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I think there are the following situations where the most perfect products are advertised, the most perfect person in the eulogy, the most perfect love in **, the most perfect marriage in the dream. It's relatively easy to fall in love with someone, but it's hard to get along with someone. When these four situations arise in your relationship, it shows that you are not a good fit at all.
Pay unequallyLove is like spring. The harder you try, the easier it is to distance yourself from yourself. Therefore, in love and marriage, there must be a certain limit to loving someone.
Only by persisting in the right efforts can you reap the best love. If a person gives too much in love, it will become cheap, and the other partner will take your giving for granted. When love falls into dust, rather than playing games with each other like oak trees, love tends to get out of balance and become a decision for one to leave.
Mutual distrustIt is not the blandness that overcomes love, but mutual distrust. Trust is a prerequisite for two people to be together. If they no longer trust each other, then the relationship cannot continue.
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship compared to being fit and like-minded. A good partnership should trust each other, not restrict each other's freedom, and not abuse one's own freedom and cherish.
Lack of communicationWhen two people get along, it is impossible to be calm all the time. Inevitably, there will be some bumps. The more important it is, the more it cares about the words and deeds of the other party, and the slightest perfunctory will be like a thunderstorm.
is angry, just because the other party doesn't understand, so he is silent, the cold war does not stop, he is sad, and he pushes the other party farther and farther away. Osho said, "Love is unconditional giving.
It's like planting a bouquet of roses, watering them every day, guarding them every hour, not being afraid of the thorns of roses, not getting tired of the monotony of roses. Until one day, the roses finally bloom and become more attractive to each other.
Don't think about the other personDon't think that the other party is the sworn enemy of love. Since you choose to be together, you are no longer alone, and you are responsible for each other when you choose each other. Before doing anything, you should think about everything for the other person and think from the perspective of others.
Because of love, we begin to know how to give and think about love. The greatness of love lies in the fact that it allows one person to learn to grow and two people to become better. The above is only my personal opinion.
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Yes, how big a marriage is, whether it is suitable or not depends on whether both parties can tolerate each other's shortcomings. Quarrels are inevitable, but most of the quarrels for life are unbearable, and if you can't even live, how can you get married.
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If the couple is not suitable, then a lot of problems arise.
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It's always a three-day quarrel, or don't get married.
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Two people with very strong personalities are not suitable.
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If there is always a quarrel between couples.
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Two people have disagreements about certain values.
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There are several kinds of problems that arise between couples that are not suitable for marriage:1Couples often quarrel with each other, and the number of quarrels is increasing, and even one of the parties has a slight mental illness, then the relationship is no longer suitable for marriage.
2.There is often a cold war between couples, and the cold war is getting longer and longer, then this relationship is no longer suitable for marriage. 3.
Couples often quarrel over trivial matters, and this relationship is no longer suitable for marriage. ...If there are any of the above problems between couples, it is not suitable for marriage. The relationship between lovers needs two people to operate together, as long as there is a problem with the relationship between two people, it means that there is a problem with the relationship between two people, if there is no problem with the relationship between two people, then it means that there is a problem between two people, as long as the problem between two people is solved, then the relationship between two people will become better and better, so if there is a problem between lovers, it means that there is a problem with the relationship between two people, as long as the problem of two people is solved, the relationship between two people will become better and better, Therefore, if there is a problem between two people, it means that there is a problem in the relationship between two people.
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Everyone's views and understandings of marriage are different, which has caused some people to be happy and some people to be unhappy, love is a person's business, marriage is a two-person business, but a happy marriage is run by two people, so many people want to know, whether two people are suitable for marriage, what are the main ones?
1 Whether the three views are consistent.
The three views are not that you like to read, he doesn't like it, it's different interests and hobbies, if you say when you are reading: What are the books good, and you waste a lot of money to buy them, it's better to buy game equipment, this is the difference between the three views, he thinks that reading books is a very boring thing for Yu Shenzhu, and it's not even him playing games, so can you live happily with him! Therefore, the three views are very important, only if the three views of the two are the same, and everything is wanted to be together, then there will be a common topic, and they will be willing to share with each other, so before the two get married, we must see if the three views of the two are the same.
