How do you deal with the relationship I have given for two years? I hope you can give me a better an

Updated on society 2024-05-26
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you can be together, you can be together, if you can't be together, let go, just have feelings, don't care too much about paying.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Relationship problems are hard to talk about!! I don't know you two very well, it's hard to say!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't mind her past, you can take advantage of it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've been in this situation before, and then they broke up and stayed with me for a while and said goodbye.

    You don't care about her past, you can take advantage of it.

    But do you have to confirm whether you love her, or do you want to pay off your feelings for the past two years?

    Dude, it's better to think clearly, otherwise you will harm others and yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The feeling of unequal giving and responding is often present in life.

    Keep a calm attitude, because giving and responding cannot be equal, only relatively equal.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no emotional reciprocal.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My feelings are like a glass of wine. The first person touched it, and half of it was left. I lifted the cup up, filled it up, and left it for the second person.

    He spilled again. I still picked it up, filled it up, and left it for the third person. The feelings are getting weaker and weaker, but each of them has obtained my whole, all, a glass of wine.

    Fortunately or unfortunately: she still believes in feelings, and love.

    Anonymous many times, inadvertently knowing some things, pretending to be indifferent on the surface, and hiding it with a smile, in fact, it hurts more than anything else in my heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The floral fragrance naturally attracts bees. The one who left. It's not weird. Find the reason yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have given a sincere and emotional amount to someone, and of course you want to be reciprocated.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because he loves her more than she loves her, he also hopes that the other party will love him like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Quite normal. If there is a request, there will be a give.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You love him very much and I was very touched after watching it.

    And you want to do something for him, because you feel like he's down because of you.

    I support your approach, but it doesn't mean that you want to influence your own future.

    You can do your best to help him in addition to studying.

    You have to persuade him to repeat it, and if he insists on not going, you don't have to embarrass yourself too much.

    You don't blame yourself either, in the same relationship, no one affects anyone, no one delays anyone's youth, and if you do well in the exam, you don't waste your youth? The best understanding is that his parents think they are superior to you. Who can say that he didn't delay your youth, it's just that he didn't do well in the exam, so you all think you're sorry for him, no, it's your own factors that you didn't do well Why did you do well in the exam?

    Are you not fully involved in love? No.

    You can tell him, "I feel so sorry for you, and I hope you'll repeat it, and fulfill your family's wishes, so that we can have a chance to be together in the future."

    You also have to work hard, as you said, you are not as good as him, his family looks down on you, and what you can make his family look up to you is to try to make yourself excellent.

    Don't think about the future, he will give up on you in the future, and you can't control it, your love is very innocent, very pure, and you haven't experienced society, don't give up, but if he wavers in his feelings for you and gives up on you, don't blame yourself, give up on him, you don't owe him anything, you did what you had to do.

    But the premise of all this is that you have to treat yourself well and make yourself good, otherwise you will lose the qualification of this relationship.

    I'm not against financial help, but the important thing is that you can convince him to repeat it so that you can have peace of mind.

    Mine is a mess, I hope it helps you, hehe, I wish you a good day.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can't do that!

    Feelings are a matter of two people, what do you mean if you take everything on yourself?

    If he is really affectionate and righteous, he can be responsible. Naturally, they will fight to the best of their ability, and they will not leave you alone like this.

    If he is not a responsible person, how can you have a future?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Things to come. Who could have predicted that? No one could have predicted it.

    It's man-made, it's possible that he falls in love with someone else after college, it's possible that you stick to each other forever, if you like him, then persuade him to go to an ordinary school, what's the use of repeating, he has wasted a year, it's very likely that another year will be wasted, do you feel sorry for him? If you feel it, help him well, and believe that you can have a good future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I read it very seriously!! After reading it, I felt very entangled.

