Why do boys like to play games and how can they quit?

You can introduce him to the Linhai Forum to visit the forum; p,Actually,Boys of this age who don't play games are relatively stupid.,Just like me.,I never play :$ View original post".

My brother has a marriage that is envied and blessed by his friends, and one of the most important reasons is that husband and wife play games side by side! originally met in the game, communicated in the game, admired each other's literary talent and thinking in the game, and then developed into a real marriage.

But at the moment neither of them is playing, because there are no good games on the market that are worth spending money and effort on. In this case, the two people have less common language. Gaming isn't a bad thing.

At the very least, the men who play the game don't cause much trouble. Compared with those men who go in and out of KTV, bars, chess and card rooms, and hotel rooms every day, don't you think it's more reliable? View the original post

It's hard to quit, and it doesn't seem necessary to quit completely, it's okay to have one or two personal preferences that aren't harmful, it's better than going out to drink and sing and prostitute every day. The best thing to do is to let him not have time to play, I also like to play games, but since I have an extra job, playing games is also a very luxury for me View original post

If you can get him to quit his internet addiction, you can definitely become a psychology expert. View the original post

As for why a man likes to play games so much? That was the result of a rough upbringing of parents. Or rather, the result of problem education. I expect to correct it when I grow up, this is difficult, and it is difficult to go to the sky. So, if you think you can't stand it, it's still 88. View the original post

Reasons why boys are addicted to gaming.

1. Release pressure.

Life is full of stress, and you have to juggle all kinds of complex situations and relationships.

, you must control your emotions and not hit others with anger at will.

The more these pressures accumulate, the more necessary it is to release them. So the game has become a big release of stress.

Passage. in the game world.

, the characters you control can use knives and guns to fly away, instead of you can vent the stress that you dare not easily vent in real life.

2. Escape. The virtual world of games is a refuge for many people. If you don't have a good time in real life, or if you don't dare to face trouble, you will hide in the world of the game.

For example, in real life, there is social phobia.

It's lonely to have no friends, so you can be a lonely knight in the game world, or a social expert who meets the world's heroes.

3. Gain control.

If you lose control in real life, or if you are always controlled by others, you are limited by all aspects, etc., you are likely to become addicted to the game. Because in the game, you're completely God's perspective.

Take control of your character's every move, make all the choices for him, and decide his fate.

4. Improve self-confidence.

If something gives you something you don't normally get, like self-confidence, then you're addicted. This kind of game is not particularly complicated, it is all about the time invested. So as long as you are willing to put in the time and energy, you can reach a relatively high level, making you feel that you are strong in this field.

The reason why many boys are happy to play games, in fact, everyone's situation is different, and the following points can be collected for reference.

1. Share happiness. The most important thing for boys to play games is to share happiness with others, and this happiness is accomplished or may be due to their own preferences. For example, when you hear a good song, a stranger happens to tell you that you also like to listen to his song.

You will become very excited. When subjective preferences are recognized, people's interests are very pleasant, which is often the case in multiplayer games.

2. Meet the desire to integrate into the group. If your best friends and classmates are playing a certain game, and only you are not participating, you will feel a kind of pressure, which is not harmful, but it makes you feel a little empty. That's why a lot of guys like to play games.

So if you want to play with them, you can only change your attitude towards this matter in order to be consistent with the group you want to integrate into and not be the unsociable person.

3. It lets you show off your intelligence in a socially acceptable way. When you're playing well in the game and getting a good score, that's when you want to do the most: share it.

Of course, the purpose of sharing it is to prove to others that my strength is strong, and it all depends on my intelligence. However, it's good for us to control the amount of time we spend playing every day, and even though the game is so popular right now, I still only play one game a day.

After all, there are a lot of important things to do every day, and you can't just indulge in games.

Divert his interests and hobbies Playing games is his interest and hobby, but this kind of hobbies is not good, cultivate his other hobbies 2, set the rules and slowly reduce the stupid keys when playing the game Chapters 3, Bright Game reduces the time to play games. But take your time and don't be too anxious 3. Tell him your attitude solemnly When you speak, let him know that you are serious about communicating with him, and tell him that you are very distressed and unhappy about being obsessed with games.

Tell him you're angry: First of all, you have to let your boyfriend know that he doesn't care about you every night by playing games, so that you feel good. Divert his interest:

And then we have to divert his interest, and men are interested in more than just games, for example. Occupy his computer: Before he played games, he occupied his computer, and he could buy and watch movies, but he didn't give it to him.

Both boys and girls like to play games, so you should arrange your time reasonably and be able to understand boys.