2 The two are comfortable together.
There are individuals who love each other more, they are very careful in front of each other, that is, the love is too humble, such feelings will not be happy even if they are married, the relationship must be based on equality, two people will feel attractive, they will be willing to get along with each other, only two people feel very comfortable together will go further, so you can fall in love unrequited, marriage is not good, marriage two is to live every day, only two people are very comfortable when they are together to marry can be happy for a lifetime.
3 Same values.
Two people only have the same values together, so they will not quarrel because of a trivial matter, for example, I buy a dress for 1000, and I wear it with a special temperament, but when you get home, you tell your husband, and when your husband hears that it is so expensive, he must be very angry and say: As long as the clothes can be worn, can it? You have to buy such an expensive one, in his eyes, the temperament is not as good as money, so the two of you will definitely quarrel because of this little thing, two people have different values, so when facing things, the approach is different, two people with different values can only understand each other and change for each other, but it depends on the feelings of the two people, and the filial piety is not suitable for marriage with different values.
Marriage is a matter of two families, to see whether two people are suitable for marriage, mainly to see whether the three views are the same, whether there are the same values, these two points are very important, so that the two will not feel tired together.
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Marriage is happy, and each of us pursues a happy marriage. However, in the process of discussing marriage, couples may be affected and restricted by various factors, which will affect the marriage. ......For example, some couples will break up unhappily because of the bride price.
The reason why this situation occurs is that if the bride price issue is not resolved, it will not be possible to get married, because the bride price problem will affect the relationship between the two parties will inevitably lead to unhappy breakups, and some couples will be forced to break up because they cannot afford the bride price.
1. If the issue of bride price cannot be resolved, couples cannot get married.
For a marriage, the issue of bride price is a very real problem. If this aspect is not properly resolved, the parties will certainly not be able to get married. ......Therefore, if there is a disagreement on the issue of the bride price, and the two parties cannot reach a certain agreement, the couple will definitely not be able to get married.
2. If the relationship between the couple is affected because of the bride price, the two parties will inevitably break up.
For couples, the most important factor in maintaining a relationship with each other is the relationship between each other. Only when the feelings of both parties are harmonious can they continue to enhance their feelings and finally enter the palace of marriage. ......If there is a problem between the two parties in the process of discussing marriage because of the bride price, the relationship between each other will be affected, and the final result will inevitably be that both parties break up, which is a kind of harm to either party.
3. Some couples will be forced to break up because they can't afford the bride price.
When a couple talks about marriage, the woman will ask the man to take a certain amount of bride price. ......For some people, they will not be able to get so much bride price because of their limited financial conditions. At this time, if the woman insists, there is no room for maneuver in this issue, and the result is that the two people may be forced to break up because of this.
Such a situation may be detrimental to the couple, but it can be in reality. ......Therefore, couples who truly love each other should maintain good communication and coordination on the issue of bride price, and fully consider the actual situation of each other, so that they can harvest perfect love, and both parties can get married and live a happy life from now on.
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If the relationship between the couple is not very stable, there is no need to get married, and if the relationship between the couple is not very stable, even if the marriage is not good.
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If the relationship between the couple is not very stable, it is better not to get married, because the feeling is not very stable will affect the happiness in the future, and it is best to get married after the relationship is stable, so that you will be happy.
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It is better not to get married if the relationship between couples is not stable. Because marriage is different from falling in love, you need to take on more responsibilities after marriage, and getting married when the relationship is unstable is likely to lead to a quick divorce, which will hurt people even more.
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If you find that it is not very stable, you can't get married at this time, otherwise it will further intensify the conflict between the two and lead to irreparable proportions.
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There is no need to get married, if the relationship between two people is unstable, it will not be good for both of them after marriage, so you should think about it before getting married.
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There is no need to get married. If you get married rashly when the relationship is unstable, then you will also have a lot of conflicts after marriage. Marriage is a very sacred and important matter, so it is necessary to get married only when the relationship between the two parties has reached a certain foundation.
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If you don't need to get married, at least after the relationship is stabilized, let's talk about marriage, if you take the liberty of getting married, it is likely that you will not be able to get by.
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