    In fact, everything should not be taken by yourself, failing the exam is a very subjective problem, his family's economy is so good, repeating is certain, and I believe that the economy is by no means a problem. Like you said, you have to do a summer job to earn money or take out a loan for him to repeat his education, I personally think it is unrealistic, have you ever wondered if his parents will agree? I believe that it is opposed, so everything you do is useless, speaking of loans, for an average family, it is a bit difficult to work and earn money to pay off within a few years after graduation, and you will know in the first year or two after you graduate and work, society is really not an ordinary reality.

    If ..If ..If you think your love is on top of that, hahaha!! Then you do what you want, bless you!!

    Actually, I don't know what I'm talking about.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can see that you love him very much, but you have to think about this kind of thing, it's not a small thing, it's also about your future, if you feel that your relationship is very, very strong, then do it, if not, then let him stay the same.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Why is her mom so targeted at you Is there something wrong with you that she doesn't feel happy with?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After reading what you wrote carefully, I think it is similar to me Anyway, no matter what, you are not wrong You don't need to blame yourself He will definitely repeat it But you can't give him financial support now You work to support him just to comfort the guilt in your heart You feel sorry for him In fact, it's really unnecessary You can try to write a letter to his parents to express your feelings He is at a low point now You can't abandon him As for the anger to make money, it's not necessary to let his parents understand you It's okay to work hard in college Sometimes go to see him People will always encounter some brain-wrenching things in their lives, and everyone is just going to get through it, and I believe that you will have good results, and he can also be admitted to your city, and you can still be together, don't give up, and think about everything that is good, and I believe that you will be happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think he's a person worthy of your liking, he won't be with you again in the future, he'll be a person who spends his heart when he has money, don't want him anymore.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because love is unattainable, you can't get rid of it when it comes, and you ask for it when it doesn't come.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm also in a relationship for more than two years, it was ended a few days ago, I don't blame her, I still love her, I haven't looked for her since the day I broke up, I want to wait a week to redeem it, I guess there is no hope, because she thought about it for a long time before she said the breakup. These days are too tormenting for me, every day I think of the time together, I hope to hurry up to the weekend, and talk to her again, I really just want to hold her hand from the heart to the ancient rarity. A person doesn't dare to sleep in the room, it's all her, I don't want to eat, we have emotional problems, then we can solve the problem together, why do you unilaterally think about it and feel that it can't be solved and make up your mind to break up.

    Since we all love each other, don't you know how painful and uncomfortable I will be? Even if we break up, I only have love and no hate for you. Ay.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you encounter a relationship that has to end, although it is difficult to accept, it will become a reality. If you can't change the reality, you can only change yourself, throw away the unbearable past, and regroup to start a new life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Alas, you can't explain the emotional matter, you can choose if you think it's right.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The next one will be better! You deserve better!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let him pass in the past, if it is not his own, he will not be happy no matter how he asks for it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You're kind of funny!

    Feelings are originally a matter of two people, not that you must be grateful to you if you give the other party.

    No matter how much you give, people don't appreciate it, which means that your contribution is completely meaningless.

    Blame, you can only blame yourself for being too stupid and naïve.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you break up, don't bother thinking about it anymore. Start a new love life, and you can always find someone who loves you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Forget it. When the fate is over, whether you give her a mountain of gold or silver, she thinks it is a volcano, and in the end, no matter how much you pour out your heart and lungs for her, it is actually in vain. With the new her, it's easier to forget the current her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The old does not go, the new does not come.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Heavenly reason can never control emotional matters, just as you can't force yourself to be happy or unhappy, you can't force yourself to love or not to love someone. If you can't even force yourself, how can you force another person to love or not love you?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Turnip greens have their own love, you can't escape, it's not that you can't force it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You still have feelings for her, and you are a lot of reluctance.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not necessarily, there are more times of division and merger, the problems encountered have not been solved, and the feelings will fade away after a long time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Try to put it down slowly. Give yourself something early and get busy.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Because you still love her, you haven't let go.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's a bit shameful to be unwilling to hate, and maybe a little nostalgic.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I still have him in my heart, and if I can't let go, I'll chase him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Love her. Why do you hate her so much?

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