difference in career development planning does not affect love and life.

    If the two parties only have different career development plans, it will not affect love and life.

    Career development is a ...... thing in the field of workEach of us is different in the workplace, so it's normal to make your own plan in the field ......of career development and make that plan differently from your boyfriendThis does not affect the love and life of both parties, let alone break up because of this.

    4. If you have a long-distance relationship because of your different plans, you need to deal with this problem rationally.

    I and my boyfriend have different plans for the future, and there is a situation where both parties may break up.

    Specifically, if the two parties have different plans for their future and cause a long-distance relationship, then there is a possibility ......that the two parties will break upIn the state of long-distance relationship, it is difficult to meet each other, which will seriously affect the relationship between the two parties, and after a long time, they may break up because of weak feelings.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    is in the rising period of his career, to encourage him, believe in him, support him, do his big rear, but also improve yourself, after all, with a better career can give you a better quality of life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In this case, you have to support him more, because men are busy with their careers for their future families, so they must have more support, so that they can be happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. Yes, love will also become nothing, so be yourself and accept all the results.

    My boyfriend is very ambitious and motivated, what should I do if I feel pressured?

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while and you can do your own thing.

    To say that I don't understand him enough, to say that I am not from the same world, to say that it is not appropriate, to avoid me, to cold war, to escape.

    That's because he doesn't like you anymore.

    We've been together for three years, and I usually love to nag, care about him, and hit **.

    Just do your best, and don't care about anything else.

    Yes, love will also become nothing, so be yourself and accept all the results.

    What if I don't care enough about him.

    Usually do you want to care about him, call**, text message.

    Why do you have to care about him, why doesn't he care about you? Men and women are equal, so he should be superior to you?

    I want to be together, I care more about him, I think he is too tired from work and the scum is cracked, I help him wash his feet when things touch me, he doesn't care about anything at home, I clean up inside and out, but he can't see it, he was not like this before, but this year is like this.

    So he doesn't like you anymore, or he has a split.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course not, when a man really succeeds in his career, you are already old, and he may not choose you at that time, so don't waste your youth on the whole person who needs you all the time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This depends on your thoughts, if you like this man very much, the man is very ambitious, it is worth waiting, then just wait, if this person is not worth waiting, then there is no need to wait.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you should wait, because only after your boyfriend's career is successful, the two of you get married, your life will be more stable, the economic conditions will be better, and there will be no pressure in all aspects of having children.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You shouldn't wait, because your boyfriend's career may not improve for a long time, and you have to waste your time, which is very unfair.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You shouldn't wait, because your youth is also very valuable, don't waste your youth waiting for an expectation with little recovery.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, you shouldn't wait for someone's youth to be really short, and when he has a successful career, he may not marry you, maybe his vision is higher, so it's not necessary.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it should. Because this is the protection of one's lover, and it is also one's goal in life, to make life better for yourself and your family.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course, it shouldn't wait, because no one knows exactly when the boyfriend will have his own career, which is completely unknown.

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